Uyakhumbula ukuba kunzima kangakanani lo buhlobo? Ingqolowa yakhula njani kunye nengqolowa, njani isigaba se "candy-bouquet", wathini na ulwalamano, usuku nosuku, intlanganiso emva kokuhlangana? Kwaye ngoku, oku kuye kwaba yinto engathandekiyo yokubona okanye ukuva yakho emva kokuthandaza ... Ngaphakathi kwecala akucaci, njengoko kuvele kwaye ngenxa yoko, engazange azi ngesigqibo sakho. Emva koko, mhlawumbi, ukuziva unetyala ngokwenene lihlazo ixesha elichithwe lichithekile.
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Ukulwa nomvakalelo wecala, ukuhlazeka, ukuzisola, intlungu, siya kuba ngezinye ixesha. Kwaye masihlawule ngokuthe ngqo kumashishini: indlela yokuthetha ukuba sele usugqibelele zonke izinto kwaye akukho mntu uya kutshintsha iziphakamiso zakho, izicelo, iziphakamiso.
- Okwesaba kakhulu - ama-sms ahlukana. Konke kuxho mekeke kwiminyaka yakho kunye namava, kuba ukuba oku kukuqala kokuhlukana ebomini, mhlawumbi kungcono. Ingozi ye-sms-ukuhlawulela kukuba ukuhlukana akukuphela kokubili kunye nawe. Ngokukhawuleza emva kokugqitywa kwezenzo, phantse wonke umntu uyazisola. Uza kuqala ukukholelwa ukuba xa udibana, unako konke ukuphinda ubuyekeze, kuba bekuphela komyalezo wesicatshulwa. Awukwazi ukwenza oku ukuhlukana: shiya, hamba ngonaphakade. Senze isigqibo, sithatha inyathelo kwifom yokuthumela umyalezo (nangona ukuba awunayo i-bravest one) - uye ekupheleni uze uthathe uxanduva lwakho.
- Iintanethi zentlalo - ngokuqwalasela ukuba uthando luya kuba yinto ebonakalayo, kwaye omaziyo kunye nokunye okunjalo bazalwa kwindawo ye-intanethi, "bathandana" kwi facebook / facebook / twitter, sinokuvumela ukuhlukana ngokwemiqathango yoluntu oluqhelekileyo. Umyalezo omfutshane kunye owomileyo okanye ileta ende kunye neyesondo kunye nolwahlulo lwazo zonke iimpazamo zalo - akukhathazeki ukuba yiyiphi into oyikhethayo, ebaluleke kakhulu, ngaphandle kokulinda impendulo nokuqhubeka neenkcukacha, thumela umthandi wakho kwiintlobo zogaxekile.
- Kwabathanda beklasi, ukuba ungumtshitshi weeveli zeDumas kwaye uhlala ngakumbi kwi-bourgeois eFransi yekhulu leshumi elinesibhozo, into yokuqala engayi kuza engqondweni yakho yileta ende yokuhlaziya ephakamileyo kunye nephepha elimnandi, elibhalwe ngepeni. Ewe, ukuba kusemgangathweni wakho, unakekele imvulophu enzulu, kwaye xa umdlalo we-parting is behind, khumbula izenzo zakho, njengesiqephu esivela kwinveli.
- Awukwazi ukuziphoqa ukuba uyingxenye - yenza njalo ukuba bafuna ukuhlukana nawe. Mhlawumbi unayo intombi enokungafuneki? Isicwangciso sikhohlisayo kwaye intombi iya kufuneka ikwazise ngeenjongo zakho, kodwa akuyi kuba nzima xa umntu eyophumelela?
- Ukuba awunalo amandla okuthetha, yonke into ifana nayo, kodwa kukho umonde wokukhokela umdlalo ngokuthe ngcembe, yenza konke ukuyeka ukuthanda. Okokuqala, qalisa ukuphakamisa iimpawu zeenkwenkwezi zakho. Amadoda ngokwenene ayithandi ukuthelekiswa.
- Thetha nge "izifo" zakho - ezo zikhwebu ziwayo, ulusu lukhupha, amathambo amathambo, iintoki zentliziyo, njl njl. Ukuba lakho ikamva elide alikho ugqirha onamandla, akayi kufuna ukuhlambalaza kunye ne "dohchetz".
- Ukuphazamisa konke ukuncoma kwakhe, oku kuya kumcaphukisa, kwaye akunzima ukuba usebenzise ngokunjalo lobu buchule bendalo besifazane. Ukuba uMCH uthi unomdla kakhulu namhlanje, xhaphaza uphinde uthi - "Kuye kwenzeka, ngokuqhelekileyo andiyinto enhle!".
- Ngokukhawuleza kwaye yonke indawo. Ungakufumana lula, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kuya kutyhafisa.
- Misela ukuba ngubani othanda ixhoba - uhlakaniphile okanye ucebile. Yibani ngokuchasene nezinto azikhethayo kwaye ukuba uyathanda abancinci, bathathe into ethile yesayensi baze baphinde baphinde baphinde bahlawule. Ngomso awuyi kubizwa.
- Ekugqibeleni, yitsho nje ngokuba kunjalo. Musa ukwesaba, oku kuyinyathelo elinoxanduva, kodwa akunakulungele ukukhohlisa iintloko zomnye. Ukuba lakho, nje kuphela ukuba iqabane lakho lingumntu onobubele, uya kuqonda yonke into, yamkele kwaye ayihloniphe ngenxa yezenzo. Kwaye ukuba unenhlanhla ukuhlangabezana ne-psychopath okanye nje umntu onomdla, cwangcisa intlanganiso kunye nemibonakalo kwindawo ephakamileyo. Emva koko uya kusindiswa entangatye yomsindo.