Iingcali zengqondo zithi iingxaki zengxabano ziyingxenye ebalulekileyo nanobuphi ubudlelwane obunxulumene nabo. Kwaye ngaphandle kwabo, ukunxibelelana akunakwenzeka ngokomgaqo. Emva koko, wonke umntu, nokuba ngumntu osebenza naye, umhlobo okanye isihlobo unalo uluvo lwakhe, iimfuno zakhe kunye neminqweno, enokungahambisani neemfuno zakho. Kwaye ke ingxabano elula iyakhula ibe yintlankqalazo enzulu kwaye ibe yinto evulekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukhetho olungcono - aluyi kule nto. Yaye ukuba oko kwenzeka njalo - musa ukuhlakulela ingxabano kwindawo ephambili "engeyiyo ukubuya", enokulandelwa ukuhlahloka ngokupheleleyo kobudlelwane . Ngako oko kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi imigaqo yokuziphatha kwimpikiswano. Siyabonga kubo, nawuphi na umntu unokukwazi ukufumana imbeko ephuma kwimeko engamnandi kwaye ugcine ubuhlobo kunye nentlonelo kwabanye.
Imigaqo-siseko yokuPhatha eMibambano
Okokuqala, awukwazi ukunikela kwiimvakalelo. Imigaqo yokuziphatha okuyiyo kwimpikiswano ngokuyinhloko iyalela ukuba uhlale ukhona. Nangona usityholwa into ongenakugwetyelwa kuyo, nangona ungatshutshiswa okanye ucatshulwa ngokucacileyo, akukho mfuneko ukuba uvumele umcengezi uphendule ngokunyelisa kunye nokunyaniseka.
- Umgaqo wokuqala wokuziphatha kwimpikiswano yile: yiphathe umlawuli weengxabano ezingenamkhethe. Zama ukulibala ukuba uyamazi kwaye umphatha nje njengomntu ongaphandle. Emva koko uya kuphazamiseka kakhulu ngamagama akhe angalunganga. Yaye ungazami ukuhlambalaza ngoku, oko yindlela ebi kakhulu yokuziphatha kule meko.
- Umgaqo wesibini wokuziphatha kwimpikiswano uthi: musa ukuphazamiseka kwisifundo esiyintloko senkqubela, musa ukuxhoma kwenye into. Ngaphandle koko, izigwebo eziza kukhula ziza kukhula njengebhola lebhola.
- Umthetho wesithathu: ungaphumeleli umva wakho. I-joke enye ephumelelayo inokuphelisa ngokupheleleyo ingxabano , okwenza "ingabi namagazi" kwaye ingashiyi emva kokubi.