Ngamnye wethu unezinto ezithandwayo okanye izinto ezithandayo, kuba ekuzalweni umntu unento ethile ethile kwimisebenzi ethile, njl njl. Nangona kubonakala kuwe ukuba akukho nto inokuthabatha, ulahlekile kakhulu. Inokwenzeka ukuba, engazange idibene nesifundo esinomdla ngokwenene, ngoko makhe sizame ukubona isizathu sokwenza umdlalo .
Kutheni kudlalwa ngumntu?
Ngokutsho kombhali odumileyo, kunye nentsapho yefilosofi uFrederic Begbeder, wonke umntu ufuna nje ukuzonwabisa. Ngokwezifundo zandul 'utsha, abaninzi abahlali bamazwe aseCIS abanalo, nantoni yokuba iingqondo zengqondo zithi ukuba nomsebenzi ozithandayo kubomi bomntu wonke udlala indima ebalulekileyo. Emva koko, benza ubomi bethu buhambelane, kunceda ekuphuculeni.
Ngaphezu koko, izinto zokuzilibazisa zinceda ekuthintekeni kweengxaki ze-neuropsychic. Akudingeki ukuba baqhelane nomsebenzi, kodwa ukukhankanya ukuzonwabisa kwakho kwi-resume uyakwazi ukukubonisa njengomntu wokuqala kunye noyiluntu.
Kwengqondo, kukholelwa ukuba ukuwanelisa umntu kuyimfuneko ukuseka iziqalo ezinhlanu ezibalulekileyo: impilo, ishishini, intsebenziswano kunye nemali. Musa ukuxhoma kwinto enye. Ukuba uchitha yonke ixesha lakho lokukhulula ufumana iindlela zokufumana imali eyongezelelweyo, kwaye usengozini yokuchitha ubuhlobo bakho nabathandekayo. Kuphila kuphela ngenxa yabantwana? - kwixesha elizayo uza kufakwa kukudumala, njengoko iinkuku zihlala zishiya isidleke sazo.
Kwimeko apho zonke izakhi ezikhankanywe ngasentla ziphuhliswa ngokulinganayo, sivuyisana, ungumntu onoyolo.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukungaphumeleli emsebenzini okanye ebomini bodwa kubakho ukuhlawulwa yizinto ezithandwayo. Ezi zilandelayo zenza ubomi buncwane ngakumbi kwaye bunomdla, bukhuthaze ekuphuhliseni phambili kunye nokukhangela imithombo emitsha yolonwabo.
Ungakhetha njani ukuzonwabisa okulungileyo?
Ngokuqhelekileyo unako ukugcina umfanekiso olandelayo: umntu unyanzelekile ukuba ahlale efumana imali yokondla intsapho yakhe, kwaye akanayo nje ixesha. Kodwa ngamnye wethu unetalente zemvelo kunye nekhono elindele ukuqonda kwabo. Ngethuba nje kwi-events of life, asicingi ngabo ngabo.
Kufuneka uzikhethele i-hobby yeyona nto ihamba phambili kuyo yonke into eyenziwa yihlabathi lanamhlanje. Ukuba uyayazi ngokucacileyo oko ufuna ukukwenza, indawo yonke iya kukunika ithuba elinjalo. Ungakhethi umsebenzi ogqithiseleyo okanye ugxininise kwizinto ezithandwa ngabantu abaninzi.
Khetha into eyenza intliziyo yakho ibetha ngokukhawuleza kwaye imkholise umphefumlo. Kungenzeka ukuba oku kungenziwa ilungiselelo langaphakathi, ukudlala ipiyano, ukufunda iilwimi eziliqela ngexesha elinye, ukuhamba, njl.
Akuyi kubakho ukuqaphela ukuba into yokuzonwabisa njengeshishini yindlela ehle kakhulu yokuzimelela nokuzuza. Ukuba unomdla omkhulu kwinto ethile, ngoko ngexesha elifanelekileyo ungaqeqesha abantu, uqhube izifundo zakho okanye wenze iiprogram. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kuzuza imali, kwaye uyazi ukuba unako ukukwenza ngexesha elifanayo. Le ndlela yithembekileyo kakhulu ekutyhileni iitalente zakho, ngoko cinga ngenyameko malunga noko ufuna ukukwenza.
Indlela yokuchaza indlela yokuzonwabisa?
Malunga nomntu unokuthetha ezininzi kwizinto ezithandwayo:
- Njengomthetho, iimfuno zabantu abakhutheleyo nabangamavakalelo bakha i-hobby ehambelana nemidlalo okanye imisebenzi esebenzayo ngokubanzi. Oku kuchazwe ngokucacileyo - bafuna indawo ethile yokubeka amandla abo. Baququzelela amaqela, bahlanganyele ekudleni okanye kwizemidlalo ezimbi.
- I-Egocenters zibonise ngokwazo ezi zinto zizenzekelayo: ziyakuthanda ukuqokelela izinto ezifake imfashini, ukuba zivele kwiindawo apho zingafumana khona.
- Abantu abahamba ngeenyawo kunye nabanempilo unokufumana iqoqo leemali zexesha elidala, izitampu, ii-postcards okanye i-postcards,
izinto zembali, njl - Ubume bemvelo bubonakaliswa ekudalweni kwemisebenzi enomdla.
Kodwa, ngelishwa, abaninzi abantu basebenzisa ixesha labo kwiintanethi zentlalo , bebukela iTV okanye bathetha nabantu kwifowuni. Bawutyeshela ukubaluleka kokuzilibazisa.
Ekugqibeleni kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba, ngokweengcali zengqondo, abantu abanomdla wokuzonwabisa okanye abahlala kwimpilo ebathandayo bayaphumelela kwimisebenzi yabo. Xa sele bephumelele impumelelo ethile, bavelisa umdlalo wokunyuka okuqhubekayo kwiinqanaba. Baye banokuzithemba ngakumbi ngokwabo kwaye kulula ukujamelana noyiko lwabo, oluya kuchazwa ngokukhululwa kwigazi lehomoni yolonwabo ngexesha lomsebenzi othandekayo.