Indoda ethandekayo, ngamnye umfazi akufanele abe ngumthandi nje kuphela, umhlobo onokuvuya ngexesha lokuphelelwa lithemba kwaye ujabule kwixesha lonwabo , kunye nesidlo esingenakulinganiswa ebhedini. Oko kufuneka ukuba ube nakho ukwenza ubusuku bonke bube bhetele kuneyaphambilana kukufunda indlela yokuba yinkosikazi efanelekileyo. Ukuze ufezekise oko kuyifunayo, kubalulekile ukuba ufune ukuba kungekhona nje ukuba unelisekile, kodwa uziva ngathi unkulunkulukazi.
Indlela yokuba yinkosikazi enhle kumntu?
- Inkqubo nganye yokwenza uthando akufanele ilandele into efanayo, imeko esele yenzeke ixesha elide: ilala kwaye iyanandipha, kwaye isebenza kanzima okanye nangona kunjalo. Ubundlobongela abukho nje ukudibana kwamalungu amabini, ubugcisa bothando, ukuhlangana ngokomoya. Ubuncinane amaxesha amaninzi kwinyanga kubalulekile ukuzisa into entsha kwindawo ebusondeleyo. Ingaba ngesondo se-tantric, ukuxubusha kunye nezinto ze-BDSM, imidlalo yokudlala indima kunye nezinto.
- Ubundlobongela bobulili kuphela lunokubangela ukuzonwabisa ngokubambisana kwabo bobabini. Umthandi omhle ebhedini lomntu otshatileyo nguye owaziyo ubuthathaka bakhe, okanye indawo ephosakeleyo. Okokuqala, akusikho indawo yokuzama ukuyenza: ukunyamezela intamo yakhe, umquba ngaphezu kweengxuma zakhe, ummandla phakathi kwamahlombe akhe, iindlebe, iingxowa, iintambo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba luhlobo luni lokubanga kwaye apho uqobo engenaye ingqondo. Vumela ulwazi olunolwazi lube yinto yakho eyimfihlo.
- Ekubhedeni, ungabi naluhanahanisi. Ukuba awuyithandi into, kubalulekile ukwazisa iqabane lakho ngendlela enomusa. Kubalulekile nokuba uziphatha ngendlela efanayo.
- Kubalulekile ukukhankanya elinye iphuzu elibalulekileyo: amadoda afana namaso. Kwaye oku kubonisa ukuba kubalulekile ukulandela umzimba wakho kwaye ubale. Akukhona nje ukuxakeka kwemigangatho efanelekileyo, kodwa kunye neendlela ezinomsoco, ubisi oluqholiweyo okanye ukutshiza umzimba. Ukongezelela, akusikho indawo yokuzalisa ikhabethe lakho nge-sexy negligee , izitokisi ezikhohlisayo kunye nesethi yeengubo zangaphantsi.