Ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye siqokelela yonke imithwalo yempahla ethile. Ukuze sikhusele i-psyche kwiimvakalelo zokungazaliseki okanye ukuphazamiseka, ukuziphatha kwethu kulawulwa ziindlela ezizodwa ezibhekiselele kumntu ngamnye. Nangona kunjalo, uphando oluninzi lweendlela zokukhuselwa kwengqondo yomntu kubonisa ukuba imisebenzi yalo iphikisana. Nangona bebanceda umntu ukuba azivumelanise nehlabathi lakhe elingaphakathi, ukukhuselwa kwengqondo kubangelwa kukukhathaza ukuqina kwakhe kwimeko yangaphandle (yentlalo).
Izindlela zokukhusela ngokwengqondo
Makhe sihlale kwiimpawu zendlela eziphambili zokukhusela ngokwengqondo:
- Ukuhlawulelwa okanye ukuzama ukulwa nokusilela. Kwaye bobabini beyinyani kwaye bacinga. Le yindlela engaziwayo ehambelana nomnqweno wethu wokufikelela kwindawo ethile. Imizekelo yale ndlela yokukhusela kwengqondo iyinto eqhelekileyo: khumbula iziimvumi eziziimfama ezidumileyo okanye abaculi abaziimfama. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, indlela efana nayo ingabonakaliswa ayifanelekanga ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko, umzekelo, umntu okhubazekileyo uya kuphumelela kwimidlalo yeParalympic, kwaye enye iya kuhlawulela ukukhuseleka ngokugqithisa ngokweqile.
- Sublimation. Leli gama lokutshintsha iimpembelelo ezingafunekiyo (ulwaphulo-mthetho, amandla angaselulanga ngesini) kwezinye iindidi zomsebenzi ochaphazelekayo kuluntu. Ngokomzekelo, ugonyamelo lunokuthi lube nesigxina kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo, njl. NgokukaFrud, ukuhlanjululwa komhlaba, njengendlela yokukhusela ngokwengqondo, kukutshintshwa kwamandla ngokwesini ngamanye amaxwebhu (non-zesini) kunye neenjongo. Yona yamandla okubhenkxa ekhangeleka kakhulu kwimpembelelo .
- Ukuqhawulwa kwindlela yokukhusela kwengqondo yomntu, apho umntu ehlukanisa iimvakalelo zakhe ngokuqonda kwinto eyenzekayo. Ndiyabulela kule ndlela, umzekelo, ugqirha unokukwazi ukuzibonakalisa ekubandezelekeni kwesigulane, ngelixa ehlala epholile ngexesha lokusebenza, kwaye umhlanguli uya kubuthana, unakekele abo basasafuna uncedo.
- Ukungahambi ngenye yezindlela zokuqala zokukhusela ngokwengqondo zomntu. Ngoko, njengomntwana, sifihlile kwiimonti ngaphantsi kwengubo, kangangokuthi bayeka ukuba khona kwizinto zethu (okucinga). Kubomi bomdala, ukuxhatshazwa kusetyenziswa rhoqo ngexesha leengxaki, xa sibhekene nokufa, umzekelo.
- Ukunyanzeliswa. Umzekelo obalaseleyo ngowendlela yokuziphatha komntwana wokuqala, kwimeko yokubonakala komntwana wesibini. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana bokuqala baqala ukuziphatha njengabantwana abancinci ukujamelana nokukhathazeka kwengqondo. Wena. kukho ukungafumani ukubuyela kumgangatho wangaphambili wokulungiswa.
- Projection. Kule meko, siyaqaphela okanye sibeke ezinye izinto kunye neengcamango okanye iiminqweno esizichasa zona. "Akayiboni ikhonkco elisehlweni lakhe," - malunga nale meko.
Ukongezelela koku ngasentla, kukho iindlela ezinjalo zokukhusela ngokwengqondo njengengqondo, ukufuduka , ukutshintshwa okanye ukulungiswa kokusebenza . Kwiimeko ezahlukileyo, i-psyche yethu ikhetha imisebenzi eyahlukileyo, kodwa enye inokulawula ukuguqulwa kolwazi olungalunganga. Kukho iimvavanyo ezizodwa, ngokweziphumo apho uza kubeka khona iindlela zokusetyenziswa kwengqondo ngokukhusela rhoqo.