Indlela yokulinganisa umgangatho waMacavellian (MAK-SCALE)

IMacavavellianism - iMacavavellianity - ipropati yomntu, kubandakanywa ukugxeka, ukuhlukanisa, ukuphefumula ngokomzwelo, ukunganakwa kwemilinganiselo yokuziphatha, ukuvumela ukusetyenziswa kwabanye ngeenjongo zabo. Ngoluhlobo lokuxhaphaza, ukuxhaphazwa komnye kuqinisekisa ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisana, umnqweno wokuba nobudlelwane obuhle kunye nokujonga kakuhle kwabanye.

(Ukuthelekisa: ukusetyenziswa ngesohlwayo yinkqubo eyenziwa ngumlawuli wecandelo lokufumana umvuzo othile kunokuba ayifumana ngaphandle kokunyanzelisa, kwaye umntu ufumana ubuncinane, ubuncinane kwiimeko zangoku).

Imiyalelo . Hlola ukuba imimandla elandelayo ifikelela njani kwimibono yakho malunga nawe nabanye abantu. Ukuphononongwa kweso sigwebo ngasinye kufuneka kubonakaliswe ngokusebenzisa isilinganisi esisihlanu:

• 1 - ayivumelani ngokupheleleyo;
• 2 - abavumelani;
• 3 - kunzima ukuthetha;
• 4 - vumelana;
• 5 - uyavuma ngokupheleleyo.

Iingongoma kwizinga:

1. Ungaze utshele nabani na isizathu sokuba wenza okuthile, ukuba akunakukuhlawulela inzuzo.
2. Uninzi lwabantu luhle kwaye lunomusa.
3. Indlela efanelekileyo yokudibana nabanye abantu kukubaxelela izinto ezintle kuphela.
4. Kufuneka wenze into kuphela xa uqinisekile ukuba oku kulungile.
5. Into efanelekileyo kukukholelwa ukuba nayiphi na umntu uya kukopela, ukuba ngaba kuphela ithuba elifanelekileyo.
6. Kufuneka uhlale uthembekile, akukho nto.
7. Ngamanye amaxesha unokukhathaza abanye ukuba uthole oko ufuna.
8. Uninzi lwabantu aluyi kusebenza ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba azinyanzelwanga.
9. Kungcono ukuba ngumntu oqhelekileyo, oqhelekileyo kunye nokunyaniseka kunokuba udumileyo kwaye ungathembeki.
10. Kungcono ukuxelela umntu ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba kutheni ufuna ukuba akuncede, kunokuba udale ezinye zeengcamango uze umkhohlise ngokukunceda.
11. Abantu abaphumeleleyo bahlala benyanisekile kwaye bahle.
12. Lowo ukholelwa konke, uzibeka engozini enkulu.
13. Ummangalelwa ngumntu ofanayo nathi sonke, yena kuphela ubenesidenge kangangokuba wabanjwa.
14. Uninzi lwabantu luyinyaniso.
15. Ukuba nomusa, kubalulekile kubantu abalulekileyo kuwe, nangona xa ungabathandi, buqili.
16. Unokuba ngumntu olungileyo rhoqo kunye nayo yonke into.
17. Uninzi lwabantu alukhohlisi (alukhohlisi lula).
18. Ngamanye amaxesha ufanele ukukopela encinci, kukukhohlise ukuba ufumane oko ufuna.
19. Ukuxoka, ukukhohlisa kuhlale kuphosakeleyo.
20. Ukulahlekelwa yimali yinkxalabo enkulu kunokulahlekelwa ngumhlobo.

Ukucwangciswa kweMAC-SCALE iziphumo

Ukucubungula kuqukunjiswe amanqaku abhaliweyo kuwo onke amanqaku afakwe kwisilinganiselo esifanayo. I-PM (iMacavellian index): 1, (2), 3, (4), 5, (6), 7, 8, (9), (10), (11), 12, 13, (14), 15, (16), (17), 18, (19), 20.

Amanani omhlathi kwiibakaki anesilinganisi esisihlanu sezinga. Kule ngongoma kumanqaku apheleleyo kwinqanaba alingekho amaphulo abhaliweyo kwisifundo sokuvavanya, kwaye umehluko ofunyenweyo emva kokukrazula amanqaku (kwifomu yokuphendula) yamanqaku amathandathu.

Okoku, kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisa le fomyula: S = 6-M, apho iM iyingqinisiso ebhalwe phantsi, IS isingqinisiso esiya kufaka amanqaku apheleleyo kweli nqanaba.

Ukutolika

Inqanaba elingaphantsi lamaMakavellianism (ukuya kuma-50 amaphuzu nangaphantsi) lisikisela: ukuhlazeka, ukuhlonipha, ukungabikho kweentetho ezingenangqondo entetho. Uvelwano, ububele, ukuziphatha. Uvelwano, uvelwano, ukuthobela, ukuqonda. Ukuvakalelwa kwenjabulo kwinkqubo (ubuchule). Isidingo sonyango, ukuthembela, ukuqonda kwabanye, umnqweno wokubambisana ngokusondeleyo, isimo sengqondo kwabanye. Ukunyaniseka, ukuthembela, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka.

Umgangatho ophezulu wamaMakavellianism (ukusuka kuma-50 angaphezulu nangaphezulu) uchaza: umnqweno wokuthetha inyaniso, ukugxeka, ukunyamezela, ukunyamezela ekufezeni injongo. Ubunkokheli, iimpawu zobunkokeli, ukugquba, ukuqinisekiswa, amandla omntu, uthando lokukhuphisana. Ukunganakwa kwemvume yoluntu, ukuthambekela kokuboniweyo, ukungafani noluvo lwesininzi, kugxininiso kwiziphumo, kwi-pragmatism. Ukuzithemba, ukuzithemba, ukuzimela, ukufuna uxolo. Ukuzicima, ubukho beengxabano zangaphakathi, imvelaphi engafanelekanga yomzwelo. Ukungabi nantoni, uthando lokuthoba, ukuthanda iinjongo, ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa nayiphi na imeko.

Abantu abaneemilinganiselo eziphakamileyo kweli nqanaba (aMaPapa aphezulu - igama eliphakanyiswe nguR. Christie) ngabokuqala apho bonke bazama, bekhuphisana, basebenzisa abanye njengendlela yokuwina ukuze abanye babonge ngazo ngeli thuba.

Abantu abaneemilinganiselo eziphezulu kule nqanaba banempumelelo kakhulu ekuxoxisaneni, basebenzise amaqhinga okulungisa kunye nokufumana umvuzo kunokuba babe namazinga aphakathi kwaye aphantsi.

NjengoD.B. I-Katunin (2006), iMacavavellian manipulation ihlala kwindawo ephakathi phakathi kweempembelelo eziyimfuneko kunye nezikhohlisayo, ezineempawu eziqhelekileyo kunye nomnye.

Ngaphantsi kunikwe iMacavavlianlian phakathi kwezinye izicwangciso zokuziphatha kwezenhlalakahle, ichaza iimpawu kunye neempawu ezahlukileyo zezicwangciso.

1. Imfuneko ebaluleke kakhulu . Ukunyanzeliswa, ulwaphulo, ukuqhelaniswa nokuxhomekeka kwimeko, amandla kunye namandla. Ritual. Ukulungela ubundlobongela nokunyanzeliswa. Ukungqubana. Criticality.
2. Imperative-ihlukaniswe. UkuBongamela, ukuguguza, ukulinganisa, ukuzimisela. Ukuqala, ukunyamezela. Ukuziphakamisa, ukufuna ukukhokela. Ukuzimela, ukungathandabuzeki.
3. I-Cynical-ihlukaniswe . Ukwahlukana, iNarcissism. Ukungathembeki, ukugulisa, ukulinganisa. Ukungahoywa kwintlalo yoluntu. Nonconformism. Ukwahlula, umqondo wokuphakama. Ukuzimelela.
4. Aloof and mercenary . Ukungathembeki. Ubuchule boluntu. Ukuziphatha okudibeneyo (umtsalane, ukuzithemba, ukuzithemba, ukulungelelanisa, isinamathiselo). Ukusetyenziswa kwabanye ubuthathaka kwabanye abantu. Ukukhupha iinzuzo zomntu ekusebenzisaneni. IHedonism. Ukungahambi.
5. Efihlakeleyo . Iinjongo ezifihliweyo, ukufuna ukutshintsha ukutshintsha isakhiwo sangaphakathi sesinye (iinjongo, iinjongo, ixabiso, iinkolelo, ukuthetha ngengqondo, imivo, njl.).
6. Xho mekeke. Ukugxininisa ubudlelwane, inzala kwenye. Umnqweno wokuseka ubudlelwane, nceda. Umnqweno wokuphembelela omnye. Ukuqonda enye.
7. Kuxhomekeke kwi-Empathic . Ukuzama ukusebenzisana. Ukuthembela, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka. Ukuphendula ngeemali kunye neemvakalelo zabanye. Uvelwano, uvelwano. Ukungeniswa, umnqweno wokufumana imvume.

Qaphela ukuba isicwangciso sokuqala sibhekiselele kwimpembelelo enyanzelisayo, yesithathu - kuMacavellianism, yesihlanu - ukuphathwa kunye neyesisixhenxe - ukulwa noMacavellianism. Isicwangciso sesibini sinobukhulu phakathi kwempembelelo ebalulekileyo kunye noMacavavlianlianism, wesine - phakathi kweMacavavellianism kunye nokuphathwa kweyesithandathu - phakathi kokuphathwa kunye noMacavellianism.

Ukunyanzelisa kunye neMacavavellianism ziingcamango ezithandanayo, kodwa azifani. Ukukhwabanisa kukaMacavellian akukaze kube nenjongo yokuthonya umntu ukuba atshintshe into okanye ngandlela-thile. Injongo yaso ephambili kukufumana oko kuyifunayo. Kule meko, omnye umntu uyindlela yokufezekisa, okanye isithintelo. Ingakumbi umgangatho kaMacavellian ubonakaliswe, abantu abangaphantsi banomdla kuye, nangona ukuba uyabonakala enqabileyo kwaye enomdla kumntu odibanisa naye.

Ngokucacileyo iMacavavellian (Maki) ngokuqhelekileyo ibonakala izolile, iyithemba, ijoliswe kwisiphumo sezenzo ezidibeneyo kwaye ihlala ibangela uvelwano phakathi kwabanye.