Phakathi kweempawu zabantu - iindlebe zivutha uphawu oluqhelekileyo nolunenyaniso. Njengomthetho, iindlebe ziqala ukutshisa kwindawo ethile, ngenxa yokuba akukho nto eyenzekayo. Okokuqala, kunokuba lihlazo elibangelwa yimeko engathandekiyo, kwaye mhlawumbi unomdla oqinileyo , okanye ukuxinezeleka, okubangelwa ngumntu okwangoku. Konke oku kukufaka ubungqina kumgangatho wangaphakathi womntu, ongayi kubonakalisa ngaphandle.
Injongo yesibonakaliso "Iindlebe ezivuthayo"
Inqaku elidumileyo, iimpawu, kutheni iindlebe zitshisa, iinkumbulo zomntu malunga nalo mntu ziqwalaselwa. Kudala abantu baqaphela ukuba xa umntu edunyiswa, ehlaselwa, ehlambalaza, ekhunjulwa, akekho emva kwayo, ke zonke ezi zinto zenzeke ngandlela-thile emzimbeni waloo mntu: wadibana, iindlebe, izihlathi, kunye nobuso obuvuthayo. Ngoko ke, ukufikelela kwixesha lethu, le nkcazo yolu phawu uye wehla.
"Izibane" kwindlebe ekhohlo
Ukuba indlebe ekhohlo iyatshisa, ke lo mqondiso uthetha ukuba ukhunjulwa nje. Oku akuthethi ukuba bakhumbula wena kwisifundo esibi. Unokukhunjulwa zizihlobo, izalamane okanye abahlobo abakukhankanyile nje kwingxoxo okanye bakulahlekile.
Ukuba unabantu beqela, ke uphawu lwesintu - indlebe ekhohlo ivuthayo, kuthetha ukuba umntu ovela kuwe othethile ngawe. Kungaba ngumnyelona okhethekileyo okanye ubuxoki bengozi.
"Iintambo" iindlebe ezilungileyo
Elinye ixabiso linomqondiso xa indlebe ishushu ngokufanelekileyo. Kule meko, kukho iingcaciso ezimbini. Eyokuqala kukuba umntu ugxeka ngokukrakra, ugxeke, ezama ukukubonisa ukusuka kwicala elibi kakhulu, utshintshe uluvo lwabantu abaninzi ngawe kwaye ngaloo ndlela uzama ukuxabana nabanye abaninzi.
Ingcaciso yesibini yomqondiso wabantu, xa indlebe yokunene iyatshisa,
Musa ukulibala ukuba, nangona imiqondiso yabantu, leyo, nangona igcinwe kwaye idluliselwa ngeenkulungwane, intsingiselo yayo nencazelo ayikwazi ukuhlala ichanekile. Kufanelekile ukwazi ulwazi lwabo, kunye nokukhokelwa ngolwazi oluyimfuneko, kodwa khumbula ukuba kukho iimeko ezithile - ngaphandle.