Umtshato ungenye yeziganeko ezimangalisayo kunye ezifunwayo ebomini phantse wonke umntu.
Njengomthetho, xa abantu abaselula bebathandana, umba wambi umtshato uvela ngezinye iinkalo entloko kwaye uthatha indawo eninzi kuyo yonke imihla. Isiphumo ngumtshato wokuqala. Ngokubanzi, umtshato uyinto emangalisayo. Abantu ababini abanothando babumbene ngokubambisana ukuze bancedisane baze baxhasane, ukwabelana ngokuvuya kunye nentlungu. Ngaba oku kuyiyo xa umtshato uselula kakhulu?
Imitshato yasekuqaleni - Iinkonzo kunye neNgqungquthela
Masiqale ngexesha elibi, kwaye-ke sibabele ixesha elihle. Ngoko, ziziphi iingxaki zomtshato wokuqala?
- Ingqondo engaziwa. Ewe, kukho nawuphi na ubudala kubonakala ukuba ukhetho olwenziwe luyakho kwaye lunentsingiselo. Kodwa ingxaki kukuba le nto iya kuba kuyo yonke indawo yokukhula. Ekugqibeleni, ingqondo yomntu yenziwa ngumntu oneminyaka engama-29. Ubomi, buzele imizekelo. Kwimi-23-25 iminyaka, intombazana okanye intombazana iya kuba nexesha lokutshintsha izimvo zabo ebomini, kwiminqweno kunye nezinto ezithandwayo. KUNYE ULAWULO. Kwaye akusiyo into yokuba lowo ukhethiweyo, oya ku futshane, uya kuhambelana ngqo nalo mntu omtsha.
- Ukwamkela umdla wokwabelana ngesondo. Oku kukungaqondi kakuhle. Njengomncinci weminyaka kunye nolwazi, amantombazana kunye namantombazana athabathe inzondelelo kwinkqubo yokwazisa, kunye nomtsalane kubantu abangaziwa ngenxa yothando. Emva koko kuvela ukuba yonke into eyaziwayo sele isaziwayo, kwaye oko kusalayo akunomdla kunoma ubani. Ngenxa yoko, amava amnandi kunye nokudumala kubantu. Ngenxa yokungaqondani.
- Iingcamango zokuhlala kunye kunye. Mhlawumbi, kwinqanaba lelokuba unokubaluleka ngobomi obuthatheka ngokukhawuleza entlokweni yakho, nokungabikho kwenkululeko yempahla, kunye nokungabikho, njengokuba kunjalo, kwisiseko sezenhlalakahle esilungelelweyo sokuphila ngokuzimeleyo.
Zonke ezinye iingxaki zomtshato wokuqala zisendaweni ekufutshane nale ndawo.
Ngenxa yoko imitshato yokuqala imnandi, yile:
- Ukuzinza ngokumalunga nomlingane. Abantu abadibeneyo beselula, kulula ukudibana.
- Ukwahlukana okuncane kuminyaka kunye nabantwana. Oku kuya kunceda abazali baqonde kangcono abantwana kwaye, mhlawumbi, babelane ngokuthandana nabo.
- Ubuhlobo besikhathi eside. Ngokwezibalo, abantu abatshatileyo kwimitshato yokuqala bayigubha umtshato wegolide.
Ewe, isigqibo sokugqibela sokwenza isibini, kodwa xa kukho imizekelo eninzi ekholisayo, unokulinda kancane. Uthando, ukuba luyinyani, aluyi kutshabalala kule nto.