Ummeli ngamnye wesini esilungileyo ophendule ukuba "Ewe" kwisiphakamiso sokutshata uqala ukucinga malunga nendlela engcono ngayo ukulungiselela lo mhla omuhle womtshato. Umnqweno wokwenza iholide enika ezininzi iimvakalelo ezintle zivela kuzo zonke iintombazana. Ngoko ke, ukulungiselela umtshato, njengomthetho, kuqala ngokukhawuleza phambi kwaloo suku oluxabisekileyo.
Umbuzo othi "Yintoni efunekayo kwintlangano kunye nokugcinwa komtshato?" Unomdla kubo bonke abaza kutshata. Akukho mpendulo enye kulo mbuzo. Ngokuxhomekeka kwinqanaba lombhiyozo kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngumyeni nomyeni, ukulungiselela kufuneka kuqale. Umtshato ngamnye unamanqanaba athile, okufuneka ukulungiswe kwangaphambili. Kule nqaku uza kufunda okokufunekayo ekulungiseleleni umtshato kwaye ngaphandle kokuthi izinto ezinyanzelekileyo izinto ezingenakukwazi ukuhanjiswa nazo ngexesha lokubhiyozela.
Ngoko, okufuneka ulungiselele umtshato:
- Indawo yokubhiyozela. Inketho ekhethiweyo kwaye ekhethiweyo yivenkile yokudlela okanye i-cafe. Kule mibutho, imitshato emibini yemveli ibhiyozelwa. Ngaphambi kokukhetha indawo yokutyela, kufuneka unqume kwinani leendwendwe emtshatweni, ubuninzi babo bangamadoda, abafazi kunye nabantwana.
- Imenyu yomtshato. Izidlo kwietafile zemihla yokuzonwabisa - lelinye lezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kumcimbi wento efunekayo ngosuku lomtshato. Ngokwenza imenyu kwindawo yokutyela, njengomgaqo, umlawuli unceda. Ingcali iza kukunceda ukhethe inani elifanelekileyo lokutya ukuze iitheyibhile ilungele kwaye ihluke. Ukuba uya kubhiyozela umtshato ekhaya, imenyu iya kufuneka iqulunqwe ngokuzimela. Kwakhona, kuyimfuneko ukunyamekela ukuba enye yezihlobo zanceda ekulungiseleleni izitya zokutya.
- Izothutho lomtshato. Ukucinga malunga nento oyenzayo yomtshato, awukwazi ukuphosa umzuzu obalulekileyo njengenhlangano yentengiso yeendwendwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni umcimbi wokubhiyozelwa kunye nendawo apho kuza kugubha khona, zonke iindwendwe kufuneka zilungiselele ukuthutha kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa ukuya kwindawo yokutyela okanye indlu. Ukuba unqwenela, unokwenza umyalelo we-limousine okanye enye imoto enhle kumyeni nomyeni.
- Ifoto kunye nokudutshulwa kwevidiyo. Okwangoku, akukho mtshato ongenakwenza ngaphandle komfoto. Ukucinga malunga nokwenza ngaphambi komtshato, qiniseka ukuba uquka uluhlu lwezinto ezifunekayo zokukhangela umfaki-zithombe kunye nomsebenzisi.
- Inkqubo yomtshato. Ukukhathazeka ngombuzo wento efunekayo ekulungiseleleni umtshato, kuyimfuneko ukucinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga neendwendwe eziza kubonwa ngalo mhla oqaqambileyo. Ukuqala ukususela kusasa, ngokuqhubekayo kwiofisi yokubhalisa, indawo ezingakukhunjulwa kwisixeko nakwiipaki, kunye nokuphela kwendawo yokutyela, inkqubo enomdla yeendwendwe kufuneka ihlelwe.
Inxalenye enkulu yokulungiselela umtshato, ngokwemvelo, iwela kumahlombe omtshakazi nomyeni. Akufuneki kuphela ukunyamekela imbonakalo yabo, kodwa baququzelele ngokugqibeleleyo umhla womtshato ngendlela efanelekileyo yokuba zonke iindwendwe zizonwabisa.
Umtshakazi ufuna umtshato? Okokuqala, indoda ethandekayo njengomyeni. Kwaye, nenkxaso yezihlobo kunye nobungqina obuthembekileyo, ngubani oya kukunceda ukhethe ingubo kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko.
Yintoni umyeni efuna umtshato? Ukongezelela ekuthandweni njengomtshakazi, umyeni udinga umngane omhle njengobufakazi, ngubani oza kunceda entlanganisweni kwaye akuxelele ukuba yiyiphi imingcipheko efunekayo kumtshato.
Kuyaziwa ukuba indima ebalulekileyo emtshatweni idlalwa ngqina kunye nobungqina. Ukuba unethamsanqa kwaye wamenywa emtshatweni njengengqina, ngoko kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ungubani na ubungqina kunye nemibandela yomtshato:
- kuba ne-arsenal yeembolisi ezininzi kunye namanqaku anomdla avela ebomini abancinci ngokuncoma;
- ukuqinisekisa ukuba izindlu neziglasi zokubetha, izipho zokhuphiswano, i-champagne nezinye izinto ezincinane azizange zilibale ekhaya;
- uyazi ukuba uthini emtshatweni, ingakumbi ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni abazange balungise umphathi wesigqeba;
- ncedise umphathi wesigqeba ekuqhubeni imincintiswano kunye nokuhlelwa kwemicimbi eyahlukeneyo yokuzonwabisa.