Mhlawumbi kuya kuzwakalisa ukungaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, kodwa nawuphi na ubudlelwane bukhula ngokubhekiselele kwimeko ethile. Ngokwemvelo, abantu bahluke kunye kwaye banesimo sengqondo esahlukileyo, kodwa ukuba uyayiqonda, ezinye iinkalo eziqhelekileyo zichongiwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho iintlobo ezi-5 ezisisiseko zobudlelwane.
Umphathi womntu
Ngalo mbambano iqabane lifumana imali, kwaye lona wesifazane unikeza umxhasi othembekileyo "weqhawe" lakhe. Ukuba wonke umntu unelisekile ngendima enjalo, ubuhlobo buya kuba bude kwaye buqine.
Iimpawu zolu hlobo:
- umyeni uphezu kwentloko yakhe;
- zonke izigqibo zenziwe ngumlingane, ibhinqa lithobela;
- Injongo ephambili yomlingani ukulungiselela ubomi nokukhulisa abantwana;
- umfazi angakwazi ukusebenza, kodwa oku akusiyo umsebenzi wakhe oyintloko;
- Indoda iyayixabisa yonke into eyenziwa ngumyeni kuye;
- kwiimeko ezinjalo, ukhetho phakathi komsebenzi kunye nosapho alufanelekanga umfazi.
Ukubambisana okunjalo kufanelekileyo kwabasetyhini abathanda ukuba ngumfazi wendlu. Kwesinye iimeko, iingxabano kunye nokuxabana okukhulu kunokuphakama, oku kunokukhokelela ekuqeshweni kobudlelwane.
Kwikhaya lomfazi
Ngaloo mbambano, zonke izigqibo zenzelwe umfazi, kwaye umntu uyazivumela ngokuzithandela. Ngokuqhelekileyo imeko ehlangene noluntu lwangoku: xa ibhinqa lifumana imali, kwaye indoda ibandakanyeka kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla, ezo zombini ziyamkeleka.
Iimpawu zolu hlobo:
- ibhinqa lomsebenzi okhokelela ekusebenzeni ngokusebenzayo;
- le ndoda ithe cwaka kwaye ilula;
- iqabane lingasebenza, kodwa umvuzo wakhe awusisiseko;
- umyeni uvelisa abantwana abangaphezulu;
- yonke imibuzo eyahlukileyo ilala kumahlombe omfazi.
Ukuba amaqabane afana nale meko, imanyano inamandla ngokwaneleyo. Ibhinqa kufuneka ibe sisilumko kwaye ingangcikiva indoda yakhe ngenxa yobumnene bayo.
Ukulingana
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, indoda kunye nomfazi banamalungelo alinganayo, oko kukuthi, into ephambili kule manyano ayikho. Ngalo mgaqo, uninzi lweentsapho zanamhlanje zihlala.
Iimpawu zolu hlobo:
- zombini amaqabane asebenzayo;
- indoda kunye nomfazi uzama ukuzibona ebomini;
- Kwiimeko ezininzi, amaqabane omabini aya emsebenzini okanye asebenza kwimisebenzi yoluntu;
- ibhinqa alikhathaleli ngobomi, baninzi bahlala kunye nogogo, amanini okanye abagcini bezindlu;
- ngobudlelwane obunjalo, indima ebaluleke kakhulu idlala ngokukwazi ukuxoxisana;
- kukho uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo uthando kunye noluthando lu lahleka ngolwalamano olunjalo, izibini zihlala njengezihlobo, ezixhumene ngabantwana okanye isizathu esifanayo.
Ikhaya
Ngalo mlingano, into ebaluleke kakhulu uthando kunye nolwalamano komnye nomnye. Abaxhamli banandiphabele ukuba akukho mntu unomdla kubo.
Iimpawu zolu hlobo:
- umsebenzi kunye nokuziqonda akukhathazeki;
- Uthando lubapha amandla kunye namandla;
- Injongo ephambili kukubonelela ngenduduzo kunye nokuthuthuzela;
- Amabini omabini ayenemvakalelo yothando kunye nesithandane;
- Musa ukukhangela unxibelelwano ngaphandle kwebini.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngenxa yokuba amaqabane angabandakanyekanga kunye nehlabathi elikujikelezayo, abathandi banokukhawuleza bazalane. Ukuba awujongani nantoni na ngaphandle kobudlelwane, isibini sinokubamba inxaxheba ngenxa yokuba baya kukhwankqiswa kwaye bangenomdla.
Ukudala
Ibhinqa liyilondolozo lomntu, uyishukumisela kuye zonke iintlobo zokufezekisa.
Iimpawu zolu hlobo:
- Indoda ingumbulelo oyintloko kumfazi wayo;
- iqabane lizama ukuqhayisa umthandekayo;
- ibhinqa lithenga kakhulu kwaye lifuna;
- esi sibini sithandana.
Ukuba umfazi uyeka ukuphefumlela iqabane, unokuya kukhangela enye yolondolozo. Ngoko ke, iqabane kufuneka lihlale liphezulu.