Ukuba uyazi ukuba umyeni wakho unkosikazi kwaye wayezibuza indlela yokumhlula kuye, ke le nqaku iyakwakho.
Kutheni amadoda ephosa?
Mhlawumbi umyeni wakho akakwazi ukumelana nesilingo sokuzama into entsha. Kodwa, mhlawumbi ukuba udibene nentsapho, ubalekele ngawe kwaye ngoko ke waqala ukutsala ngaphantsi. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bafuduka, baqala ukungena emsebenzini. Hlaziya indlela oziphatha ngayo, yintoni eyatshintshile ukususela ekugqibeleni wenze uthando kunye nokuhlwithwa. Zama ukubuyela ebomini bakho kubalulekile kuzo zombini izihlandlo. Ukuba ucinga nje ukuba umyeni wakho uyinkosikazi, mhlawumbi uvakalelwa kukuba ulungele intsha entsha. Kule meko, kufuneka ucime umyeni wakho wokwenzela uthando kunye novelwano. Ewe, kwaye, ngokwenene, uzikhathalele. Ukuba awuzange uzive njengowesifazane ixesha elide, kutheni kufuneka umntu akuqwalasele?
Ukongeza kwiinguqu zangaphandle nangaphakathi, zama iindlela ezilandelayo:
Umthandazo
Ngexesha lokuphelelwa lithemba, nangona bangakholwayo ngaphambili, abantu bahlala bephendukela kuThixo. Unokufunda imithandazo yokuguqula umyeni wakho kwindlovukazi , ubuyele kwinqanaba leentsapho. Okokuqala, qalisa ngo "uBawo wethu", kuba lo mnye wemithandazo eyintloko. Kusinceda ukuba samkele ikusasa lethu. Ngaphezulu, thandaza kuPetros noFevonii (abathandeli bezithandwa). Umthandazo kufuneka ushushu kwaye unyanisekile, ngaphandle komnqweno wokubi nokuphindezela.
Lapel
Iingxaki zokungcatsha zisoloko zikho, kuba oogogo bethu basebenzise ama-lapels, njengendlela yokususa umyeni wakhe kwikosikazi yakhe. Zama ukwenza isiko ngekhandlela. Ubomvu (uphawu lokupholisa) lufanelekile. Thatha ikhandlela ezimbini, uzibeke ngokubhekiselelane. Ngaphaya kwelinye ilangatye elitshisa elo iqabunga ngegama lomyeni wakhe, ngaphezu kwelinye makabe iphepha eli negama lekosikazi litshise. Umlotha uqatha kwiintendelezo zezandla zakho kwaye usasaze kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo.
Ingxoxo
Kukho na ubuhlobo kubalulekile ukuba bakwazi ukuthetha. Ukunyanzelisa ngokusola, uvele uziqhekeke. Intombi iqala ukuba ngumthwalo, xa ivela kumncinci (mnandi) iyimfihlo ijika ibe yingxaki enkulu. Ewe, kufuneka ulungele ukuba izikolo zakhe zinokuphakanyiswa kangangokuba umntu, ukuvuma, uya kuye.
Ukuba awulungele ukuba kubekho ukutshintsha kweemeko, ngoko uthetha ngobudlelwane bakho. Ziba zimeleyo, musa ukuthoba. Indoda ifanele ivakale isidima sakho, kungekhona ubuhlungu okanye isikhundla sexhoba. Oku kunzima kakhulu kumadoda.
Imikhosi isecaleni lakho, kuba:
- uhlolwe ixesha. Ewe, kunokwenzeka ukuba indoda inomtsalane nenkohlakalo yenkosikazi, nangona kunjalo, ingqondo yethu ilungiselelwe ukuba yonke into engaziwayo iyanqatshwa kwinqanaba elincinci. Ukuba umntu unamathele ngesondo kuphela kuye, akanakwenzeka ukuba angathanda ukukwakha ubudlelwane obutsha obunzulu (mhlawumbi wayenokwenza oko kudala);
- unxulumana nentsapho yakhe. Ukuba oko kwakungenjalo, kwaye wayedinga ubomi bentsapho, ngoko kwakungeke kuhambisane nomthandi olula;
- uyayazi ubuthathaka bakhe kunye nomlutha. Yaye le khadi lakho lempondo.
Ukuba nayiphi na indlela ayinakunceda, uyazi indlela yokuma ngexesha. Ziqonde ngokwakho, kuba ufanelwe ulonwabo kunye nomntu ongcono. Mhlawumbi kungekudala uza kuhlangana nawe!