Kwiminyaka emininzi, amadoda abiza abafazi bawo "ngobuqhophololo" kunye "nezilumko," kodwa akukho namnye kubo oya kukhankanya nobukho bento engaqondakaliyo njengobulumko bentombi. Yena, mhlawumbi, kwaye akayi kuzisa intombazana yezithuba eziphambili kwi-firm, kodwa iya kunceda ukufezekisa ukulinganisela kwintsebenziswano yothando. Makhe sibone ukuba bubulumko bentombi.
Iimfihlelo zobulumko babasetyhini
Umbuzo, okwenene, unomdla, kodwa ukuze uphendule, umntu makakhumbule i-destinmal femin destiny, kwaye ngokucacileyo akubhekiselele ekubonakaliseni ukuphakama komntu kumadoda angqongileyo. Yingakho, ubulumko bentombi bu luncedo kwizidlelwane, kodwa kuya kuba yinto engenamsebenzi kumsebenzi. Asikhulumi ngento yokuba abafazi abakwazi ukufika phambi kwamadoda kwintetho kamongameli, ngoku kwimeko apho intsapho iya kuba neengxaki. Ngoko ke, yokuqala yeemfihlelo zobulumko besetyhini yilokhu: unokukwazi ukukhetha ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha. Ekubeni kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukwenza ixesha elilahlekileyo. Kodwa lo ngumnye wemithetho, kodwa yintoni enye into ebulumko bulumko?
- Ubulumko bowesifazane abukwazi ukukhusela ingcamango yakhe kwimpikiswano evuthayo, kodwa ekukhuseleni. Kwimpikiswano, kaninzi ayinayo inyaniso ezalwayo, kodwa izizathu zentukuthelo.
- Khumbula ukuhlakanipha okwesibini kwabesifazane: "Indoda-intloko, nomfazi-intamo"? Uyabonisa ngokucacileyo indawo yesibini elumkileyo kwintsapho. Oku akuyi kuqalisa i-scandals kunye neengqungquthela zokunyusa umyeni wakhe ukuba enze, kodwa fumana indlela yokufumana oko kufunwa ngezinye iindlela. I-top of aerobatics kukuqinisekisa ukuba indoda ikholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iqela livela kuye.
- Kukho ubulumko bowesifazane - ukuba ungaboni iindwangu zomyeni wakhe. Abantu abaninzi banqwenela ukunyathela kwiithembekileyo malunga nomvuzo, ubudlelwane kunye nabazali, abalahla iinqwelo, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu. Umphumo kwizenzo ezinjalo zidanisa - mhlawumbi uqhawulo okanye umyeni okhutshwe. Abafazi abazizilumko bayazi kakuhle oku kwaye kunokuba baxhase amadoda abo. Ewe, kwaye into enokuyenza yintokazi kumfazi oya kukuxabisa, kodwa kungekhona ngenxa yehlazo kunye nokuhlaziywa.
- Esinye isibonakaliso sowesifazane ozilumko kukukwazi ukuqonda nokuzihlonela, ukwazi yonke into malunga neemvakalelo zakho neemfuno zakho.
- Umfazi ozilumkileyo akayi kumbopha indoda yakhe kwiingalo nasemilenzeni, ebiza ubunikazi bakhe. Akayi kucela into ngokubuyisela uthando lwakhe, kuba akukho ndawo kwindawo yobudlelwane beemarike, ngokukhawuleza xa kubonakala, unokubeka umnqamlezo ngokunyaniseka.
Indlela yokufunda ubulumko bentombi?
Kukholelwa ukuba ubulumko besifazana nolwazi lweNtsapho, amava aqokelelwa ngunina, oogogo kunye nabakhulukazi. Ngoko ke, izifundo zobulumko besetyhini akufanele zifuneke, kuba kukho imemori yeRod. Ngoko kuya kwenzeka ukuba siyazi malunga nale nxu lumano kwaye akazange azame ukulahla zethu iingcambu ngexesha lokuqala. Kwaye kukho nabaninzi abaninzi bafazi, ngoko nantsi a mabhinqa abangenayo inkxaso
Fumana ukuba ngaba bekunqatshelwe abafazi kwintsapho yakho-engatshatanga, egula kakhulu, ephuzayo. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo, bhala amagama abo kwikholam, uqale ngegama lomama wakho. Ngoku, malunga negama lomfazi ngamnye, bhala into enhle ngaye. Kwaye ngoku sifunde konke okubhaliweyo, sibongele kuwo onke amabhinqa ngawo onke amahle awawunika uRod - ubomi kunye nothando kubantwana bakhe, amava afunekayo. Kubalulekile ngeli xesha lokugweba nabani na, kungekhona ukufumana isigwebo okanye ukuzingca.