Imbono yokuba amadoda ngesondo nje kuphela inkqubo ayilunganga, kuba abathandi abancinci abasetyhini abafana ne-caresses. Umntu ngamnye unendawo yakhe engummangaliso, kodwa kukho indawo eziqhelekileyo ezinokuthintela kumalungu esini esahlukileyo. Abasetyhini abaninzi, ingakumbi abanamava, banomdla nokuba ngaba amadoda bathandana ngesondo nomlomo kunye nendlela yokunyanga umntu okhethiweyo. Abaninzi bezocansi bacebisa ukuba bafunde umzimba weqabane, umzekelo, ungasebenzisa intsiba, okufuneka uhambe ngayo kunye nomzimba weqabane, ukhangele indlela awayeyithandayo ngayo.
Luhlobo luni lwabantu abathandayo?
Ngokutsho kweengcaphephe malunga nomzimba wesilisa kunemihlaba engaphantsi kwemihlaba, kunokuba kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba yimaphi amaphuzu kufuneka avuselelwe ukuba athabathe iqabane.
Yintoni umntu ayithandayo kwi-caresses:
- Ekubeni kukho iziphelo ezininzi zesibindi, ngoko ke umntu uya kujongela kunye nokuhluthwa kwe-banal. Imvakalelo iyimilebe, indlebe kunye nesikhumba emva kweendlebe.
- Inani elikhulu lamadoda liyancibilika xa liwanga embanyeni kwaye intsingiselo enkulu yintamo yentamo.
- Inani elikhulu lokuphela kwesibindi esesifubeni somntu, ngoko ke kunye nefuthe elikhanyayo, uyavuya. Kukwacetyiswa kwakhona ukunyamezela ulwimi lwenkobe yomntu.
- Abantu abaninzi banomdla nokuba ngaba amadoda bathanda i-caresses, ngenxa yokuba lo mbuzo uphaphaza kwaye bambalwa abaza kucela ngokuthe ngqo. Iiseli ezinomdla zitholakala kumntu ohlala kuloo ndawo ukusuka kwisihlunu ukuya kwi-anus. Kubalulekile ukukhathala kule ndawo ngokucophelela. Ukuba umntu uyayiphendula kakuhle, ngoko unokuzama ukukhathaza i-anus ngokwayo.
- Isisu asinakubizwa ngokuba yindawo ebalulekileyo ye-caresses, kodwa ukuba ngexesha lokuqala ukwenza imivimbo, ukunyuka ukusuka phezulu ukuya ezantsi ukusuka kwi-pubic ukuya kwintonga, unokwandisa umdla.
- Awukwazi ukuphosakela enye yezona ndawo zithandwa kakhulu kwi-caresses-back. Kunconywa ukuba uphawule ulusu emlanjeni, kunye nommandla phakathi kwamahlombe.
- Ukuthetha malunga nokuba abantu bathanda i-frank caress, akunakwenzeka ukuphosakela ukuvuselelwa kwezesondo, ngenxa yokuba ivumela umntu ukuba abe nolonwabo olukhulu. Kungcono ukukhetha ukunyanzelisa kodwa ukunyakaza okukhulu. Khumbula ukuba inzondelelo yintloko yentloko.
Emva kokunika imihlaba ecacisiwe imizuzu engama-5, ngokuqinisekileyo lo mfazi uya kufumana umbulelo ngenxa yolonwabo .