Ngokuqinisekileyo ebuntwaneni bakho uye waba neziganeko ezibonakala ngathi ziyingozi kakhulu ngelo xesha, ezinokuthi zenzeke kuphela. Yaye ukhumbula namhlanje ngokumomotheka. Okanye musa ukukhumbula konke. Kutheni ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuba silahle ezinye iimeko? Kutheni ezinye iinkumbulo zibuhlungu kangaka. Kwaye basihlushwa, ngamanye amaxesha iminyaka. Indlela yokulibala izikhalazo ezidlulayo, iimpazamo, ubudlelwane obudlulileyo - siza kuthetha ngale nto namhlanje.
Ewe, ukuphindaphinda rhoqo "Ndifuna ukulibala ixesha elidlulileyo," akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele. Ngaphezu koko, akudingeki ukuba ukhohlwe into eyenza ubomi bube lula. Emva kwakho konke, ukhumbule izinto ezininzi ezinzima namhlanje. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba idlulileyo akumele ilityelwe, kodwa yamkelwa. Sitshintsha isimo sayo sengqondo, yishiye apho kwakukho, oko kukuthi. kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Enyanisweni, kuzwakale kulula, kodwa umkhuba ubonisa ukuba abaninzi bethu abanakukwazi ukuhlangabezana ngaphandle kobuchule obukhethekileyo. Masifunde indlela onokunciphisa intlungu yokulahleka.
Icebiso # 1, apho uya kufunda khona ukulibala elidlulileyo elidlulileyo ngokulijonga eziliqela
Le ndlela ilungele abantu bokudala, benengcamango enhle. Ngokunceda, unakho ukulibala izikhalazo ezidlulileyo kunye neempazamo zakho:
- fumana ixesha kunye nendawo apho kungekho mntu unokuphazamisa khona;
- kuhlala ukhululekile, phumula. Khawucinge nje ungumntu ongaphandle kwi-cinema. Zama ukususa engqondweni yakho nayiphi na imvakalelo, kakuhle, ngaphandle kwesithakazelo esibuthakathaka: oko kuya kubonisa ntoni ngoku;
- ukuphuma kwimemori kwimeko apho kufuneka uguqule isimo sakho sengqondo;
- yiprogramle, ngokungathi isenzo sonke sadutshulwa kwikhamera, njll. uyazibona wena kunye nayo yonke into eyenzekayo ngaphandle;
- Imeko ebalulekileyo: ifilimu yakho kufuneka ibe mnyama nomhlophe kwaye ingenomsindo. Kunoko, ngumculo ohlekisayo kunye nezihloko, njengawo, ngokomzekelo, kwiingqungquthela kunye noCharlie Chaplin;
- ungalibali ukufaka abantu abahlekayo;
- Ukususela ngamaxesha, ukuguqula oko kwenzekayo ngasemva. Nhleka, ukuba ngokukhawuleza ibe yinto ekhohlakeleyo, kwaye ungakhohlwa ukuba ungumbonisi ongaphandle. Yaye unokuba ngumhlekisayo;
- Skrolela i-movie kuze kube yilapho umfanekiso uyeka ukwethusa.
Le ndlela inceda ukususa ukwesaba nokuphazamiseka kwizikhumbuzo. Ulungisa nje ngoku.
Ibhodi yenombolo 2, apho ufunda khona ukuba inkumbulo embi ingafakwa ngezitena
Makhe sikhohlwe ixesha elidlulileyo, sibeke iziganeko ezilungileyo? Cinga ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bakho ibhalwe ngezitena. Imemori engalunganga yinto enye kuphela. Ungakulibala njani uthando oludlulileyo, ukuba uhlala ekhaya ngelo xesha, ungenzi nto uze uyabubula. Yiba nomsebenzi: zibeke imihla ngemihla eqaqambileyo kunye nemihlali. Ngaba uyayazi ukuba kungekhona nje ukuba uvakalelo oluhle lubangela ukumomotheka? Le ndlela isebenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Smile ngokukhawuleza, kwaye isimo sakho sengqondo siya kuphucula. Bhalisela izifundo zeelwimi zangaphandle okanye, umzekelo, i-tango yase-Argentina. Ngexesha elincinci onayo leenkumbulo, kungekudala liya kutshabalala phantsi kobunqabileyo bezitena ezinomdla wakho omtsha, ngokungathandabuzeki, ubomi obungcono.
Iphulo # 3. Masithi izinto ezimbi ... siyabonga
Mhlawumbi, oku akuyi kuba lula, kodwa le ndlela ihambelana ngqo nokuqaphela uxanduva.