Kuye kwaziwa ixesha elide ukuba abantu bezizukulwana ezahlukeneyo bahluke ukuqonda omnye komnye, kaninzi kukho ubunzima bokuqonda. Emva koko, banemilinganiselo eyahlukileyo, imbono ebomini, njl. Akunjalo bonke abantwana banokuqhayisa ukuba ulwalamano lwabo nonina luphezulu. Kodwa enyanisweni, abazali bayakwazi ukuqonda abantwana babo, nje kuphela abafuna ukucacisa ngokucacileyo izizathu zokunganeliseki kwabo.
Siza kuzama ukuqonda indlela yokuseka ubudlelwane kunye nomama kunye nendlela yokuchaza ngokucacileyo konke okubuhlungu.
Ubuhlobo obubi nomama - izizathu
Makhe sicinge ngezizathu ezikhoyo zokungabikho kokushiya phakathi kwabazali kunye nabantwana babo.
- Umama uzama ngobomi bentombi yakhe ukuze aqonde iingcamango zakhe namaphupha akhe angazaliseki. Injongo enjalo ingabonakaliswa ngokunyanzeliswa kwiinkcazo ezithile okanye ngokugqithiseleyo kwengcamango yakhe.
- Kwakhona, ulwalamano olunzima kunye nonina lunokubangelwa ngumnqweno womntwana ukufumana imvume evela kumama. Ulungele ukwenza konke okufunekayo ngenxa yokudumisa umama. Uhlala u mfutshane naye. Isizathu salokhu sifihliwe ebuntwaneni bakho. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ukusuka ebuntwaneni ubunokufundiswa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukufezekisa ezininzi, kwaye ukungaphumeleli kwafunyanwa kakubi ngabazali.
- Umehluko omkhulu kwiminyaka yezizukulwana ezimbini.
- Uva ukugxeka okuqhubekayo kunyoko yonk 'imihla. Iimfibble ezingapheliyo ziqhubeka zixinzelele ubudlelwane phakathi komama nentombi.
Ingxaki ekujonganeni nomama - isisombululo
Ngokuqinisekileyo, izizathu zokuqala ukungaqondi kakuhle zingafani kakhulu, isiqalo sabo sinokuzifihla ebuntwaneni. Kule minyaka, iqokelela. Akukho ndawo yokuzigcina kuwe. Masinike imizekelo yeengcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphucula ubudlelwane phakathi komama nentombi.
- Zama ukufumana isizathu sokuba kuthathwa izigqibo, izenzo zommama kwidilesi yakho. Kungenzeka ukuba izikhuthazo zokuziphatha okunjalo zizinjongo ezilungileyo. Xa uqaphela ukuba abazali bakho banqwenela kuphela uvuyo, kufuneka ube novelwano kwizenzo zalo.
- Qonda ukuba izizukulwana ezahlukeneyo, ubuqu obuhlukeneyo. Unyoko, onjengawe, unombono wakhe ngobomi bakho. Kodwa oku kuthetha ukuba awufanele uphile ubomi obunjani umama ozama ukukudala. Mamela icebiso lakhe, kodwa unayo uluvo lwakho ngabanye kulo mbandela.
- Funda kabanzi malunga nobomi babazali. Zininzi iinyaniso ezibalulekileyo zikamama ziyakwazi ukukunika impendulo yeso sizathu sokuba uhlambele ngaso sonke ixesha, njl.
- Qaphela uxanduva olule nomama wakho. Zibeke endaweni yakhe. Zivale zonke iingxaki awake wahlangabezana nazo. Khumbula ixesha elinikele lona. Ndiyabulela ukuqonda oku, unokukwazi ukujamelana nantoni nayiphi na ingxubusho evela kumnxibelelwano nomama.
Ngoko ke, isimo sengqondo sentombi kunye nonina asisoloko sikulungele, kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokuyeka. Kufuneka sifune ukufumana indawo efanayo nabazali bethu. Emva koko, ubomi bufutshane kwaye kubalulekile ukuqonda yonke imzuzu ehlala nabo.