Boredom

Masibhekane nalo - namhlanje sinamathuba amaninzi, kodwa, ngokungapheliyo, siphila kwihlabathi elithandekayo ngakumbi kunokuba ookhokho bethu bahlala khona.

Nonsense! Phila ngekhulu lama-21, ngekhulu leminyaka xa inkqubela phambili yesayensi kunye nezobuchwephesha iphuhliswa ngokunyuka kunye nemida, xa kukho okungakumbi izinto eziye zacinga okanye zikwazi ukuphupha! Sibhekene neengxaki ... esiyikhathazayo.

Kutheni kuzalwa inzala? Uvela phi? Yintoni le? I-splinter kwindawo ethile engavumeli ubomi buphile ngokuzinzileyo nangobunono? Okanye ukhathazeka indlela yokuzikhusela ezivela kookhokho obude?

Kutheni silahlekelwa?

Ubunzima - imeko yobuntu, obangelwa yiziganeko eziphinda ziphinda zijikeleze, ezihlala zikhokelela ekulahlekelweni komdla malunga nento eyenzekayo.

Ngaphakathi kwethu kwixesha elidlulayo lobomi ubomi be-getter, umfumbi. Kuye i-gene ye-irregularability in cognition ifakiwe. Kodwa-leyo yintlekele! - akudingeki sithole into kwaye sifunde. Hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokukodwa abaphuphayo abaphambukayo bayazi ukuba kwindawo ethile kukho izazinzulu zesazinzulu eziza zonke iintsuku ezilungileyo kunye ezilungileyo kakhulu, zifuna iindlela zokwenza ubomi bube lula ngathi, kubantu bonke. Kodwa, eninzi namhlanje namhlanje sinokudala i-ballast. Akumangalisi ukuba sibuhlungu ngenxa yexhala!

Akudingeki senze nantoni na. Ukufumana ukutya - vele uye esitolo. Ukuba kwakufudumele kwaye kulula - ukuhlawula izinto ezisetyenziswayo endlwini. Ukuzonwabisa - ukuya kuma-movie, vula ifilimu ekhaya, uye kwi-intanethi okanye udlale umdlalo wekhompyutha. Ukuze uzalisekise konke oku ngasentla, kufuneka ube nemali kuphela.

Ukuze senze oku, nathi akudingeki ukuba sakha nayiphi na into - hamba uye uhlale lakho, ixesha elifanelekileyo, kwindawo yokusebenzela. Kodwa apha i-boredom isilindele! Emva kokuba ufunde imisebenzi emininzi eyisiseko, sele ufunde ukuqonda iinkqubo ezininzi, ngokwaneleyo ukwenza ngokulandelelana, imihla ngemihla, isethi ethile yezenzo eziphindaphindiweyo. Yaye indlela yokukrazula i-boredom - asiyazi.

Akukho sindiso loluntu okanye nokuba nobomi bakhe, njengamafilimu adumile. Akukho khuselo lwezinto zabo. Akukho zikhuselo. Yonke into onokuyifuna, akufuneki ukuba uphawule kwakhona - i-Intanethi iya kukunika oku ngokuzonwabisa.

Iingcali zengqondo zithi siyaqala ukubandezeleka njengomntwana, ngelixa nje siyeka ukudlala. Oku kwenzekayo xa umntwana eba ngumdlali ongenamdla xa eba ngumthengi olungiselelwe ukuzizonwabisa. I-TV, ikhomputha, njl njll. Abantwana abanjalo "bahlafunwa" kwaye bahlele ezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa aziyi kuba nempumelelo, ukuzimela nokuthanda.

Oku kwenzekayo kunye nabantu abadala. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuphindaphinda ubomi bethu, kaninzi asiqapheli nokuba sininzi kangakanani xa sixhalabile. Kwaye sifuna ukuzonwabisa.

Njani ukunqoba umthwalo?

Ukulwa nokunyamezela kungabhubhisa kwaye kuyakha.

Izinto ezonakalisa umntu ozicingayo njengonyango wokunyamezela kukuba:

  1. Phuma kunye nabahlobo kwi-bar kwaye uphuze
  2. Mamela umculo
  3. Jonga i-TV
  4. Ukunyuka ngokungenazo kwi-intanethi
  5. Ukuhlala kwiintanethi zentlalo

Indlela eyakhayo iyinkimbinkimbi. Kudinga ukuba sandise umsebenzi. Imifanekiso emibi kunye nesibindi. Ulungelelaniso kunye nokugxininisa. Ukusekwa kweenjongo, ukukhangela intsingiselo kuzo zonke izenzo zabo. Kwaye, oku, yile ndlela yonyango olungcono yokukhupha.

Abanye oogqirha beengqondo bakholelwa ukuba ukukhukhuma kwenzeka xa umntu egwema ukwenza oko akufunayo ngokwenene. Mhlawumbi oku kubonakala kungenakwenzeka, kungenathemba, kuyingozi, kungenathemba. Kule ngongoma, amandla ayenzile ukuqonda lo mnqweno avaliwe, "ukuqhuma" kuvela. Kodwa akayi ndawo! Kwaye kubonakala ukuba amandla amanyathelo alinganayo nomkhosi wenkcaso. Umnqweno wokufezekisa injongo kukungafuni ukutshintsha into ethile.

Ukungafuni kwethu ukuguqula thina kunye nempilo yethu yindlela yokukhusela yengqondo yomntu onempilo. Ngenxa yokuba nayiphi na utshintsho yingozi. Kwaye akukho miphumo engaziwayo. Ngaloo ndlela, yethu ingqondo ikhusela. Kodwa ngokutshintshana kwethu kuza isiqhwaba.