Iimvakalelo zabantwana ngamanye amaxesha zenza ngisho nabazali abazinzileyo kunye nabafanelekileyo. Kodwa akukho ukukhala konke kukubonakalisa komlingiswa okanye isimo sengqabunga. Ukuba ngumbuzo wabantwana abatsha, i-whims ingabonakalisa izifo zesimiso senzwa. Kule meko, akunakwenzeka ukuqonda ngaphandle kokhathalelo lwezempilo. Kodwa i-vagaries yabantwana besikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kunye nabantwana bezikolo eziprayimari baneengcambu ezahlukileyo.
Sifuna isizathu
Okokuqala, xa umntwana egula kwaye enomsindo, ubonisa ngokucacileyo ukuba akavumelani nemeko ethile, ngoko ke, unengcamango yakhe ukuba akubi nakwezinye. Okubi nakakhulu, xa onke amava angena ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, angabonakali ngaphandle kwemvakalelo. Into yokuqala yokwenza ukuba umntwana uyangcola kukuba amthulise. Abanye abantwana bazinikela ekunciphiseni, abanye kufuneka babe bodwa, ngoko umntwana wakho kufuneka abe nekona. Xa ukukhala kuncedisa, kuyimfuneko ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni umntwana ephuma kwaye azame ukusombulula ingxaki kunye. Mhlawumbi uvakalelwa kukuba unganakucalulo lwakho, uzive eselulekile, engaqondwa kakuhle, kwaye ngenxa yobudala akakwazi ukulungisa iingxaki zakhe.
Izindlela zokulwa neziza
Ukuba i-whim ingumphumo weTV okanye ikhompyutheni iyacima, awukwazi ukusabela nhlobo. Umntwana uya kuqonda ukuba umphumo oyifunayo awukwazi ukufezwa ngokukhala nokuhlaziya, kwaye uya kuzincama. Into eyona nto ayikuyi kuhlutha!
Isiphakamiso esiphezulu malunga nendlela yokukhubaza umntwana ngukuthi ayikho, kuba abalinganiswa kubantwana bahluke. Kodwa imigaqo emininzi malunga nendlela yokuphendula kwengqondo yengane, kukho:
- Okokuqala, ungenzi ngokusemgangathweni wesibuko, ukuphuka ukukhala.
- Okwesibini, musa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba aziphathe ngokuvumelana nemimiselo yakhe ngokutshintshana ngokuziphatha kakuhle.
- Kwaye ekugqibeleni, mdumise umntwana ngenxa yokuba waqonda ukuphosakela kwakhe kwaye wagxotha.