Nangona kunjalo kungaqhelekanga, kunokubakho imihla ngemihla ukuba uya kuhlangana nomntu ongenalulinganisela ngengqondo. Ngaphezu koko, iindaba ezibuhlungu kukuba abantu "abakhethekileyo" abahluleki ngokulula kwizinto eziqhelekileyo. Kwimeko ezininzi, igama elithi "ingqondo" lenza ukuba ngamnye wethu abe nomfanekiso womntu onobudlova ongenalutho, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha le miqondiso ayibonakali ebomini boqobo.
Izimpawu zomntu ongenalulinganisela ngengqondo
Oogqirha, iingqondo kunye nezinye iingcali ezahlukeneyo baye bachonga iimpawu ezilandelayo ezikunceda ukuhlukanisa isiguli esivela kumntu oqhelekileyo:
- Abantu abanempilo ngexesha le ncoko bagxininisa izenzi, izibizo ngesizathu esilula - zithwala intsingiselo yegama ngalinye. I-Psychopath, kwakhona, yabela ama-pretexts ukuchaza zabo izenzo. Khumbula ukuba, ngokulandelelanisa, ngokuqhelekileyo zisebenzisa "for", "ukuya".
- Ubuntu obunobungozi bulawulwa yiminqweno yenyama. Bazama konke okusemandleni abo ukuba banelise iimfuno zabo zomzimba.
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, umntu ongenakulinganisekanga uhlala yena kuphela, kodwa ke, lo mfanekiso kufuneka udibaniswe ukuba bakhetha ubomi bodwa kunye nabanye baqwalasele ukuba banelise iminqweno yabo.
- Unemvelaphi engaphantsi kwengqondo, oko kukuthi, abantu abanjalo abanomvakalelo, abanakuthandabuzeki kwaye bakhohlisayo.
- Ngexesha le ngxoxo nomntu onjalo uya kufumana ingcinga yokuba uyazi yonke into ngawe, kwaye wena malunga naye - akukho nto. Ukongeza, ii-psychopath zivame ukuhlanganyela kunye nomnxibelelwano wabo oko bafuna. Ukudibanisa ngobuchule intetho. Ngenxa yolu, awuyi kukwazi ukukhumbula indlela zonke zaqala ngayo. Kuya kuba nefuthe xa ekugqibeleni uqaphela ukuba uphefumlelwe ngumbono womntu womhlaba. Ngaphezu koko, okwethutyana wamkela kwaye wabelana ngokupheleleyo ngombono ngamnye womntu onjalo.