Kodwa ngokungathí sina, ingxaki yabantwana "ye-manicure" ingumdala njengehlabathi, kuphela indlela eya kwisisombululo sayo ishintshile namhlanje. Ngaphambili, akukho mntu wacinga ukuba unomntwana oneminyaka engama-3 ukugubha izikhonkwane - izihlandlo ezimbalwa ezityumkileyo iminwe yesardadi, kwaye ngoko lucky. Ngoku, ekubeni ngabantu banamhlanje nabaneleyo, abazali bazama ukujongana neengxaki ngokucokisekileyo, kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi, ukuseka izizathu zokubonakala kwayo.
Indlela yokuxhatshaza umntwana oneminyaka engama-3 ukugaya izipikili: amehlo oogqirha beengqondo
Nangona kubonakala kungenakubungozi, umkhwa wokubambisa i-marigolds kunye ne-burrs kuyisizathu sokuba abazali baveze umonde nokulinda. Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, uhlobo olungenanto lwe-unesthetic lweminwe yomntwana yimiqondiso yokuqala malunga nokukhathazeka ngokomoya kunye nemvakalelo yangaphakathi yomntu omncinci. Ngako oko, uzibuza indlela yokulusa umntwana ukuba aqoke izipikili kwiminyaka engama-3, into yokuqala yokunyamekela imeko yakhe yengqondo.
Akumangalisi ukuba kwiminyaka engama-3 abantu abadala bayaqaphela kwiingxaki zomntwana wabo umquba wokuzenzela, ngenxa yokuba eli xesha lokuphila kwimivumba lidibene namava amaninzi kunye nobunzima. Zigwebe ngokwakho: ukulungelelaniswa koluntu kwi-kindergarten, kunye neenkqubo eziyinkimbinkimbi zokuba ngumntu, ngenxa yoko, iminwe ilulale emlonyeni.
Ngoko, yintoni omele uyenze kuqala, ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-3 gnaws izipikili. Kubaqalayo, kulungile ukubuza umntwana malunga nobomi bakhe bezilwane kunye nabahlobo abatsha. Mhlawumbi ikhubekisa oontanga, okanye i-crumb iyesaba ukuthetha koluntu. Akunangqiqo ukubuza utitshala: yonke into ihamba ngendlela kunye nendlela umntwana aziphatha ngayo ngayo engadini. Kukho amaxesha apho abantwana, ngale ndlela, basabela ngayo kumazwi ootitshala. Jonga ingqalelo apho uya khona engadini kwaye ubuyele ekhaya kuye.
Ukuba konke kulungile apho, ngoko kukufanele ukubukela ukuziphatha komntwana ekhaya. Ngamaphi amaxesha aqala ukugubha izipikili zakhe: ngelixa ebuka iikhathuni, edlala imidlalo, emva kokuxabana nabazali bakhe, okanye mhlawumbi eneentloni xa abantu abangaqhelekanga beza kutyelela uMama noTata. Kananjalo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo izipikili ziyimpembelelo yentsapho.
Emva kokuseka isizathu, kuyimfuneko ukuqhubela phambili kwizenzo ezisebenzayo ezijoliswe ekuqheleni okanye ekutshintsheni isimo sengqondo seemvuthu kwizinto ezenzekayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba:
- Umntwana ugqobhoza izipikili zakhe xa ecaphukile, - kubalulekile ukuba afunde ukutshintsha ingqalelo yakhe;
- ukuhlanjululwa kwempahla, oku kungenxa yokunyaniseka kunye nokuzithoba , - kubalulekile ukuba udumise umntwana kwaye ukhuthaze iqela;
- Amava angaphakathi ahlobene neemeko zentsapho, ngoko umbuzo kubazali;
- akunakwenzeka ukuyicombulula ingxaki yakho - kufuneka ufune uncedo olufanelekileyo oluvela kwi-psychologist.
Ukubuyela kumbuzo wento oyenzayo xa umntwana engama-3 gnaws emininini, umntu unokucebisa abazali, i-smear ibamba i-remedy ekhuselekileyo kwaye ikhuselekile, kwaye kukho iipilisi ezikhethekileyo.