Kwamadoda amaninzi, abahlobo bayingxenye ebalulekileyo yobomi, ngezinye izihlandlo ezichaphazelayo ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho. Yingakho isihloko sendlela yokuqhuba umyeni kude nabangane kuye kwayimfuneko iminyaka emininzi. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokusombulula le ngxaki.
Ndingayikhupha njani abahlobo bam kubahlobo benxilongo ngoncedo lomlingo?
Kukho iinkqubo ezininzi ezahlukileyo ezikunceda ukujamelana nale ngxaki. Unokwenza umkhosi kunye namaqhekeza. Emva kwayo nayiphi na isidlo, kufuneka uthabathe indwangu yetafile kwaye kuyo kufuneka ibe yimvumba esele yindoda. Kumele kuthathwe kumlambo uze uxhuzulwe emanzini, uxele iqhinga lokudambisa indoda kubahlobo, kuba le nto iyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwisithethe:
Omnye ugiba ngamanzi, omnye uhamba entabeni, Konke ayenzeki, awazi ubuhlobo, Endleleni yomntu ongahambi kumakhoboka kaThixo (igama lomyeni kunye nabaziyo). Amazwi yinqaba yam, yinqaba yam. Musa ukuhleka, musa ukubetha nabani ngoku! Amen! "
Emva koko, ungaya ekhaya, kodwa kubalulekile endleleni, ungathethi nabani na. Iziphumo ziya kubonakala ngenyanga.
Iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokugcina umyeni wakho kubahlobo ababi
Kwezinye iimeko, kwanele nje ukuthetha nomlingane wakho ukulungisa imeko. Into ephambili kukuba ukwenze ngomoya ozolileyo, unobtrusively, ngaphandle kokusongela kunye nokungabikho komthetho. Kukho ezinye iingcomo ezinceda ukugcina umntu othandekayo kwiinkampani ezimbi:
- Kwindoda ayifuni inkxaso kwicala, kufuneka ube ngumhlobo wakhe. Umfazi kufuneka anike inkxaso kwaye abe ngumcebisi olungileyo. Kunconywa ukuba unomdla ngakumbi ebomini bakhe ngaphandle kwentsapho, ukukunceda nokukhuthaza.
- Mhlawumbi wayenxunguke kunye nolwalamano lwentsapho, kwaye ufuna iinjongo kwicala? Kule meko, ngokwanele ukuzisa into entsha, umzekelo, ukulungiselela ukutya okuthandana, ukuchitha ixesha lokukhulula kunye, njl njl.
- Zama ukubandakanya umyeni wakho kwimicimbi yentsapho. Unokwenza into ejikeleze indlu, umzekelo, mcele ukuba ahlaziye itompu, zixake ikhefu, zihlambulule kwibhontoni. Thetha kunye neqabane lakho ukuze ahlale ixesha elininzi kunye nabantwana kwaye anike ixesha. Kubalulekile ukuba wayeva ukubaluleka kwakhe kwaye izifundo ezinjalo zavuya.
Enye inyathelo eliyingozi kukuba umyeni wakhe abe nomona ngabahlobo bakhe. Nantoni na into ongayithethayo, amadoda angabanikazi, kwaye abayi kuphinda bahlule umfazi wabo othandekayo, kunye nabahlobo.