Ukudlala ngothando ngenye yezinyathelo zokuqala zokwakha ubudlelwane nobulili obuhlukile. Ukususela kumandla okudlala ngothando kuncike kakhulu -kuba ubuhlobo buya kuqhubeka okanye buye ngokukhawuleza buye "ku-no." Ngokuqinisekileyo abaninzi baqaphela ukuba ezinye zesini ezilungileyo zizungezwe isihlwele sabalandeli, kwaye abanye - bengabonakali kwaye banomdla, isondo esahlukileyo asiqapheli. Iingcali zengqondo zithi ingxaki ebalulekileyo yelokugqibela kukungakwazi ukudlala ngothando. Ukudlala ngothando kukuvumela umfazi ukuba agxininise isidima sakhe ekuxoxaneni nomnxibelelwano kwaye anqume indlela aphendulela ngayo "amaqhinga ethu amabhinqa." Imithetho yokudlala ngothando ayinayo imida engqongqo, ziyiziphakamiso eziza kunceda umfazi ukuba abonakalise ubunqunu bakhe kwaye abonise ukuthanda kwakhe. Ngoko, imigaqo yokudlala ngothando:
- Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala. Sekunye amaxesha apho ukubonisa umdla kumntu wokuqala kubonwa njengophawu lokubi. Amadoda anamhlanje athandwa ngabasetyhini abangesabi ukuqala ingxoxo.
- Thatha ingozi. Phakathi kwamadoda, abantu abagqithisileyo bahlala bedibana. Mhlawumbi, loo mfana oyithandayo, naye, unomdla, kodwa unganqikazi ukuya. Inkalipho kunye nokukhululeka kokulinganisela kwintombazana kumnika umdla okhethekileyo.
- Gcina iso kwimeko. Xa uthatha isinyathelo sokuqala okanye uhamba ngosuku, kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ukhangelekile. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela zonke izinto ezincinci - iinwele, i-manicure, iimpahla, izesekeli kunye nezinye izinto. Kuyaziwa ukuba umbono wokuqala uveliswa kwiminithi embalwa nje, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungayonakalisi ukususela ekuqaleni.
- Sebenzisa impepho. Iphunga lebhinqa lidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwindlela umntu eya kuqonda ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, akukhona nje ngefrimu. Kubalulekile ukuba abe "wakho" -kulungelelanise, uzalise imbonakalo kunye nesitayela soqhagamshelwano.
- Kulula ukuthetha. Akuyimfuneko ngosuku lokuqala ukuthetha ngeentetho zefilosofi, ezopolitiko kunye nezinye izihloko ezinzima ukujonga. Ukumnceda umntu othakazelisayo, uhlazo, ngokukhawuleza kwaye uxhasane ngezihloko ezahlukeneyo.
- Yasebenza. Ukuba ubona ukuba umnxibelelwano wakho udibene, zama ukuthetha kunye nomdla. Kwintetho, akufuneki kube nexesha elide kwaye lingahambi kakuhle. Ukuba umntu unokuthetha, mamela - kwimeko apho uya kwenza umfazi okhaliphile.
- Khangela amehlo akho. Ukuqhagamshelana kwamehlo kunika umntu ohlala naye ithuba lokubona ukunyaniseka kwakho. Kodwa apha kubalulekile ukuba ungadli amehlo omntu - uyadla. Yimfihlelo.
- Yincoma. Amadoda athanda amancomo angaphantsi kwabesetyhini. Kodwa ukuba wenze ingqiqo efanelekileyo kwiqabane, kufuneka ube yintsusa. Ibinzana zeBanal ziya kuthusa umnxibelelwano wakho. Ukuhambisa ukuncoma, qiniseka kwaye uthethe ngomvakalelo.
- Chukumisa iqabane lakho. Ukukhupha kunye nokulula kuthintela inxaxheba ekwakheni imfihlelo eyimfihlelo kunye nolwalamano olusondeleyo phakathi kwabathintana nabo. Chukumisa isandla okanye ihlombe lomntu ngengozi, umzekelo, ukuvumelana naye.
- Bonisa i-coquetry yakho. I-Coquetry yenye yeziseko zothando lomfazi. Ukukhangela okungaqhelekanga, ingubo enhle, igxininise isidima salo mfanekiso - onke amacandelo amabhinqa afanelekileyo kumadoda. Kodwa kulo mbandela kubalulekile ukuba ungadluli - umfazi onothando ngokugqithiseleyo kunokubangela ubundlobongela phakathi kwamalungu esondo esomeleleyo kunesihawu.
- Smile. Ukumamotheka kubangela indawo yomnxibelelwano kuyo nayiphi na imeko.