Iingcamango ziyakucingelwa njengengcaciso ethile yenkcazo engakumbi malunga nento eyenzelwe umntu. Ngokuchazwa ngokuchanekileyo, unokufunda okubalulekileyo kwaye kunomdla. Ekubeni amaphupha malunga nomfazi okhulelwe akanakho ukutolika ngokucacileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathiso, umzekelo, nokuba uyaziwayo okanye cha, izenzo zakhe, njl. Zama ukukhumbula kwakhona umthwalo wemvakalelo. Ndiyabulela kule nto, kuya kubakho ukongeza umfanekiso oqhelekileyo kunye owandisiweyo.
Kutheni umfazi okhulelweyo ephupha?
Ngokwezesini esifanelekileyo kwisimo, eli phupha libonisa ukuba ukukhulelwa kuya kuzinza ngaphandle kweengxaki. Ukuba loo mphupha ibonwa ngumntu onenkathazo zezemali, ngokukhawuleza ungalindela ukuphucula imeko yezemali. Iphupha, apho ukulwa okukhulelweyo, ukuprofeta iingxaki kunye namava ahlukeneyo. Ukuchazwa kokulala malunga nowesifazane okhulelweyo kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala, umzekelo, ukuba wayemncinci, ngoko kusasa umntu uza kufuna ukulawula umphuphi okanye uya kugula kakhulu. Iphupha elifanayo kwintombazana encinci ithembisa ukukhohlisa, kwaye umntu omdala-uvuyo.
Umbono ebusuku womama okhulelwe ngumqondiso ombi, ukubikezela ukungaphumeleli kunye neengxaki. Ukuba indawo yayiyintombi-yinto yokubambisana neengxabano ezahlukeneyo. Ukubona udade okhulelweyo kuthetha ukuba kungekudala kuya kuba neenguqu eziya kubakho nentsapho. Ukuba udade engatshatanga, ngoko iphupha elo liprofeta umtshato wakhe. Ukulala, malunga nomfazi okhulelweyo ndiyazi, uthembisa iingxaki. Kubantu abadala, iphupha lomfazi esesikhundleni sisalathiso esibangelisayo sesifo esibi, kwaye kwezinye iimeko nokuba ukufa. Ukulala eduze komfazi okhulelweyo, ngoko unokuthembela ekuphunyezweni kwephupha elixabisekileyo. Ukuba ummeli wesigqeba esihle sabantu wayenesisu esincinci - oku kuwuphawu lokungaqiniseki ngokwamandla abo. Isisu esikhulu sibonisa ukuba kungekudala uzakufuneka unakekele izihlobo eziseduze. Intsingiselo yobuthongo malunga nomfazi okhulelweyo, apho wafa khona, ayibi. Kule meko, akufanele ubalekele ukuzaliseka kweminqweno .
Umbono ebusuku, apho ndafuneka ndixabane nomfazi osesesikweni, kubonisa ukuba kungekudala umntu uza kutshabalalisa iindumko ezingamanga. Ukuba ibhinqa lilindele abantwana ababini okanye abathathu ngexesha elilodwa, ke oku kukubonakalisa ukuba unokukhawuleza uzuze okanye ufumane imali eninzi. Ukubona owesifazane okhulelweyo ephupheni unqabile kakhulu, ngoko unokukwazi ukubala ngokucebisa ngokukhawuleza. Iphupha lentombazana ekhulelwe, kodwa engatshatanga, ixwayisa ukuba kungekudala kuya kuba neengxaki, eziza kulungiswa ixesha elide. Ukubona ibhinqa elihle kwindawo, ngoko unokulindela ukufumana inzuzo engalindelekanga. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ubonakala ephilile-oku kukunyuka kwenyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi okanye liya kuba nenzuzo
Kutheni umfazi okhulelweyo ephupha ngomntu?
Ngokuqhelekileyo isondo esiqinileyo, elophupha liwuphawu olulungileyo, olubonisa ukuba nayiphi na ishishini iqalile kwixesha elisondeleyo liya kuphelela ngempumelelo . Olu ngcaciso aluvumelekanga kumadoda ayenomfazi okwenene. Kule meko, iphupha libonakalisa kuphela amava okwenyaniso.