Phantse bonke babe neemeko, xa befuna ukulala ngesondo, kodwa akukho ndawo. Emva koko kwikhosi iindawo ezizolileyo zeepaki, imida emva kumabhayisikobho, ama-elevator kunye namangene. Kodwa kubantu abathile, ubukhulu besini obungasigxina ngesondo buhlala kunye nokufumana indawo yokuhlala.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kwindawo kawonkewonke kuqhelekileyo?
Yaye yintoni enokuba yinto engavamile yokulala ngesondo kwiindawo ezingekho phantsi? Ukuhlaselwa komdla kungabhalela nabani na, akukho nto ekhethekileyo malunga nale nto. Kwaye akufanelekile ukulibala malunga nabathandi bezindlu-ebusuku. Abantu abaninzi balala ngesondo kwiindawo zoluntu ukuze bahluke ubomi babo obusondeleyo kwaye baphinde bavuselele umnqweno we-pent-up. Kodwa abanye babo benza le nto yokuzonwabisa, ngoku i ntshukumo ye-Doggers ikhula ngokukhawuleza. Abantu baqhelana kwi-intanethi kwaye bavumelana ngendawo kunye nexesha lezenzo zorhulumente, kodwa akufaneleki ukuba naluphi na iintlanganiso zokuqala. Lapha, akusiyo umcimbi wokonwaba, okwenzekayo xa kunokwenzeka ukuba ubanjwe, kodwa ngomnqweno wokubonisa ihlabathi ngokwawo ngendlela enomdla.
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni isizathu esenza umntu aqhube ngesondo kwindawo kawonkewonke, i-sexologists inoluvo lwabo kulo mbandela. Bakholelwa ukuba oku kukubonakalisa ukuthambekela komboniso, nto leyo nganye ichazwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Uvuyo lomntu omnye lukhula xa eyazi ukuba ukhangelwa (okanye kuya kwenzeka), kunye nabanye abantu abakwazi ukufumana omnye nomnye kunye naye, bafuna ababukeli nje. Kwimeko yokugqibela, kucacile ukuba ufuna uncedo lwenzululwazi, ngoko asiyi kuqwalasela, kodwa makhe sithethe ngala maxesha apho abantu bafuna ukuzama into entsha kwizesondo.
Ndingalala phi na ngesondo?
Njengoko uqeqesho lubonisa, ungalala ngesondo apho ufuna khona: kwi-cinema, kwieteksi, kwizothutho zoluntu - abantu bafumana ezininzi iindawo kunye namathuba okuthatha umhlalaphantsi.
- Ibhantshi mhlawumbi iyindawo ethandwa kakhulu phakathi kweendawo zoluntu ngesondo. Kungcono ukwenza oko kusasa okanye ngokuhlwa. Kwaye kukho amancinci amangqina, kwaye umoya uthanda kakhulu, kwaye awuyi kufumana ilanga. Kodwa ukuba ukhetha ibhantshi lommolophu ukuze wenze uthando, khumbula ukuba kungcono ukuba ungadlulisi iimvavanyo zakho kumanzi - ngamanzi angcolileyo apho, kwiindawo ezincinci kunye nenkunkuma yobomi babantu kungekho nto inqongophala.
- Olunye indawo eyaziwayo ziivenkile kunye neengqungquthela zeepaki. Yonke into engekho embi - ebudeni bombundu kunye neengqungquthela zithandani eziluhlaza ziya kukhupha loo mbonakalo. Akunjengokuthandana njengoko kubonakala ngathi (iifolo, udoti, iimbotyi) ngqo kwindawo yengca, ngoko ukhethe ukuhlala kwindawo yokuhlala (ibhentshi) okanye ukuma (ngomthi).
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba ungathethi ngee-nightclubs - izindlu zangasese zabo zikhethwe ngabantu abaninzi abanomonde. Akukho nto inokuncedwa, iifilimi zaseNtshona zibeka ngokusemthethweni ukusetyenziswa kwamathoyilethi ngenjongo yokuzonwabisa.
- Ubundlobongela kwi-mall yintsikelelo eyithandayo kubantu abaninzi. Ufuna ukungena kwinani labo, khetha amasebe aneempahla, ezizele abathengi. Emva koko ingqalelo yabathengisi emagumbini afanelekileyo akuyi kubakho.
- I-cinema, imigqa yokugqibela, indawo yokubanga-konke njengokuba kuyenzelwe abathandi. Iiseshoni ezifanelekileyo zihamba emini, kungekhona abaninzi ababukeli. I-posture engcono ihleli ngobuso bakho okanye umva wakho kumlingane wakho. I-caresses yomlomo nayo yamkelekile. Kodwa awukwazi ukuhlala phantsi yedwa kwiholo. Iifowuni, ifestile ifakwe ngamakhethini anzima, isikhala emva kwesikrini sinokukunceda ukuba uzalise imfesane yakho.
- Eminye imiphefumlo enobugorha yenza isigqibo sokulala ngesitalato. Omnye ufihlile kwiiyadi kunye nemigxobho emnyama, kunye nomntu kwimoto yakhe.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo kunye nokukhethwa kwindlela - ukuhamba ngomzila ixesha elide, akukho nto enokuyenza, kodwa ukuba uyayisebenzisa
iingubo, ngoko ke kwisihlalo esilondoloziweyo unokuzidonga udonga kubamelwane kunye nokuzibandakanya kwimisebenzi enomdla kunokuba ubukele indawo engaphandle kwefestile.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa ubanjwa?
Kukho iindlela ezimbini apha: ukuqhubeka okanye ukuthatha umhlalaphantsi. Ukuba uqaphele, kodwa, xa usumkrekrele, udlulile, akukho nto inokukhathazeka ngayo. Kodwa apha, ukuba ngabapenshini abaqaphileyo okanye amapolisa akwenza ukuba ube ngumlomo, ngoko kuya kufuneka unqume. Amanqaku avimbela ukulala ngesidlangalaleni, hayi, kodwa abalindi bomyalelo banokukukhanga ngenxa yezinto ezinqabileyo. Kwaye oku kusongela ngentlawulo okanye kwiintsuku ezili-15. Ngoko qaphela.