Bangaphi amadoda ahlasela i-rake efanayo, efuna umfazi onoqoqosho, othembekileyo kunye onokuthembekileyo, kodwa ngokukhethekileyo bakhethe abantu abathandanayo, abathandekayo nabangenangqondo! Na bafazi? Bakhononda ukuba aba bantu bahamba kakubi ngoku - bengenakuziphendulela kunye nabacebisi, kodwa kufuneka bavelele kubo amazwi othando, njengoko bekulungele ukuzixazulula zonke zabo baze bazikhuphe emisebenzini emithathu. Kukho inkcazo ecacileyo ukuba kutheni abesifazane bathanda ngeendlebe zabo, kunye namadoda anamehlo abo.
Umbono wezesayensi
Njengoko kuyaziwa, abafazi baye baphuhliswa kakhulu ekuhlaleni kweengqondo, nakwamadoda-kunene. Umkhohlo unoxanduva lokuthetha, kwaye ilungelo liyilo lokucinga. Kwaye kwabasetyhini, ummandla ojongene nokuvuswa kwesondo kusemacaleni ommandla wengqondo ojongene nokuva. Ngenxa yoko, iimpembelelo zentsholongwane ezivela kwiintsholongwane ngokusebenzisa imigudu yesigulane, sebenzisa iindawo ezikufutshane, kwaye umfazi uyavuya ngenxa yokuba uyaliva ilizwi lomntu, ukumkelwa kungekuphela nje kwegama, kodwa umyalezo ngokwawo. Ukongezelela, ubuchopho bomfazi bunzima i-100 grams (ngaphantsi)!! Owesilisa, oko kuthetha ukuba i-neurons kuyo isondelelana komnye nomnye, utshintshiselwano ngolwazi lwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, olubhekiselele kwiinkqubo zokucinga.
Yingakho ibinzana eligqithisileyo elithi "ingqiqo yabesifazane" yabonakala. Abameli bobulili obufanelekileyo bangenza izinto eziliqela kanye, baphoswa ngapha nangapha. Bakwazi ukucinga enye into, bathi okwesibini uze wenze okwesithathu. Ngoku kuyacaca ukuba kutheni abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe zabo, kunye namadoda anamehlo abo ngenxa yokuba indalo ngokwayo iqulethe umzimba wabo ukuba inqamle ubuninzi abaninzi abasetyhini, kuba banembopheleleko yokuvelisa. Ukuba ibhinqa livuyiswa kukubona kwindoda, kwakuza kubakho intlekele kunye nokugqithiswa komhlaba. Le ndoda, ijabule emehlweni omfazi omhle, ngokuzenzekelayo ulungele ukuba nguyise, kodwa lona wesifazane ufanele aqonde ukuba uyintoni na obawo-ulungile okanye ungalunganga uze wenze isigqibo malunga nokusebenza kwe-coition.
Icandelo leengqondo lombuzo
Ukususela kwimbono yengqondo, umfazi uthanda indlebe, kuba ufuna ukuziva efuna kwaye eninzi kakhulu. Ukuncoma kwansuku zonke kunye neentetho zeentliziyo zentliziyo ziyadingeka ukuba afane nomoya. Uyabona ukuthula komlingane njengenganakwa kwaye engenakufumana impendulo emphefumlweni wakhe, uya kumkhangela kwenye indawo. Abo banomdla wokuba kutheni abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe zabo, unokuphendula ngokuthi uthanda ngamagama, i-romance kunye nefesti, apho iqabane lakhe linikeza ngeengxoxo ezicokisekileyo. Abafazi bathanda ngeendlebe zabo kunye nesinye ibinzana: "Ndiyakuthanda" zilungele ukugubha iintaba kwaye zizenzele zonke iingxaki zobomi bentsapho, zinexesha lokulandela indlu, nokufundisa abantwana, nokusebenza, nokukholisa umyeni.
Abameli besigqeba esisinyanisekileyo sobuntu banothando-nkululeko, kwaye kunye nobudlelwane obungunaphakade, abaphambukisi ukuba nomntu ohlangothini, bezithethelela ukuba iphoso lendalo. Akunakukunyamekela ukubizwa kwebhinqa elincinane nelinomtshatsheli "owesifazane" oneminyaka yobudala bokuzala. Kodwa apha kuninzi kuxhomekeka kwimfundo, imbono yendoda ethile emtshatweni kunye nokunyaniseka kwamaqabane, kuba abantu bahluke kwizilwanyana, bayazi ukuba bacinge kwaye babale iziphumo zezenzo zabo. Ekwazi ukuyeka isilingo, uyayiqonda isizathu sokuba akwenze, kodwa ukukhusela umnqweno kuye, ekhangele abesetyhini abagqoke esitratweni, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke okanye kwi-cinema, akakwazi.
Ngoko bayakha ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo bengaboniyo, befunda iimpawu zesini kunye nokufunda ukuxoxisana. Indoda ayisoze yamshiya umfazi ukuba uyayiqonda ukuba ulungile kangangokuba akaze ashiywe yodwa, kwaye iqabane lakhe liza kuthatha elinye i-noodle ezindlebeni zakhe kwaye lithande inyaniso yayo ngaphandle kokukhumbula.