Kwigama elithi "ukunyaniseka" abaninzi baya kucinga imibukiso ekhohlakeleyo evela kwiifilimu ezibuhlungu apho ababingeleli baxosha umtyholi ngaphandle kwamantombazana amancinci. Kodwa ukugqithisa okulula kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye kude kukhangeleka njalo. Ukugqithisileyo kungabizwa ngokukhuselekileyo ngumntu onentloko eya emsebenzini, enenkani uyalwela injongo yakhe, amaphupha malunga nento okanye ethandweni.
Omnye akakwazi ukuphikisana nenyaniso yokuba kukho nesifo sokugqithisa, okubonakalisa kwiingcamango ezingapheliyo malunga nento efanayo. Kodwa umgca ococekileyo wokugqithisa unokuqwalaselwa ngento umntu ekulungele ukuyenza ukuze azuze yena ngokwakhe, yintoni na imihlatshelo enokuyenza. Ukuba oku kunengqiqo, ayibibi abanye kwaye ayinakuphazamisa ngokukodwa ubomi bomntu, ngoko akukho nto ibangela ukukhathazeka. Ngaphandle koko kuyimfuneko kakhulu ukudibana nogqirha, kuba ezinye iziganeko zokugqithisa zinokuba yingozi kakhulu.
Ukuqwalasela ngcamango
Kuye kwenzeka njalo. Ngubani phakathi kwethu ongazange ahlangabezane nendlela ingcamango ethile eyomeleleyo ngayo intloko kwaye uyayilahla nzima kakhulu. Kwinguqu elula, inokuba ngumculo ogqithisayo okanye iphupha le-ice cream ngexesha lokugula. Iingcamango ezingakumbi zinokuxhalabisa iprojekthi entsha okanye ucinge malunga nendlela yokwenza ummangaliso umntu onendleko. Kodwa ezi ziqhathaniswa xa zithelekiswa nendlela iingcamango ezibamba ngayo abavelisi kunye nabadali abaqilileyo. Ngokomzekelo, iFransi yachitha iminyaka emininzi imisa imoto yokuqala, kwaye akukho namnye okholelwa ekuphumeleleni kwesi siganeko, ngaphandle komfazi wakhe.
Uthando luyintsipho yomnye umntu
Xa sithandana, kunzima ukuphazamisa into yokudumisa, kuthatha zonke iingcinga, zonke iimvakalelo zidibene nayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le meko idlula ixesha, inika indlela yokuvakalelwa ngakumbi. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuya kuba yinto engumqobo kwaye kungabangela ukuphazamiseka okuninzi kumntu onothando nomnye wothando, ngakumbi ukuba iimvakalelo azihambelani.
Ukutshatyalaliswa okufutshane okanye ngokwesondo kuboniswa kwixesha eliqhubekayo lokukhangela iindlela zokwanelisa imfuno zesondo. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha iifomu eziphambeneyo, kuba ekukhangekeni kwintswelo entsha kunzima ukuhlala kwimida yento evunyelwe.
Ukujongwa ngokufa
Uluntu lwangoku, ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo, lubonakaliswa ngamanani amaninzi okufumana izinto ezintsha. Omnye uncinci ngokwaneleyo, umntu akanalo ixesha lokuzama yonke into ngexesha lobomi, kodwa kumntu lo luhlu oluthethileyo aluvumelekile. Emva koko umntu uqala ukudlala ngokufa ukuze athabatheke. Kulo mdlalo yimidlalo embi kakhulu, izinto eziyingozi kunye nezinto
Indlela yokukrazula ukuphosa?
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uthathe ingcamango ethile kwaye oku kuphazamisa kakhulu ubomi bakho, umsebenzi kunye nobudlelwane, ngoko awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokulungiswa kwengqondo. Kungcono ukudibanisa nengcali yeengqondo, uza kubonisa iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokulwa okanye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, uya kukuthumela kwelinye ingcali.
Ngaba umthandazo unokusebenza ngokukhuselekileyo ekukhuselweni? Ngokomgaqo, ewe, ukuba ungayithobeli nayiphi na ingxaki kwaye ufake umphefumlo wakho kuwo.