Ingcinga yomfazi - yintoni na? Kutheni abantu bebuza baze bekhubeke ngeemeko zengqondo yabesifazane, yintoni engalunganga ngayo? Ingqondo yabasetyhini ayiqondi kakuhle, kodwa inokwenziwa, ukuxhomekeka kwiimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, ngoko yonke into iyawa kwindawo. Ingcamango yabasetyhini nayo ibonisa abantu abanomdla.
Iyini ingcamango yabesifazane?
Ngaba abafazi banengqiqo - umbuzo owenziwe ngumntu. I-Logic njengombono okhoyo kwihlabathi, ngoko ke kunokuthiwa umfazi ungumntu ofanayo nomntu, kwaye iingcamango zakhe ziyingqayizivele, ngamanye amaxesha zixakekile kwaye azihambelani kwimbono yesintu. Abafazi abasoloko beziqonda. Kutheni kunjalo? Ingcamango yabasetyhini yindlela yokucinga, apho idibene khona ngendlela ekhethekileyo:
- iimvakalelo;
- iimvakalelo;
- ngobuqili;
- intuition.
Kukho iingcamango ezininzi ezijongene neengcamango zabasetyhini ezahlukeneyo:
- Ingqondo yoluntu . Indlela umfazi ecinga ngayo, eyamnceda ukuba ahlele kwaye ahlele ubomi bakhe basekhaya kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
- Ingqiqo yezinto eziphilayo . Ukutshintshwa kwendawo. I-X-i-chromosomes ezimbini zinoxanduva lokudluliselwa kweengcamango zesini. Ukuba i-chromosome enye, ngoko ingumnini wesiganeko esiqhelekileyo (yesilisa).
- Ingqondo yabesifazane . Abafazi bakholelwa ukuba imbono "yeengcamango zesini" yenziwe ngabantu - misogynists ukwenzela ukuba babonise ukuba isilumko sabantu kaninzi sibafazi.
Ngaba ingqiqo yowesifazane inkolelo okanye inyaniso?
Ngaba kukho ingcamango yowesifazane - uphando lwezenhlalakahle alunikeli impendulo engavumelekanga. Kodwa ukuba ukubaluleka okubalulekileyo kuqhotyoshelweyo ekufundeni le nkalo, ngoko, emva koko konke, kunelungelo lokuba khona, ubuncinane, kuba kukho abafazi ngokwabo. Iimfihlelo zeengcamango zabasetyhini ziye zaqondwa kwimihla yamandulo ngabafilosofi nabalobi. Abanye abantu bacaphukisa oku kuqondakalayo, abanye bawenza isenzo esingenakunceda kwaye bengabandakanyeki ngokuzithandela ... kwaye bamkele abafazi abalungileyo, njengabo.
Imilinganiselo yamabhinqa kunye nabesifazane
I-Logic yenzululwazi eyenziwa ngamaxesha amandulo kwaye icinga ukuba ukuba abantu abaninzi banomxholo ofanayo baya kufumana izigqibo ezifanayo baze babone ukuhambelana okufanelekileyo. Kukholelwa ukuba loo ngcamango inemvelaphi kubantu, iyalungelelanisa ukucinga ngengqiqo . Iingcamango zamabhinqa ziyakwazi ukubona ukuxhamla kunye neziganeko kwiinkcukacha ezinikezelweyo, ezithethwa ngumbono wesilisa okanye akukho nto ingabonwa.
Ukwahlula phakathi kwenkcazelo yesetyhini kunye neyindoda kuphawulekayo kwaye ngokuhlekisayo kuboniswe kuma-aphorisms kunye namazwi:
- Ingcinga yomntu: Ndiyifumene-ndiya kubulala, ibhinqa: ize ndibulale-ndiyifumene!
- Uthini umahluko phakathi kwenkcazelo yesilisa kunye neyesetyhini? Amadoda - ngokuchanekileyo ngokuchanekileyo, abafazi-banomdla ngakumbi.
- Ingcamango yesifazana: "Ngenxa yokuba ndagqiba isigqibo! Kwaye kutheni ndigqibe isigqibo, kunjalo andisigqibo! ".
Kwiingxabano ezingapheliyo, ingqiqo yabo ingcono, akukho abaphumeleleyo nabalahlekileyo. Kwaye, ngokugqithiseleyo, ingcamango yabasetyhini kunye nabasilisa bahluke ngokwenene:
- Ibhinqa lithemba iimvakalelo zakhe. Le ndoda ikhokelwa yingqondo kunye neengxelo ezinikezelweyo.
- Iimpawu zeBhiliyo zesakhiwo seengqondo. Kubasetyhini, xa kwimeko engavamile, i-lobes yangaphambili yengqondo, ixanduva lokubonakalisa iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo , ziqala ukusebenza, amadoda ajika ngokukhawuleza amaziko okucoca ngolwazi olungenayo ngaphandle.
Iingcamango zesini - ingqondo
Ingcinga kunye neengcamango zabasetyhini zisekelwe kumsebenzi wengqondo ekhohlo, enoxanduva lokuphuhliswa kwamandla okudala, ezi zivakalelwa ngakumbi neemvakalelo, ukuphakama kwengqondo yesithandathu. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba le ndlela yokucinga kwabasetyhini inegalelo kwimvelo ngokwayo. Ibhinqa libuthakathaka ngokomzimba kunamadoda, kwaye ke iingenelo ezithile, ezahlukileyo kwiingcinga zendoda zancedisa isiqingatha esinyanisekileyo sabantu ukuba zive ingozi kwaye zibone ukudibanisa kunye nemiqobo engayize yazibonela, okanye iphume "ngokumnandi" kwimpikiswano kwaye ibonise ubungqina bakhe.
Ingcinga yomfazi isebenza njani?
Iingcamango zabasetyhini zikhethekileyo, kuphela umfazi ocinga ngokusekelwe ekucingeni kwakhe.
- Imvelaphi ye-hormone edla ngokutshintsha phakathi kwimijikelezo yokuya esikhathini nangemihla ebalulekileyo. Ukuziphatha kwabasetyhini kunye nezenzo zabo kuba "kungenangqiqo" ukusuka kwimbono yabantu.
- Uvakalelo okanye intuition . Kulo mbuzo "kutheni wenze le nto?" Ibhinqa alikwazi ukunika impendulo eqondayo evumelana nendoda. Kodwa amava obomi afakwa kwizinto ezingenanto azivumela ukuba ibhinqa libhetele kunokuba amadoda afunde ulwazi olungengomlomo: ukubonakalisa ubuso, impawu kunye nokuchaneka kwe-100%, uthi, umzekelo, nokuba ungathembela umntu othile.
- Umoya ophezulu kunye nomnikelo wendalo . Yintoni ephosa umfazi kwiingalo zamadakwa ezinxila, ezilahlekileyo. Umnqweno wokusindisa awunangqiqo kumadoda, kodwa kubonakala ngabafazi.
Indlela yokuqonda ingcamango yabasetyhini?
Amadoda ayaqonda njani ukuba abafazi bayifunayo kwaye kutheni baziphatha "ngokungekho mthethweni"? Kule nto kufuneka uyazi intsingiselo yenkcazelo yesetyhini. Iziphakamiso ezimbalwa ezilula kumadoda afuna ukuqonda inkambo yeengcamango zabasetyhini okanye ingqiqo yabo:
- umfazi ucinga ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa uhlala ecinga ngento ethile ekhonkrithi, engabonakaliyo (incedo ekufumaneni oko kusekhokhonkrithi);
- kwiingxabano, kubalulekile ukuba ibhinqa lingabonakali, kodwa yinto yokuzimela;
- Abasetyhini bavame ukuchasisa naziphi na izimvo baze bazigatye nantoni njengento engenakuncedo (kwaye kungenakho ukufumana iingongoma ezipheleleyo kulo mbandela).
- Ukucinga kwabasetyhini kuhlale kuhlangene nesiphumo esiyafaneleka.
Umfazi onengqondo yomntu
Iingcamango zengqondo yabesifazane zikhusela abantu abaninzi besifazane, njengobonakaliso bokuthambekela kwe-chauvinistic. Kodwa nayiphi na ingcamango, ingaba yindoda, inkunzi okanye isicatshulwa njengezesayensi-iqeqeshiwe njengezakhono, nayiphi na indlela yokucinga ingakwazi ukufumana amava. Kukho a mabhinqa aphuma ekuzalweni ayingxenye yesintu esengumntu weengcamango, anengqiqo kwaye ahambisanayo, abe nengqondo yokuhlalutya. Abafazi abanjalo bazibonela ngokuphumelelayo ngokwabo "imisebenzi" yesintu.