Abaninzi abasetyhini abakhulelweyo, emva kokuphulaphula okanye ukufunda iindaba ngokuzalwa okulula, baqala ukulangazelela indlela efanayo yokudlulisa inkqubo yokuzalwa komntwana wabo. Ndifuna nje ukwenza ukugcinwa okungekho nto yokuzala okungekho nto, akunjalo, ukuba inkokhelikazi "ayifakwe" ngemithi eyahlukahlukeneyo yentlungu kwaye yonke into iya kudlula njengephupha. Kodwa iimfihlo ezimbalwa zokuzalwa ngokukhanya zikhoyo. Nangona kunjalo, umntu akufanele acinge ukuba ulwazi kunye nokuzaliseka kwabo kuya kunceda kwiimeko ezithile. Oku kunenhlanhla.
Kuthetha ukuthini igama elithi "ukuzalwa okulula"?
Le ngcamango yindawo yendawo, kodwa ingqalelo enkulu ekungabikho kokungeniswa kwezonyango kunye nonyango kwinkqubo yokuzalwa komntwana. Kwaye kufuneka ukuba kwenzeke ixesha elimisiweyo, ukuzisa ubuncinane ubunzima kwaye uphele ngokuzalwa komntwana ophilileyo. Umama usoloko unomdla kwindlela yokwenza lula ukuzalwa kwaye ungakhathazeki ngenxa yokudinwa kunye nentlungu. Kodwa kwakhona kufuneka ukwazi ukuba intlungu yesibhambathiso kumfazi ngamnye ngumntu ngamnye. Yingakho bonke abantu bekho imithetho yokulungiselela ukubeleka lula. Ngezantsi zizithandwa kakhulu kubo.
Ukuqokelela ulwazi malunga nendlela yokudlulisa abasebenzi ngokulula
Ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo ukwesaba kokuzalwa okuzayo, ibhinqa kufuneka lichithe ixesha lifunde indlela efanayo. Kubalulekile ukuqokelela ubuninzi beenkcukacha malunga naluphi na amanyathelo kwinkqubo yokuzalwa komntwana, ngethuba elingakanani elowo alula, indlela yokuziphatha kwinqanaba elithile, njalo njalo. Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba konke uMama uya kuba ngumprofeti, kodwa ukwazi ikusasa kuyakhuthaza kakhulu.
Gymnastics for births
Kwiintsuku zokugqibela zokukhulelwa, abaninzi abafazi bathanda ukulala phantsi okanye bahlale, bavuselela ngokuzihlanganisa. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kuvela, oku kungalunganga. Kukho konke okuqinileyo kwemisebenzi yobumnene, kwaye ukuba wenza wena ngokwesaba okanye uvila, ke fumana umqeqeshi omhle ngamava afanelekileyo.
Ukuphefumla kakuhle - ukuhanjiswa okulula nokukhawuleza
Iingcali zincoma ukuba zihambe kunye nganye ngokulwa nokuphefumula. Ekuphumeni, kukufanele ukuphefumla ngendlela yendalo kunye nolwazileyo. Xa uqhuba uxinzelelo, kubakho imfuneko ukuba uphucule kwaye uphumelele emoyeni, okuthintela ukuphuka.
Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha nokuziphatha ngokomoya kokukhulelwa okulula kunye nokuzalwa okulula
Lo mbandela kufuneka unikwe ingqwalasela ephezulu. Yaye kungekhona kuphela umama ozayo, kodwa zonke izinto ezikuyo. Inendima ebaluleke kakhulu idlaliswa ngumoya wobunzima obunzima, ohamba kunye nokuzithemba, amandla akho kunye nobukho bobuhlobo. Kwakhona, ukwazi nokuqonda intsingiselo yenkqubo yokuhambisa , ukuqonda ukungaqiniseki kwayo kunye nokuba umntwana uya kuba nzima kakhulu, kufuneka amise umama ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Abantu abakholwayo bathabatha amandla kunye nokuzithemba ekukhulekeleni ukuzalwa okulula, ukutyelela umcebisi wabo woMoya, kunye nokubonakalisa ixesha elide kunye neengcinga ezintle malunga nosana lwabo oluzayo. Abantu abanoyiko ngokukhethekileyo bazama ukuba baqhelanise kunye neengceba ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuzalwa okulula ezinokusebenza ngokuzimeleyo okanye ngoncedo lwabangaphandle.
Kwakhona, abaninzi abafazi abakhulelweyo baqala ukuzijonga ekukhanyeni kokubeletha. Lo msebenzi ongenasiphelo, apho bakhuthazwa ngamabali "abafazi" abanokuzala. Kungcono ukufumana iimfuno zokuzalwa okulula ezivela kwiintsapho kunye nabahlobo, uzilungiselele ngokuziphatha nangokwenyama, ngaphandle kokuchitha ixesha.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukwenzela ukuba abasebenzi bahambe ngokulula, kwanele nje ukuthetha nomntwana ongakazalwa kwaye umcele ukuba angathuthuzi umama ixesha elide. Amanye amabhinqa ekubelekeni nje oku kukhuthaza ukukhulelwa kwabo okulula. Kukho nawuphi na, ukuzalwa kwesi-2 kulula kunokuqala , okuyiyona nto ivuselelekileyo!