Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba emva kwesitampu kwipasipoti, ubudlelwane obuphakathi kwendoda nomfazi buyatshintsha. Ingqondo yezobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi kwintsapho isekelwe kubambiswano, inhlonipho, inkxaso kunye nenene, uthando. Kukho iimfihlo ezininzi eziza kugcina ubudlelwane.
Iengqondo zentsebenziswano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi
Abaninzi banethemba lokuba ubudlelwane bosapho bunjani uhlobo lozinzo, kodwa eqinisweni baphinde bajikeleze, badlula kwiinqanaba eziliqela ezivumela umntu ukuba ahlole iimvakalelo zabalingani:
- Xa abantu baqala ukuhlala kunye, bahlala bexhatlana. Ukuxhomekeka kwizinto eziphambili, iimpawu kunye nezinto ezithandayo zibangele iingxabano . Apha, kubalulekile ukuphazamisa.
- Isigaba esilandelayo kwingqondo yezobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi yinto eqhelekileyo kunye nokuqhelekileyo. I-volcano yezinto ezinqabileyo iphela kwaye ibonakalayo, ekhokelela ekubeni amaqabane athathala. Iintsapho ezininzi zifumanisa kunzima ukudlula eli nqanaba.
- Ukuba isibini sihamba kuzo zonke izigaba, ngoko sinokuthi intsapho ikhulile kwaye akukho mvavanyo ayiyikwesaba.
Ukufunda i-psychology yobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, iingcali zikwazi ukuzimisela imithetho emininzi evumela ukuphucula ubudlelwane .
Imithetho yoBudlelwane obonwabileyo
- Okokuqala kuwo onke amaqabane kufuneka ahlonelane.
- Kubalulekile ukufunda ukwenza izivumelwano kunye nokulungelelanisa iqabane kunye nokwenza kokubili indoda nomfazi. Ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe uthando, kubalulekile ukuzama ukusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubonisa iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo: ukumbathisa, ukuthintela, ukumanga kunye nesondo.
- Khumbula ibhodi ebhodini - "Ulonwabo luyakuthanda", ngoko ungaxeleli abanye abantu kungekuphela nje ukuxabana, kodwa nangenxa yeempumelelo.
- Ukugcina ubudlelwane obuqilileyo, kubalulekile ukufunda ukuxolelana.
- Umyeni nomfazi bafanele bafunde ukuthetha, babonise ukunganeliseki okwangoku kwaye bangabikho izikhalazo.
- Nika ixesha lomhlobo lomnye nomnye, kodwa ungayithinteli inkululeko yothandekayo wakho.