Kutheni umyeni engafuni abantwana? Utshatile ixesha elide, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ekufikeni komntwana, umyeni wakho ngokukhawuleza ushiya le ngxoxo. Okanye kwintsapho yakho sele inomntwana omncinci, kwaye ucinga ukufumana okwesibini, kodwa umyeni wakhe akavumelani nawe kwaye akafuni umntwana. Olu luhlu lunokuqhubeka ngonaphakade, kodwa zama ukujongana nayo yonke into ngokulandelelana. Okokuqala kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni umyeni wakho ezimisele kwaye akafuni abantwana.
Iimbono zexesha lonke lomtshato, amadoda ayenayo eyaneleyo, ngoko ke ukuba umyeni wakho ekutshela ukuba akafuni umntwana, ngenxa yokuba kufuneka ugcine imali kuqala kwaye unyuke ezinyaweni zakho, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngale nto kwaye uqonde ukuba kutheni imeko ngale ndlela. Amadoda ayesoloko esaba yonke into entsha, okanye oko kuphula izicwangciso zabo. Kodwa uninzi lwabo bonke bayesaba uxanduva. Zama ukuchazela umthandi wakho ukuba akuyiyo yonke into eyoyikisayo, kwaye akukho namnye oya kucima uhambo oluya kwisixeko, okanye ukuloba kunye nabahlobo, ekuzalweni komntwana.
Abasetyhini bahlelwe ukuba kuninzi kunaphambili kunesondo esomeleleyo, ekhulile, emzimbeni nasengqondweni. Yingakho abafazi, bahlala becinga ngabantwana, kunokuba baqabane babo. Injongo yomfazi okhaliphile, ukutyhila ukwesaba umntu, kwaye uqonde ukuba unentloni. Oko kukuthi, kufuneka afune ukuba umyeni wakhe akafuni umntwana, okanye ucinga nje ukuba akusiyo ixesha lokuzalisa intsapho.
Iingxabano kunye neenkcukacha kumyeni ongafuni umntwana
Khumbula ukuba indoda yakho ethandekayo, akunjalo, ayikwazi ukutyholwa nantoni na, kwaye akukho namnye onokunyanzelisa. Ngaloo ndlela, ubeka nje imeko kwintsapho yakho, kwaye indoda iyomeleza kwingcamango yokuba akafuni umntwana. Kwintetho enzulu, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo iingcamango zakho, kwaye uphikisane konke okuthethayo. Ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, chaza kuye ukuba ufuna umntwana kuye. Yaye le ntliziyo ayizange iphakame kunye nawe nawaphi na amadoda akho. Kumele kushukunywe kwaye idibanise.
Kwakhona ingxabano enzima kufuneka ibe ngumdala, bobabini nabasetyhini. Chaza kuye ukuba ngaphezu kweminyaka, umgangatho wesilisa ukhula ngakumbi, kwaye unemihla engaphantsi kweentsuku ezinqabileyo. Ngoko, ngo-33 ubudala, kukho i-4-5 kubo. Ukuba ubonisa amalungiselelo avumelekileyo ngokubanzi, emva koko kufuneka acinge ngomntwana, kuba izibalo zididekile.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kumbandela wezemali, kulungele ukuqonda ngokucokisekileyo, kuba umntwana ngumnandi kakhulu, kwaye ukuba ngelo xesha awunayo imali enomdla, kungcono ukuba ungaphuthuli ngokukhulelwa komntwana. Ukongezelela, esi sizathu esihle sokuba umyeni wakho ngelo xesha angenakufuna ukuba nabantwana.
Ukuba indoda ayifuni umntwana wesibini
Udinga ukuphikisa umnqweno wakho ngaphandle kwemvakalelo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, phulaphula iingxabano zomyeni wakhe. Unganqikazi ukubuza umbuzo malunga nomntwana wesibini. Kwaye ukuba indoda ingayifuni umntwana, nokuba yintoni na, phulaphula, kwaye uyiqonde, ukuze angakuphenduli. Ukuba zonke izinto zihlala kwimali, mcele ukuba aqale ukuhlehliswa, okanye ukufumana indawo ekhululekile kunye nebala. Kwakhona sebenzisa amaqhinga amabhinqa. Mxelele ukuba unetalente yokuba nguyise omhle, kwaye lixesha lokucinga ngomntwana wesibini. Zoba
Ukulinda umntwana
Ukugxininiswa kweli shishini akunakwenzeka, nangona uceba nje ukukhulelwa umntwana. Khumbula njalo ukuba awunayo nje into yokuba unomntwana, kodwa ukuba unomntwana, uvela kumyeni wakho othandekayo. Kodwa uthando, njengokuba lukholelwa ngokuqhelekileyo, luvakalelo olukhulu, kwaye lusebenza ezimangalisayo. Khumbula ukuba ukukhulelwa kuhle, kwaye akufanele kube ngumthwalo kuwe kwaye ube ngumthwalo. Musa ukucinga ukuba uya kuba ngcono okanye ube mabi, konke oku kulungiswayo, kungcono ukubala iintsuku ezifanelekileyo zokukhulelwa komntwana wakho.