Umtshato ngokwayo ngumcimbi oqaqambileyo, kodwa kaninzi ufuna ukunikela ubungqina obuninzi, ukwenza enye inkcazelo ebalulekileyo. Kwale ndawo, izifungo zomtshato zidlalwa namhlanje. Emva koko, amazwi athiwa othandana ngaphambi kokuba ngumntu oyedwa - intsapho, isoloko ishukumisa kakhulu kwaye ikhunjulwa ubomi. Ngoko, malunga noko uza kuthetha, kufuneka ucinge kwangaphambili.
Ungabhala njani isibhambathiso somtshato?
Kukho iindlela ezintathu eziphambili:
- uthathe izibhambathiso zomtshato ezenziwe ngokulungelelaniso kwaye ukhethe into efanelekileyo kwimeko ethile;
- bhala itekisi "ukusuka ekuqaleni" ngokwakho;
- ulungise isifungo esihle esivela kumlobi wezentetho okanye umlobi.
Ifom efanelekileyo eyenziwe ngomlomo ifanelekile, ukuba akukho xesha lokubhala into yakho okanye unqatshelwe isipho sombhali kwaye ungafuni ukubetha ukungcola ebusweni. Kodwa kungcono, kuthatha njengesiseko somzekelo othile, ukuzama ukubonisa ngesifungo zakho iimvakalelo kwaye wenze kube yinto ehlukile, eyenziwe ngokukhethekileyo kumntu othandekayo kuwe. Kule nanjalo, kukho intsikelelo ekhethekileyo, eqinisweni, eyona nto yayisisiseko sokuqala kwesi sithethe.
Eyona ndlela ixhaphakileyo, isisombululo, ifom elandelayo: "(I-FI) ikuthatha (FI) ibe ngumfazi kwaye ufunge ukuba uhlale nawe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani, kunye nokugula, kunye nempilo, kunye nentlungu, kunye nokuchuma, kwaye engxakini, kunye nolonwabo de kube sekupheleni. " Ngokwakhe, unokufumana iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo, eziza kukubangela imfesane , ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokwenza isilungiso sokuba ingaba isifungo somyeni okanye umtshakazi.
Izifungo zomtshato zomtshakazi
Nangona kukho umthetho ongabonakaliyo wokuthi iimpawu zomlomo zomyeni kunye nomtshakazi kufuneka zibe njengesiqingatha sazo zonke, zizalisana, akudingekile ukuba zilandele. Kwaye iqabane elizayo linelungelo lokuza neyakhe, yangaphambili. Inkqubo ecacileyo yenziwe yinto enzima kakhulu, kodwa ilula ngokulula, intle kwaye ichukumisa, ukuze ingafani nento ebonakalayo evela kumdlalo. Makube bhetele amagama angamazwi alula, afaneleke kumfanekiso omhle wabatshati kunye nengubo yakhe emhlophe.
Izifungo zomtshato zomyeni
Ukunyaniseka kuya kuba ngumntu kunye nendoda ezayo. Umyeni ufanelekile ngakumbi into engacacanga kakhulu kunye nelaconic. Umzekelo wesibhambathiso somtshato: "Ndiyathembisa phambi kwabo bonke ukuba babe ngumyeni wakho othembekileyo nothando. Ndiza kukuphatha ngothando nangentlonelo, ndiza kubelana nawe zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Kwaye ndifungela ukuba andiyi kunikhaphela okanye kukucaphukisa. "
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