Izipho zoNyaka omtsha ukuya kubaselula

Xa kusele iintsuku ezimbalwa kude kubekho iholide elinde ixesha elide elilindelwe konyaka, abaninzi abantu bachitha ixesha elikhulu kwiindawo ezitolo bazama ukukhetha nokuthenga izipho kuzo zonke izihlobo zabo, abazali, abantwana kunye nabahlobo. Kwaye abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba iziphi izipho zonyaka omtsha zingahanjiswa kubantwana abaselula. Ngokuqhelekileyo izipho zonyaka zintsha ezenzelwe ulutsha olukhulu. Emva kwayo yonke into, ubuncinane bubunzima kakhulu, kwaye kunzima kubantwana kule minyaka ukukholisa.

Yintoni enokuyinika intombazana?

Ewe, khetha into enike intombazana engumfana oselula, kulula ngakumbi kunomfana osemdala. Onke amantombazana, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, aya kuvuyiswa ngesitophelo sezothengiso okanye ingubo egqwesileyo apho banokuziva bazikhulile kunye nabafana. Ukongezelela, amantombazana aya kufumana ibhotile yamanzi yangasese yolutsha olutsha , isethi yokuqala yelinen "yangasese" yangasese, iisethi zokuhlambela, isambatho esithambileyo, iingubo ezigugu, iindidi ezintle ze-gizmos ezinxulumene nesimboli sonyaka ozayo, kwakunye neeCD kunye neefowuni zomculi ozithandayo kunye ngakumbi.

Yintoni enokunika inkwenkwana?

Kule meko, ukuthabatha into onokuyenza inkwenkwe engumfana, ngamanye amaxesha iya kuba nzima. Abafana kule minyaka abasayi kudlala kumathoyizi, kodwa abaninzi abaselula banomdla kakhulu kwiimidlalo zekhompyutheni zanamhlanje, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuvuyela ukufumana njengesipho esitsha esasandul 'ukukhishwa kwesidlali esithandwayo. Ukuba umntu osemncinini usebenza kuyo nayiphi na imidlalo, ngoko ke ingcamango yento enokuyinika umntwana oselula, unokuxhuma kunye nenjongo yokuzonwabisa. Ingaba ibhola yebhola, kunye nentonga yeHockey, kunye ne-kimono yaseJapane, kunye ne-ski mask, kunye nokunye okuninzi-konke okuya kukunceda umntwana ukuba aphumelele ezemidlalo kwiindawo eziphakamileyo.

Ukuba umntwana wakho akayithandi into ekhethekileyo, kwaye uzibuza malunga nesiphi isipho onika kumntwana osemva ixesha elide, ungasebenzisa ukhetho lokuwina. Wonke umntu uya kuvuya ukufumana isipho njengesipho, nokuba bhetele, ukuba ibhanki yebhanki, apho uya kuqhubeka nokuyithumela imali yakhe. Ngaphandle koko, ingaba isatifiketi sesipho sesitokethi oyintandokazi esithile sakho, osibeka sona. Izipho zemali zonyaka omtsha ziya kubavumela abantwana ukuba bavelele ukuzimela kwabo kwaye balahle imali ngokuqonda kwabo.