Ukuzimelela

Kukho abantu abahamba ebomini, abajonge ngapha nangapha, bengaboni abanye. Abantu abanjalo abazicingeli ukuba kunzima kubo ukuva intliziyo yommelwane wabo, ukuzicingela endaweni yakhe. Ngaphezu koko, ngamanye amaxesha, batshaba abanye, behamba ngeenyawo zabo, bathetha ngokuthe ngqo, kwiintloko zabo, becinga ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo. Abantu abanjalo banabo boqobo kwindawo yokuqala, izigwebo zabo kunye nembono yokujonga. Le nto ibizwa ngokuba yi-egocentrism.

Ngoko, i-egocentrism ayiyiyo ingqondo yengqondo, kodwa isimo somntu, esibonakala ngokugxininisa ngokupheleleyo kumava, imibono, intshisekelo, njl njl. Umntu ongobuchule akakwazi ukuthatha nokuqwalasela ulwazi oluphikisana namava akhe, kuquka nokuvela kwabanye. Oko kukuthi, u-egocentrism ukungakwazi ukubeka kwindawo yomnye umntu, ukungakwazi "ukuhlala kwesikhumba somnye umntu," ukungafuni ukuthobela ukuthanda nokuthanda kwakhe.

Ukubonakaliswa kwe-egocentrism

I-Psychology isebenzisa umqondo othi "i-egocentrism" emva kokuqaliswa nguJean Piaget ukuchaza ukucinga okufana nabantwana abaneminyaka eyi-8-10 ubudala.

I-Egocentrism ibonakala ngokucacileyo ebusaneni kwaye iyanqotshwa iminyaka eyi-11-14. Kodwa, njengommiselo, ekuguga kwakhona kuphinda kuqiniswe lo mbandela wokucinga.

I-Egocentrism kwiimilinganiselo eziqinileyo zobunzima ziyaqhubeka kwabanye abantu kunye nangeminyaka ekhulileyo.

Sichaza iimeko kunye neemeko ezichaphazela ukuba ngaba umntu uya kuba ngumntu okhulile okanye akuthi:

1. Umntwana kuphela kwintsapho.
2. Omncinane kubazalwana okanye odade.
3. Umntwana osemva.
4. Unina olawulayo.
5. Ukutyekela ukutshatyalaliswa.
6. Ilungelo lelungelo lombuso lusebenza kakhulu kunokuba kusekhohlo.
7. Ukunganakwa kwabazali, ngokukodwa, umama, kumntwana.
8. Imithintelo emininzi yobuncinane ebuntwaneni.

Kodwa akukho nanye yezi zinto asiyiyo isizathu sokugqibela. kwiintlobo ezininzi iingcinezelo ze-egocentrism kumntu, kuxhomekeka kwiimpawu zomntu ngokwakhe.

Ukuzingca nokuzimela

Nangona iimbono ezixhaphakileyo, kodwa i-egocentrism ayikho into efanayo okanye ifom, iqondo lokuzingca. Ngoko, umzekelo, u-egoist ubona ihlabathi elikujikelezile njengenkundla yomzabalazo wembono yakhe, ngenxa yakhe. Kwiimeko ezininzi, unomdla wokujonga uluntu olujikelezileyo njengeentshaba, okanye njengabantu abathintekayo ukuba bafune ukukhuphisana nokulwa. Endleleni yokufikelela kwisiphumo esifunekayo, umntu ozigubungelayo, ngokungakaze adlule, usebenzisa igama elithi "Ukuphela kulungelelanisa iindlela".

I-egocentric, kwakhona, ibona ihlabathi elikumzungezile njengommandla oluthandwa nguye kwaye liphazamiseka yiengxaki zakhe. Ngaphandle koko, ukholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba oku kufanele kube njalo.

Ngenxa yesimo sengqondo esithile, abantu abajikelezileyo baqaphela kalula ukuzingca. Kodwa i-egocentrism ekuqaleni kokubona ngomntu ongaqhelekanga ongabonakaliyo uza kubonakalisa njengomntu onobungane, onyanisekileyo. Oku kuza kudlula kude kubekho imeko eya kubangela umntu ozimeleyo ukuba enze imibingelelo. Kodwa i-egocentric ayilungele le nto, kuba, ngombono wakhe, kuya kubingelelwa, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akayiyo.

Ngokomyinge, i-egocentrism yowesifazane yinto eqhelekileyo yokudibanisa igama ehambelana nenyaniso kunokuba "yindoda egocentrism". Enyanisweni, ngokwexabiso elifanelekileyo, olo hlobo luyingxenye encinci yobunqunu.

Indlela yokujongana ne-egocentrism?

Nge-egocentrism akunakwenzeka ukulwa ade umntu aqaphele ukuba ufuna ukulahla. Nokuba intando enhle yoqobo, okanye iimeko ezitshintshile apho kungalungile ukusebenzisa ukucinga kwakhe okukhethekileyo, kunokusindisa umntu ekubeni acinge ngokucinga.

Ukuba kwenzeka ukuba ugugu luyabonwa kumntu osondelene nawe, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele kunye nomonde ukuphakamisa iingcamango zakho malunga nokupheliswa kwe-egocentrism kuyo.