Uthando xa ungaqapheli iziphambululi, abantu abangenamakhaya, abantu abalambileyo, izidakwa, iziqhamo, ukunyaniseka, ukweba kunye nezinye izinto ezifanayo. Kwaye kukho konke oku, uva ukuba iintaka zicula, cinga indlela enhle ngayo imozulu (nangona imvula isesitratweni ngeqhwa elimanzi), kunye nendlela yokukholisa namhlanje ngenjongo yothando lwakho.
Uthando ngcamango "Ndifuna ukumenza unonwabo ngakumbi kwihlabathi."
Konke oku kuhle kakhulu, kodwa kungekudala. Kwaye kulungile kakhulu, oko kukufutshane. Ngoku siza kukuxelela ukuba uthando luhlala ixesha elide kwaye kutheni liphela.
Uthando - ngaba kukho ukuhlukana kobulili?
Ukufikelela ekugqibeleni, kuthatha ixesha elingakanani uthando lomntu nomfazi, emva kokufunda ixesha elide lo mbandela iza izazinzulu kunye neengqondo zengqondo. Kuvela ukuba ixesha layo liphantse iminyaka emibini. Oku, ukuba ngaba isibini sihlala kunye. Ukuba ulwalamano luyimfihlo (umzekelo, nabathandanayo), ukuwela othandweni kunokuhlala ixesha elide.
Abantu banqwenela uthando, kuba eli lizwe lingabonakalisa ukuvuya. Ukunyamezela okanye ukukhohlisa kusoloko kungumngcipheko we-adrenaline, i-hormone yoxinzelelo enomdla kakhulu. Ngaphantsi kweempembelelo ze-adrenaline, nganye yeengqondo zethu iyancipha - i-smells, izandi, umbono. Akumangalisi ukuba ininzi yemisebenzi yobugcisa iphefumlelwe ngoluvo.
Uthando luphela nini?
Ukuba uzibuza, kuthatha ixesha elide ukuthandana, ngoko ixesha luthando lwakho seluphelile.
Inyaniso kukuba, ekuthandeni, umntu akakwazi ukucinga nantoni na enye, ngaphandle kwenkalo yothando lwakhe. Apha siza kuba kutheni ubungakanani obungenammiselo wothando aluzuzisi kuluntu.
Ukuba sinokuthandana iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, bonke ubomi, akukho mntu uza kusebenza, ukufunda, ukudala, ukuvuleka, impucuko iya kupheliswa, kuba abantu bayayeka ukuhlakulela.
Xa umfundi ekugqithiseni ukuhlolwa kwemisebenzi yempi yesibini kwisiqingatha se-15 leminyaka eFransi, xa ethanda, kholwani mna, akayi kukwazi ukulungiselela okanye ukupasa. Kuba, okokuqala, "yena", kwaye lonke ilizwe liya kulinda.
Ngoko, isibonakaliso sokuqala sokuphela ngumbuzo wokuba ixesha elide luthando luhlala ixesha elingakanani. Bonke abanye babonakala kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla.
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, uxolela umntu kwaye akusiyo isihlalo seseyile yangasese, kunye neesokisi ezihlakazekile, kwaye akayivalelwa iingcango zeekhabhinethi. Ngoku, uthi kuye: "Kwanele!". Ucinga ukuba badla ngokugcwele kunye naye, kwaye kwiminyaka emithathu wayenokufunda umyalelo othile.
Ukuba sithetha ngantlukwano, kuthatha ixesha elingakanani uthando lwabafazi kunye nokuba lihlala ixesha elingakanani lamadoda, asiyi kufumana nantlukwano.
Inyaniso kukuba ukuwela othandweni -
Xa oku kwenzeka, kukho iindlela ezimbini:
- ukuqhawula umtshato nokukhangela uthando olutsha;
- inzululwazi yendlela yokuhlala ndawonye ngokuthula nangothando.
Xa ukhetha ukhetho lwesibini, uya kuba nethuba lokukwazi ukuba yintoni uthando lokwenene, kwaye ungayithandi .