Ukuya kwiholide ngaphandle kwesi sixeko, asicingi malunga noko abantwana bethu baya kwenza khona. Kufuneka babe yinto yokuzonwabisa, kwaye kule nto uza kunceda izakhiwo zezemidlalo zentlalo zezindlu zokuhlala, eziqinisekileyo ukukholisa umntwana. Ukongeza, abazali baya kuba nexesha lokuphumla okanye ukupheka i-shish kebab.
Kutheni sifuna amaziko ezemidlalo kweli lizwe?
Njengoko uyazi, abantwana abanqwenela ukuhlala ixesha elide endaweni enye. Ukongezelela, abaninzi abantwana banomdaka - kungekhona indawo eyintandokazi yokuzonwabisa. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba kaninzi bangenanto yokwenza apho, ngaphandle kokunceda njani umama ukhula iibhedi.
Isakhiwo esihle sezemidlalo kwindawo yokuhlala ehlobo kunokusombulula le ngxaki. Nangona umama nobaba bexakeke ngezoshishino okanye bafuna ukuphumla, umntwana uya kukwazi ukuzibhenela ixesha elide ukuba unendawo yokudlala egodini lakhe. Musa ukulahla lo mdlalo kunye nabantwana abasondelene nabo.
Musa ukulibala malunga nokuya ngqo kwimiba yezemidlalo - ukukhula ngokomzimba kwabantwana. Ukuzivocavoca, ingakumbi kwilizwe elitsha lomoya, yiloo nto ifunwa ngumntwana ngamnye, ukuchitha ixesha elininzi lonyaka kumaziko abantwana kunye nasekhaya, ehleli kwiikhomputha okanye kwiTV.
Unokukhetha njani ubunzima bokuhlala kwehlobo?
Izakhiwo zezemidlalo zasehlotyeni zabantwana ziza kwiinkqubo ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo zibandakanya izlayidi, ukuguquka, izitebhisi kunye neentambo. Ngelo xesha, ezo zixhobo zihambelana kakuhle kwididi, zidibanisa ngokwaneleyo, zilungele kwaye zilula ukuyifaka. Ungathandabuzeki, umntwana wakho uya kuvuyiswa ngokupheleleyo kunye nokuzonwabisa okunjalo. Ukongezelela, akayi kuba nexhala, uya kunceda ukuphuhlisa kwaye kuya kubangela ukuba nemizwa emihle imihla ngemihla.
Ingakumbi umntwana uya kuthandana nobunzima, obandakanya zonke iindidi zemidlalo. Okokuqala, le yindlu. Naliphi umzali owaziyo ukuba abantwana bathanda ukudlala imidlalo kwizindlu ezincinci. Apho banakho ukuxhobisa "ikomkhulu", i-cabin ye nqanawa yepirate, umqolomba - into engummangaliso apha.
Okwangoku, imarike yemveliso yabantwana inikeza uluhlu olubanzi lwezemidlalo zezitalato ezivela kwiindawo ezincinci ezincinci ukuya kwizinto ezintle ezikwinqanaba elingaphantsi ngee-tunnels kunye ne-labyrinths. Ungakhetha isakhiwo esenziwe ngentsimbi, ukhuni okanye iplastiki. Ikhetho lokugqibela linokufakwa kwindlu.
Xa uthengwa, qwa lasela amandla kunye nomgangatho wezinto eziphathekayo. Emva kwakho konke, ukhuseleko lomntwana luya kuxhomekeka kulo ngqo. Imbakala ebalulekileyo yengubo yesakhiwo. Abantwana bathanda yonke into ecacileyo, yingakho besawubhenca imidlalo yezemidlalo ngokubanzi, imibala eqaqambileyo. Kule meko, ipende kufuneka ixhathise ukuxhatshazwa, kwimiba engqongileyo, imeko zemozulu kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ayiyingozi kwimpilo. Kukho iinguqu-zitshintshi ezinokuphinda zakhiwe ngokutsha okanye ziphendukele ngaphesheya kwaye zifumane enye intsimi yemidlalo.
Izakhiwo zezemidlalo zezingane zibonelela ngokuzonwabisa kunye nemidlalo. Ngaloo xesha, "udibaniso" olungathandabuzekiyo kukuba umntwana wakho uhlala phantsi kweliso.
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