"Nangona ndikhumbule, andizange ndithande nabani na, ekuqaleni ndavakalelwa esikolweni ukuba andithandi abafana, ngoko andizange ndiphumelele kubafana beziko, kutheni? Andiyonto embi, endinxibe, kungekhona kwindlela yokugqibela, kodwa kungeyona imbi, kwaye ndiyakwazi ukubamba ingxoxo, kuyintoni na into? "Ngaba nawe ucinga ngaloo ndlela? Emva koko kuyimfuneko yokwenza into ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle koko akuyi kudala ukuchitha ubomi bakho bodwa. Mhlawumbi ngoko, kwangoko ukuya kwiitonta, eh? Awunayo loo mnqweno? Yiyeke ukuzithoba ngemibuzo enjengale "Kutheni ndingamthandi abantu?" Kwaye "Ziziphi iimantombazana azithandi abantu, kunye nento abayithandayo?" Qala usebenze! Isiseko apho intandokazi yintombazana evela kwesini esahlukileyo isekelwe ukuzithemba kwayo. Kodwa indlela yokufezekisa ngayo, ngoku siya kuqonda.
Beauties angenza nantoni na!
Ngaba ucinga ukuba impumelelo yamadoda isetyenziswe kuphela ngamantombazana aneempawu ezifanelekileyo kunye nomfanekiso ochanekileyo, kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba amantombazana enamafutha ayithandi mntu? Okokuqala, yintoni intsingiselo ye "bunzima"? I-Chubby, i-plump, i-pyshechki, njengaye kwaye akukho nto enye. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, bonke abantu bahluke, umntu ufuna imodeli yentombazana, kwaye omnye umntu udibana nabafazi abancinci nabancinci. Inzuzo eyona nto kukunika isithunzi sakho. Kwaye ukuba wena, njengoko bethetha yonke into kubo, akufanele ufihla ubuhle bezinto ezinobungqina. Kodwa izambatho akuzona zonke izinto. Khawucinge nje naluphi na ubuhle obubonakalayo emhlabeni wonke, ngeenwele ezingahlambulukanga, iinwele ezingenakunqandwa, ukungabikho kokwenza kunye nezikhonkwane eziphukileyo. Ukwesaba, kunene? Ngoko yintoni ongayifumana isiqingatha seyure yokuqhawula imithi uze ulungele ukutyelela umnwele? Yilumkele nje nge-makeup - iitoni ze "plaster" ziyakwenza ube ngongcolileyo, kwaye ungathandeki. Isibambiso sobuhle yimilebe ehlanjululwe kahle, ecacileyo (egxininiswe ngokuchanekileyo) amehlo kunye nempilo (kwaye ingabomnyama obomnyama ovela ebusweni belanga). Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, mncoma. Ubumnandi obuninzi bubuso buyenza kube mnandi kangangokuthi amadoda akakwazi ukukhupha amehlo abo, kwaye kunye nokulahla kwezinto ezilungileyo akuzange kubonakalise nabani na.
"Yena ngokwakhe uzuke kakhulu, ubonakala ngathi uhamba ..."
Ucinga ntoni, intombazana eyekezelayo ingakhange ibonakale ebusweni xa ithetha, kwaye ibukeka njengentana enemilenze ephukileyo? Eyona mininzi - iyisihawu, kodwa asiyidingi loo nto. Ngoko ke ngokukhawuleza ukulungelelanisa (unokwazi ukuhamba ekhaya nencwadi entloko yakho ukuhlaziya). Ewe, kwaye ngaphezu kobabalo oluqhelekileyo akuwona msebenzi omubi - oku kuya kunceda ekufundiseni nasekutheni.
Ngokufanayo kunye nokubukeka-siqeqesha, sisebenza njengokuba esibukweni sibukeka sisithambile kwiintombazana zayo ezithandekayo. Kwaye ukhangeleka kwaye uhamba kakuhle, ungazithengi ukusebenzisa isicelo. Into ephambili ayikukudibanisa ubufazi kunye neendlela kunye nokuzikhukhumeza.
Kwaye, ke, sifunda ukuthetha ngendlela enokuthi sinomdla kumnxibelelwano. Asiyikugxeka kakhulu, ingakumbi kwiintlanganiso zokuqala, sibonisa umdla - asiyikuthintela inkwenkwe ukuba ingathethi ngaye, njl njl.
Emancipation kubi?
Akuninzi malunga nokukhululwa, ingaba amantombazana amaninzi awaqondi kakuhle intsingiselo yaleli gama. Ukuzimela, ubukho bobuqu kunye nokukwazi ukuyikhusela, ngenxa yokubuyiselwa kwemfundo kunye nemfundo-zonke ezi zinzuzo zokukhululwa, okungafanelekanga. Kodwa ukukopisha indlela yendoda yokunxibelelana ayimfuneko. Ukuba intombazana eziphatha njengendoda ayithandi umfana, oko akumangalisi. Abafana abanjalo abaqondi nje ngabantu ngabanye onokuzakhelana nabo,
Ziziphi iimantombazana ezinjengobafana, impendulo echanekileyo ayiyi kuphuma - wonke umntu uthanda izinto ezahlukeneyo, kodwa into ephambili kukuba oku kufuneka kube yendalo. Ungabi namahloni ngonaphakade, kwaye umbuzo othi, "Kutheni ndingathandi abantu?" Kuya kuphelelwa ukuba lufaneleke.