Izizathu ezibalulekileyo zeengxaki
Kukho imiba emininzi enokubangela ukuba abantwana abangekho banomdla kwizinto zokufunda baze bafunde kwiiklasi ezinomdla:
- ngamanye amaxesha izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezenzo zokuzilibazisa zenza ukuba abantwana baphazamiseke ngokupheleleyo ebomini ubomi;
- Mhlawumbi umntwana uxabana nomnye okanye abafundi abaninzi;
- ukuba izalamane zichithe ixesha elincinane nabantwana, musa ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini babo, oku kunokuchaphazela izifundo zabo;
- kukho imeko eyahlukileyo xa umama enza zonke izigqibo ngokwayo, engavumeli umntwana ukuba athathe inyathelo;
- ukuba ngaba abantwana abanalo ubudlelwane obuhle notitshala, oku kubangela ukuba ulwazi kunye nokuvavanya zihlupheke.
Kufuneka sihlalutye ingxaki, siyihlole ngokucacileyo kwaye sicinge ngendlela yokukhuthaza umntwana ukuba afunde. Kufuneka uxoxe nomfundisi weklasi, abanye ootitshala okanye isazi senzululwazi yesikolo.
Iingcebiso kubazali indlela yokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bafunde:
Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi ezinokukunceda ukujamelana nengxaki yokukhuthaza umntwana ukuba afunde:
- Ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka kuthiwe ngendlela engaqinisekanga ngayo indlela uqeqesho oluye lwabanceda ngayo abazali okanye omnye umntu ebomini babo;
- Kubalulekile ukuchaza ukuba uvavanyo aluyiyo injongo yokuya esikolweni, ekubeni ulwazi nokuqonda kwezifundo kubaluleke kakhulu;
- awukwazi ukulawula ngokugcwele ukusebenza komsebenzi wesikolo okanye uwenze ngenxa yomfundi ngenxa yamanqaku amahle, kodwa umama okanye utata angayi kunqanda uncedo xa umntwana ecela yona;
- Ukuze unomdla kumfundi ngokufunda, umntu kufuneka achaze indlela ulwazi olufunyenwe ngayo kwiminyaka yesikolo lunokubaluleka ebomini, ubomi bemihla ngemihla, kutheni kukho iklasi efunekayo kuzo zonke;
- kufuneka udumise abantwana ngokuphindaphindiweyo, nangona kuninzi, ekubonweni kokuqala, impumelelo encinci, kungekhona ukujezisa wonke amanqaku amabi.
Abanye oomama basebenzisa intlawulo yempahla, njengethuba lokukhuthaza umntwana ukuba afunde. Enyanisweni, indlela enjalo ingaba nemiphumo ethile, kodwa kufuneka ifakwe ingqalelo ukuba abantwana, ngoko ke, basebenzise ukukhangela inzuzo ngeendlela zonke, bakhule ngabathengi. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuphepha kwizinto ezinjalo.
Kubalulekile ukuthatha inxaxheba ebomini babantwana, ukuba banomdla kwizinto zokuzilibazisa, bawajikeleze ngokunyamekela kunye nokunyamekela, baqinisekise ukuzithemba. Kwakhona kuyimfuneko ukuba bavumele ukuba benze izigqibo baze babe noxanduva lwezenzo zabo.