Amantombazana amaninzi aphupha inkosana enhle kunye nothando lomntwana, emva koko luya kuba yintsapho yolonwabo. Kwaye le phupha inomdla kwaye inomusa. Uthando nolonwabo kuphela alufi, zidalwe ngobuhlungu kwaye zinyamekele. Ngoko ke, into ephambili kukuba ayithandwa kuphela, kodwa inothando. Yaye uzama ukuqonda indlela yokwenza okuhle, okulungileyo, ozilumko kunye nokulungele umfazi womyeni wakho.
Oku kulula kwaye kunzima ngexesha elifanayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kufuneka nje umthande. Kodwa kwenye - uya kufuna ubulumko behlabathi nomonde, ukukwazi ukulawula uqoqosho kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali, kunye nezinye ezininzi.
Imiyalelo yomfazi otshatileyo
Nazi i "mithetho yowesifazane otshatileyo" okanye iingcebiso ezili-10 malunga nokuba ngumfazi omhle:
- Gcina umyalelo ekhaya kwaye upheke ngokumnandi, usebenzise imali ngokuchanekileyo.
- Lungisa indlela oziphethe ngayo nemikhwa yomyeni wakho.
- Fumana izihlobo zakhe uze wenze ukutyelela ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye nantoni na, musa ukugxeka!
- Musa ukuthelekisa umyeni wakhe namanye amadoda. Ukudumisa nokuxhasa, kumenza umntu ophumelele.
- Vumela iintlanganiso ngezihlandlo kunye nabahlobo kwimimandla engathathi hlangothi. Ngabo, unokuphazamiseka kwizinto zokuphila kwentsapho kwaye ahlale encinane kwindawo ehlukile. Nangona bengakuthandi - musa ukuwagweba nomyeni wakho, vele uvakalise uluvo lwakho ngokucokisekileyo. Emva kwexesha, mhlawumbi yena uya kutshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo kubo, okanye kufuneka ubeke ubukho babo. Okanye uzama ukuzifumana omnye umyeni, kunye nabahlobo abafanelekileyo.
- Nika umyeni wakhe ixesha kunye nendawo, kungekhona ukuzama ukuyizalisa. Awudingi ukufuna ingqwalasela lonke ixesha.
- Qinisekisa uthando lwakho nokunyaniseka. Tshela umyeni wakho ukuba nguyedwa umntu wakho, nokuba unomona, okanye ulungele ukuxolela, okanye ukholelwa ukuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokufumana inkululeko yobudlelwane ngaphandle kwentsapho.
- Yabelana nomyeni wakhe umdlalo. Kwaye mhlawumbi siwa thandane. Ukuba nomdla kwibhola kunye neHokkey, ukuthenga amaphephancwadi akhethekileyo, ukuba wazi ngamagama abadlali. Ukungena kumnqweno wokuloba okanye ukuzingela, okanye nantoni na enye, yabela imali kule nto.
- Reckon ngeembono zomyeni wakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba azi ukuba amazwi akhe anesisindo. Yilungele ukulungelelanisa, ungagxininisi, kwaye ngokukodwa - ulawule iimeko zakho, ngamanye amaxesha umele uvumele umntu enze isigqibo kwaye azenzele.
- Mthande kwaye uqonde umyeni wakho. Zama ukumenza ujabule.
Nangona kunjalo, le mithetho, ngokwabo ngokwabo, ayikwazi ukubonakala njengenyaniso ngokuqinisekileyo. Abafundisi nje indlela yokuba ngumfazi omhle, kodwa nendlela yokusebenzisa umntu wakho. Kwenye into ulungelelanise kwaye uvumelane, kodwa malunga nento yokuthula uze ufihle okuthile ... Into ephambili kukuba usebenze kakuhle kwaye ungacasuli.
Ngoko kubonakala ngathi indoda yinto efuna ukugcinwa kunye nokulawula, kwaye umfazi kunye naye kufuneka aziphathe ngobuqili kwaye ngokucophelela ukuze angazi ngako.
Indlela yokuba ngumfazi ongcono?
Ukuze ube ngumfazi olungileyo akukuphela nje ukuba uqikelele kwaye uyazi indlela yokuziphatha nomyeni wakho, kodwa ukuba uqaphele kuye umntu, umhlonele ngokwenene. Yaye ungayilandeli nayiphi na imigaqo. Emva kwakho konke, indoda enye idinga ukuba umfazi abe ngowokuqala kwaye ngowona mfazi wesigqwesileyo kunye no-sexy, kwaye akakhathaleli uhlobo lwenkosikazi. Omnye ulindele ukuqonda nenkxaso kwaye akayi kwamkela ukuziphatha kwe "bitch". Kwaye umntu wesithathu akacingi ngentsapho engenabantwana abaninzi kwaye ngoko umfazi wakhe kufuneka abe ngumama olungileyo.
Yiba yedwa - onomusa, onomnene nomnene. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo musa ukulibala ngawe. Ungaguquki kwisidalwa esingenasici esingenasici, umkhonzi, uxakeke ngeengcamango zokuhlamba, ukupheka, ukucoca, ukuthenga ... Musa ukuthatha uxanduva olupheleleyo malunga nenhlalakahle yentsapho yakho. Vumela kwaye uya kuba nexesha lakho kunye nendawo yakho yokuhlala. Jonga ukubonakala kwakho, gcoba ubuhle bakho. Sitshintshe uze utshintshe into ekhaya, iya kuzisa intsha kunye nentsha ebudlelwaneni bakho kunye nomlingane wakho akayi kutyalwa nawe.