Bambalwa abantu abanokuthanda uhambo oluqhubekayo lomyeni wakhe, zonke ezi nkxalabo ngexesha lokulinda zinzima. Kodwa amadoda ethu ahlukana phakathi komnye nomnye ngokulula, ekubeni ukubuyisela kwendoda kwindlela yokushishino eyona nto imnandi, indlela yokudibana nayo? Kakade ke, naziphi na iingcebiso zinokuphela ngokubanzi, njengentsapho nganye inezinto zayo ezincinci izinto ezinika ubungqina.
Indlela yokudibana nomyeni kwindlela yohambo?
Ukuhamba ngendoda yakhe kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka okukhulu, kodwa ukwenza kuphela ukubonelela intsapho. Ngoko ke, ngexesha leentlanganiso zomyeni ukusuka eluhambeni kubalulekile ukumbonisa ukuba uyayithanda kangakanani into ayenzayo. Kwaye oku kuyimfuneko ukudala iimeko ezintle kakhulu zokubuya kwakhe. Cinga ngeyona nto iya kufunwa yindoda yakho, indlela onokummangalisa ngayo kwaye uyimvuyisa emva kohambo loshishino. Ngoku ke jonga iingcamango zakho ngamehlo omntu odinini, oya kuba yinto oyithandayo, kwaye unqume oko kukufanele ukuphumeza, kunye noko kufuneka uyenqabe. Kunengqiqo ukuthatha into yokuba umntu okhuseleyo emva kohambo olude uya kujoliswa ngokutya okumnandi okuzenzekelayo, ukuhlamba okutshisa kunye nebhedi ecocekileyo. Ngoko ke, malunga nokuhlangana ngokwesondo kwendoda yakhe ekuhambeni kwezoshishino kuyafaneleka ukulibala, ade aphumle. Kodwa, ke, kufuneka uqwalasele iinkcukacha zohambo. Ngokomzekelo, intanda yakho iyintanda kusasa kwaye ingakhathali, kutheni ungalungiselelanga ukumkela ngothando? Yenza isikhokelo kwindlu, ukubhala kwiintolo ngokulandelelana kwezenzo zakhe. Endaweni nganye, lungiselela ukumangaliswa .
Ukuba kukho abantwana, ngoko ungayisebenzisa ekulungiseleleni intlanganiso-maye bancedise ukubhaka ikhekhe, wenze iphephandaba leposi okanye udonga apho lithetha ukuba nonke uvuyo ngokubuya kwakhe. Ukuba indoda iya kufika ekhaya ebusuku, kuyafaneleka ukuyeka zonke izinto ezimangalisayo
Ukuba awucingi nje malunga nendlela yokudibana nomyeni ekuhambeni kwezoshishino, kodwa yintoni ekummangalisa emva kokuhlukana, uze uzame ukutshintsha into yakho. Ngokomzekelo, utshintshe isitayela seenwele, ulahlekelwe isisindo ngokufika komyeni okanye uzame ngomfanekiso omtsha. Zama nje ukuba ungatshintshi ngokuphawulekayo, kungenjalo intshaba ingaba yinto engathandekiyo-indoda ifuna ukudibana nomntu wasemzini, kwaye kungekhona umntu ongowokuzimela engazange alindele kwindlu yakhe.