Emva kokuzalwa komntwana, abazali bacinga ngokubamba i-christenings. Kucacile ukuba lo mkhuba kufuneka ulungiswe kwangaphambili, kuba kukho imiba emininzi. Unokufunda yonke into evela kubahlobo abaye babhaptiza umntwana wabo okanye ecaweni yombingeleli. Kwaye siya kuzama ukukusebenzisa kwaye sikunike ngolwazi oluyimfuneko malunga nokubhaptiza kakuhle umntwana, xa kulungele ukwenza oko kwaye kufuneka kuphekwe kulo mkhuba.
Kutheni kubalulekile ukubhaptiza umntwana?
Ubhaptizo yenye yeemeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini bomntu wamaOthodoki. Inyaniso kukuba ukubonga kule mfihlakalo, kukho ukunamathela ekukholweni kukaKristu, ukuxhamla kusekwa phakathi komntu noThixo. Ukongeza, ubhaptizo kuthetha ukuhlanjululwa kwisono sangaphambili. Ngenkqubo yesiko umntwana ubizwa ngokuba igama lobuKristu lenye yeengcwele. Ngoko ingelosi ebhaptiziweyo inelosi engumgcini oya kukhusela kumandla angabonakali amnyama aze amkhokele kumendo wenene.
Ngaliphi ixesha umntwana abhaptizwayo?
"Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubhaptiza umntwana emva kokuzalwa?" - lo mbuzo uvame ukukhathaza abazali abatsha. Ngokwenkonzo yesonto, umkhosi wobhaptizo unokwenziwa ngomhla we-8 wokuzalwa, ukuba umntwana unobuthathaka kwaye uyagula kakhulu. Kodwa unina akayi kuba nako ngenxa yokuba kuthathwa ngokuba "yinqambi". Emva kweentsuku ezingama-40 ukusuka ekuzalweni komama, umthandazo ococekileyo wokuhlanjululwa ufundwa - Umthandazo weSuku lweMashumi mane. Kuphela emva koko, unina unakho ukuya kwixesha elibalulekileyo. Kodwa ukuba usana olusana lulele okanye lugula, ubhaptizo luyenziwa nakwiintsuku zokuqala emva kokuzalwa.
Ngobani iintsuku abhaptizwayo? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubhaptiza umntwana ngexesha lokuzila?
Umvuzo wobhaptizo unokubanjelwa nangaluphi na usuku - oluqhelekileyo, oluxhomekeke okanye lokutya.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukugqiba apho ubhaptiza khona umntwana. Ukhetho lwakho lunokuwela phantsi nayiphi na icawa, kodwa ukuba ungumfundisi wendlu ethile, christen ithole kuyo. Ngamanye amaxesha i-christening yenzeka ekhaya - ukuba umntwana uyagula kakhulu.
Indlela yokukhetha oothixo?
Akufanele kube yinto engaqhelekanga kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga, kuba ootata-ntombi baya kuba ngabaqeqeshi bokomoya bakho bomntwana kwaye baya kuthatha inxaxheba ebomini bakhe, njengoko baya kunika u-godfather isithembiso sokuhola indlela yobuKristu yobomi. Qaphela ukuba oothixo abanamhlanje kufuneka babhaptizwe, bengabandakanyekanga okanye bangatshatanga.
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali abafumani "abaqeshwe" abafanelekileyo kubantwana boothixo kwaye banomdla ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba babhaptize ngaphandle koothixo. Ngelishwa, oku akunakwenzeka, kuba umntwana akanalo ukholo lwakhe, kwaye ngaba oothixo abanomlamkeli wakhe. Kuya kwanele omnye godfather: unkulunkulu umfana kunye no-godfather kule nkwenkwana.
Yintoni yokupheka i-christenings?
Ngaphambili okanye kwivenkile yecawa ungathenga ikhandlela, ithawula. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela kwiphi impahla abaza kubhaptiza ngayo umntwana. Kumele kube yipopu entsha kunye nekhati elimhlophe. Inokukhenkcezwa ngeentambo okanye ukucwenga. Umnqamlezo, ikhonkco kunye ne icon kuboniswa ngumnqamlezo.
Rite
Ekuqaleni, umkhosi wabantwana bakaThixo ophikisayo kathathu umphika uSathana kunye nazo zonke izenzo zakhe, ngoko zihlandlo ezintathu ziqinisekisa umnqweno wokuhlanganisana noKristu. Emva koko umthandazo othi "Uphawu lweTrust" ubizwa ngokuba ngumnqamlezo. Emva kokuba amanzi elele emfonini, umbingeleli uya kumthambisa umntwana ngeoli (indlebe, ibunzi, isifuba, izandla, iinyawo). Usana luhlanjululwe kwaye lulethwe kwifolda.