Nayiphi na intsapho intsha ibhekene neengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Oku kungavumelani kwimicimbi yemihla ngemihla, ekukhulisweni kwabantwana kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuxabana nabazali. Amantombazana, ukufumana imeko yowesifazane otshatileyo, uthi umkhwe wakhe unalo, kodwa indlela yokuyibeka endaweni yayo ayayiqondi, kwaye isoloko isikhalazo malunga neengxaki zolwalamano noninazala.
Unina wamakhwenkwe kunzima kakhulu ukunyamezela abanye abafazi ebomini bomntwana wabo. Abanye banomona, abanye bangakwazi ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo izinga lokunyamekela kwabo kwintsana ekhulile. Kakade ke, kukho iikopi eziye zadanisa ubomi babo, ngoko zithunyelwa kwintsapho yabo yonyana.
Ungasindisa njani intsapho yakho kwimpembelelo yomnye umntu?
Okokuqala, ukwenzela ukuba ngandlela-thile ibekwe kwindawo yomama-mkhwenkwe, izazi zengqondo zithi abafazi bafanele baqonde ukuba luhlobo luni lolwalamano onalo kunye noninazala - oku, okokuqala, unina lomthandayo. Ngako oko, akufuneki ukuba kuqhutywe ubundlobongela obuvulekile, kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise ubuqhetseba. Unokucinga kwakhona ngendlela yokubeka uninazala kwindawo yakhe, ukuze angabi yintshaba yakhe. Oku kuyindlela efanelekileyo.
Okokuqala, zama ukubiza umninazala kwingxoxo engenangqiqo ngokuhlwa "ingilazi yeeyi." Zama ukuchaza ngokucacileyo ukuba ukukhathazeka kwakhe ngonyana wakhe akufanelekanga, uyamthanda ngaphantsi kwayo, kwaye uzimisele ukumnyamekela imini nobusuku. Usebenza egameni lomgomo omnye, ngoko uzama ukubiza umninazana wakho kumanyano, ngoko akukho mbuzo onokuthi ungayibeka umama kanina endaweni yakho. Ewe, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqale ingxoxo ukuba indlu yakho ihlambulukile kwaye ihlelekile, kwaye umyeni wakho uhlala ehlwaya.Ukuba iingxoxo ezinobungenayo zingenamandla, zichaze, kodwa ngendlela yemfazwe ebandayo. Musa ukutshitshisa umkhwekazi phambi kwendoda yakhe kwaye uziphathe ngokuzimisela ngokuzithoba. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uzame ukukwenza ukuze afune ukuza kuwe okanye ukuthetha ngokuncinci kangako.
Ngokomzekelo, unomdla kwimpilo yakhe, gxi ninisa ukuba kubonakala ngathi namhlanje akunandaba. Ukuba umama-mkhwenkwe ufuna ukuza kunye nawe, unokuqalisa ukulungiswa okuncinci kwindlu yokuhlambela okanye ekhitshini, engayi kuba nexesha lokuphela ngaphambi kokufika kwakhe. Buza izalamane ngemibuzo engathandekiyo kumkhwekazi: "Akuyiyo yini uMikhail Kuzmich, malunga nawe, Mama, okhankanywe kutshanje. Ewe, lowo uyisicwenge? ". Vumela abantwana ukuba badlale imidlalo emininzi enomsindo, ukuhlala ixesha elide okanye ukubiza yonke iklasi ukutyelela.