Unyana kaMamenkin - iimpawu

Bonke abesifazana abaqaphelisayo bafuna "isikhulu", ngoko ukusilela kwabantu kusenza sikhathazeke kakhulu. Kodwa akukho nto inomsindo njengendoda - " unyana kaMama ." Ezi zinto zihlala zikhankanywe ngumama ziyakuchukumisa, unomuvo wokuthi akabonakalwanga kuzo zonke iziqulatho zobomi bakho, nokuba zizinto ezithandana kakhulu. Amantombazana amaninzi akakwazi ukumelana nesifo somntwana kamama kamama aze amlahle. Ngokomgaqo, kunjalo, akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha umntu onjalo, ngoko kungcono ukufunda iziganeko zendodana kamama ukuze angabandezeleka ngenxa yobuhlobo obungaxelwanga.

Unyana kaMama: iimpawu

1. Into ebalulekileyo yamadoda onke - ukungabikho , ukungathandi ukukhula. Oku kubonakaliswa ngomnqweno wokudlala imoto elawulwa ngomsakazo, izinto ezikhethiweyo "ezingenabungozi" zingabonakalisa i-satellites yamadoda aphumelelayo. Ngendlela, ngomsebenzi ophantsi kwempembelelo kamama, naye, yonke into ingaba yindlela. Ingongoma kukuba i-psychology yomama womntu ayimvumeli ukuba azenzele izigqibo, akanakuyicombulula nayiphi na ngaphandle kwegama elinzima lonina, kwaye akafuni ukuhamba phantsi kwephiko layo. Ngoko ke, ukudalulwa kwentsapho yakhe akukhathazi nhlobo, akafuni nje ukuba afune ukufumana izibophelelo ezingadingekile.
2. Kubantu abanjalo, umama ulungile, kodwa akayithandi nje, kodwa ucinga ukuba uluvo lwakhe luphela yinyaniso, kuba wayemfundisa. Unina ukholelwa ukuba kufuneka athathe inxalenye ecacileyo ebomini bendodana yakhe, kwaye uya kuvuyela. Ekuqaleni kunokubonakala ngathi unomdla ongenatyala, kwaye umama onothando uphantse kwiintsuku zakho zothando. Yaye ukuba umama ethatha isigqibo sokuba intombazana yakhe ingabantwana, uya kwenza konke ukwenza ukuba olu dlelwane luphume ngokukhawuleza.
3. Kuyinto enomdla ukuba amadoda ahlukane ngokukhawuleza ukuba acinge ngendlela abaziphatha ngayo. Ngoko ke, umbuzo wendlela yokuyeka ukuba yindodana ka-mama, abanandaba.
4. Isalathisi se-alamu sinokuqwalaselwa ukuba umfana wakho, nangayiphi na into enina, ubalekela emini yakho.
5. Oonyana bakaMama banesaba kakhulu ngabasetyhini, emva koko, unina wabatshela ukuba intombazana, ingakumbi ezo zivela kwamanye amadolophu, zifuna umntu ukuba akhohlise. Kwaye ngokubanzi, kuyimfuneko ukutshata kwindlela umama ekhethayo.
6. Ukutshintsha kweKhadidi ebomini banoyikrakra abantu abanjalo, baya kunzima ukutshintshwa okunjalo, ingakumbi ukuba abanqunywanga ngumama.

Ndingathini ukuphakamisa unyana ka-mama?

Kuyabonakala ukuba oonyana baka-mamenki ababonakali ngaphandle, ngoko unina. Into enyanyekayo kukuba kukuba ngononophelo olunzulu baphula ubomi kunye nabo, kunye noonyana babo, baqhoqele amantombazana ukuba abalahle, beqaphele iimpawu zendodana kamama. Ukuze kungenjalo ukunyusa umntu onjalo, kuyimfuneko ukumisa iinzame zakhe zokukhawulela ngokungathinteli inkululeko yesenzo sonyana wakhe. Ewe, kwaye unqande nantoni na, kufuneka uchaze isizathu, kwaye kungekhona nje ukunyusa igunya lakho. Musa ukuthatha wonke umsebenzi, ufundise ukuba uncede unyana wakho kwasekuqaleni. Esikhundleni sokugxeka iimpazamo "ukukhumbula", bhekise ngenyameko kubo. Musa ukwenza izigqibo kwonyana wakho, phila into kuye, uze ushiye ingcamango yokuba uyazi kakuhle. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, abantu abaphila ngaphantsi kweminyaka engama-20, balahlekelwa amandla okucinga ngokuzimeleyo. Yingakho zonke iingcamango malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukuba yindodana ka-mama ziba zilize, njengoko indoda endala endingazi ukuba ingafani njani, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba ufunde oku.