Ingxaki yokunyaniseka komntu omdala ayifuni kwisantya esifanayo - iingcambu zayo zivela ebuntwaneni. Umntwana onamahloni akangabangeli iingxaki ekukhuliseni, ngoko ke uthathwa njengomzekelo wokulingisa kwaye kuphela ngeminyaka lo mlingiswa uqala ukukhathazeka.
Kutheni umntwana ehlazekile?
Izizathu zentsana ukuba zibe neentloni, ezimbalwa kwaye zichongiwe azikwazi ukuhlala zihlala. Umntwana uyazithemba ukuba:
- unesimo sezinto eziphilayo, esizuzwe ngabazali abanentloni;
- kwintsapho, ingxaki ihlekisiwe xa umntwana onamahloni engamkeli inkxaso kwaye imeko iyancipha;
- Umntwana wayebunzima kuye imeko (ukufudukela kwindawo entsha yokuhlala, ukutshintsha izikolo, ukufa kwezihlobo);
- uhlala ecatshulwa esikolweni , ekhethileyo ukugculelwa.
Iingcebiso zentlonelo zabantwana kubazali
Umntwana uyazithemba - into enokuyenza kule meko ayisoloko icacile, kuba kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwixesha kunye neenkcukacha zeengxaki. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba umntwana unqikaze ukuphendula kwisifundo, okanye ingxaki ivele kwiminyaka yasemasimini, kukho iindlela ezininzi eziya kubavumela abazali ukuba bathe mbe mbelelo kwimeko. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa le ndlela ngendlela efanayo kunye nokungayeki, ukukhangela iindlela ezintsha:
- Abantwana abakhulileyo banokuthetha ngeentloni zabo, ezenzeka ebomini babazali. Ukuba umntwana uyazi ukuba akaye yedwa kumava akhe, kuya kuba lula kuye ukunqoba intloni.
- Xa umntwana engabaza kwi-kindergarten, amathuba okwenza ukuba intlalontle iphakame kakhulu. Mndwendwela rhoqo kwiindawo zoluntu: kwimiboniso, kwiseksi, kumabhinqa abantwana ukuba anethuba elininzi lokunxibelelana ngangokunokwenzeka. Kulungile, ukuba inkunzi yenkwenkwezi "igxininise" kunye nabahlobo bakhe, abaza kuba neenjongo ezifanayo.
- Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza umntwana onamahloni ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe , ukubonisa intetho ekunxibelelaneni, ngenguqu encinci yenguqu.
- Akukho mfuneko ukuba umntwana onamahloni avele kubazali nakumalungu entsapho naluphi na ukugculelwa kwidilesi yabo malunga neentloni, intetho engalunganga, ukungabi nolwazi lwamaqiniso awaziwayo.
- Ukulungisa le meko, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa imidlalo yokudlala indima kunye nebhokhwe , apho iimeko eziyingozi kakhulu ezisetyenziswayo.
Namahloni abantwana beminyaka yobudala
Xa umntwana onamahloni e-kindergarten eneentloni ukuxelela inkondlo okanye ukudanisa ngomama, abadala (abazali, ootitshala) bazama ukulungisa imeko. Kodwa endaweni yengane iya kuba yinto engakumbi. Ekubeni bemizi, umntwana uziva ekhuselekileyo xa evala i-epithets kwidilesi yakhe. Ukuba ufumene indlela efanelekileyo (kwaye kukulungele ukuyenza ngosizo lwenzululwazi yengqondo yomntwana), ngoko uneminyaka engama-5 kuyinto enokwenene yokunciphisa ukuthozama okukhulu.
Iintlanzi ezikolweni
Ukuba umntwana unqikaza ukuphendula kwisifundo, ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo iquka ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo okuquka:
- tyelela intetho yeengcali kunye nentetho echanekileyo;
- Iiklasi kwiingcamango zokuphuhlisa ukucinga;
- isimo sengqondo esihle kumntwana kwintsapho;
- nesimo esifanelekileyo sokufunda;
- ukutyelela imijikelezo eyahlukeneyo yomdla, udibaniso oluninzi lwabaontanga.
Umntwana onamahloni - njani ukunqoba uloyiko loqhagamshelwano
Iingcali zeengqondo zezingane ziyazi indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba angabi namahloni, kodwa abazali babo baya kulandela iinconywa zabo, kuba umntwana uyazithemba kakhulu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu nelula ukuba isihlobo sinokunika umntwana unxibelelwano. Ixesha elithe xa libona kunye, xa iiklasi zenza umdla wokwenene wamacandelo omabili, unako ukulindela. Kuba iincwadana ezincinci kunye neemeko zemidlalo ziya kuba luncedo olukhulu kulwisana nokuhlazeka.
Imidlalo yokudlala abantwana abangenamahloni
Kukho imidlalo eyahlukeneyo yabantwana abanamahloni, okuya kunceda umntwana ukuba akhululeke ngakumbi. Kufuneka usebenzise izihlandlo eziliqela ngemini, rhoqo uhamba kunye nokukhetha ezintsha:
- "Amanconywa", "Owona Mhle", "Wission". Le midlalo ikhulisa ukuzithemba kwabantwana, ekuncediseni ukwandisa isigama kunye nokukwazi ukuphulaphula izimvo ezintle kwidilesi zabo.
- I-Zoo. Umdlalo onjalo uza kunceda umntwana aguqulwe ebuntwini obuthathaka abe yingonyama aze akwazi ukuthetha aze alwe nesilwanyana esinamandla.
- "Phendula, ungagxothi!", "Thatha ibhola." Ukhuphiswano olunjalo lwezemidlalo lufanelekile kulabo abalahlekileyo xa bayiqwalasela.
- "Iimpahla zokuphila", "Ndibambe". Le midlalo ijoliswe ekukhululweni kwentetho.
- "I-Geese ne-Wolf". Ngo kunceda kwimidlalo yokusebenza yangaphandle, abantwana bafunda ukukhulula uxinzelelo olungadingekile.
Iingoma zezingane zeentloni
Xa abazali bengayazi indlela yokunyamekela umntwana, izazi zeengqondo zicebisa ukuba sisebenzise unyango lwe-fairytale . Ukufumana abadlali abathandayo kunye nokuzibonakalisa kunye nabo kwiimeko ezinzima, ezifana neyinyani, ukuqeqeshwa okunjalo kubhetele kakhulu kubantwana abaphakathi kweminyaka emithathu nesikhombisa. Iindidi ezahlukeneyo zeendlovukazi, ukudlala ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo kunokufumaneka kwi-network yonxibelelwano okanye zenziwe ngokuzimela. Into ephambili kukuba bafanele babe neengxelo ezilula kunye nesigqibo esinengqiqo. Umntwana onamahloni onamahloni