Ngelishwa, iinjongo zanamhlanje zinjalo ukuba ubudlova esikolweni phakathi kwabantwana abukho kuphela, kodwa ukwandisa ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba. Kwaye akuyona nje impembelelo engokwenyama abafundi besikolo, kodwa kunye nokunyanzeliswa kokuziphatha. Ngokutsho komthetho osandul 'ukuthotyelwa nje, utitshala ogqithisayo ngokwengqondo nangokwenyama uyakunqunyulwa emsebenzini. Ewe, ukuba iinyani ziqinisekiswa ubungqina. Akusiyo imfihlo ukuba isikhalazo sabazali kubulungiseleli siphelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntwana ukhuthazwa ukuba atshintshele kwesinye isikolo, kuba akukho mntu uya kukhupha isicatshulwa esibalulekileyo. Kwaye kwezinye iimeko, ukuguqulela isisombululo.
Ubundlobongela kubantwana
Ngobugwenxa nokuhlukunyezwa, abantwana besikolo badibanisa ngokuthe ngqo kwiontanga zabo. Ukuba abafundi beeklasi eziphantsi babe ne "ingqiqo" ngokwaneleyo ukufihla izinto kwigumbi lokulondoloza, ukubiza amagama kunye nokukhaba iifomfase, abafundi abaphakamileyo esikolweni bangabetha ixhoba elikhethiweyo, cinezela imilinganiselo yokuziphatha, uqeqesho olungenakwenzeka. Ubundlobongela beengqondo esikolweni lunokucingwa "ukuhlushwa" okunzulu kakhulu, ngenxa yokuphulukisa, kunye nokukhathazeka kokuziphatha kumdla umntwana ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Umntwana onjalo uba ngumntu okhutshiwe eklasini, ukhuthaza ngakumbi ukuba aqale ukuhlazisa ngendlela yakhe. Ukuba umntwana ukhubekile, oontanga bahlekisiwe esikolweni, ukusebenza kwakhe kwezemfundo kunzima, kwaye amanqaku amabi esinye isizathu sokunciphisa ukuzithemba kwakhe. Isangqa esichukumisayo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhangela i-outlet nayiphi na imeko.
Abazali banceda
Ukuba umntwana ukhubekile eklasini, kwaye akanako ukumelana nokudibanisa kunye nokunika ukulungiswa okufanelekileyo, ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali abakwazi ukwenza. Ukuqaphela ukuxhalaba esikolweni, ukungafuni ukuya esikolweni, ukuyeka nje ukulandelana komzimba wakhe, abazali bakhe kufuneka bathethe ngokunyanisekileyo naye. Xa intsapho inokholo kunye nethephelo, umfundi uya kubelana ngeengxaki zakhe. Ukuba uthe cwaka, kufuneka uthathe isinyathelo. Kwaye ukuze umntwana abonakaliswe kuwe, ungabi nentswelo kunye neentloni ngenxa yokuba ubuthathaka. Into yokuqala abazali kufuneka bayenze xa umntwana ephosakeleyo esikolweni kukubika ingxaki kumfundisi weklasi. Ngamanye amaxesha ingxoxo enzima kwiklasi yeyure kunye neklasi yonke yanele ukwenza abantwana baziqonde iimpazamo zabo. Utitshala akahlangabezanisi nxalenye okanye amanyathelo akhe asebenzi? Nceda uqhagamshelane nolawulo lwesikolo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda ukuxazulula ingxaki yeengxoxo zomntu kunye nabantwana abacaphukisa umntwana wakho, okanye nabazali babo.
Ukuba zonke ezi nyathelo azisebenzi, kunengqiqo ukudlulisela umntwana kwelinye iziko lemfundo, kuba ukuba ubundlobongela bemvelo buyakwazi ukubonakaliswa, ukuthotywa kweendlela zokuziphatha kuya kufumaneka. Impilo yengqondo yomntwana ibaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba ifunde nakwiziko elithile elizimeleyo neliphezulu.
Amakhadikhadi
Ootitshala bayenqaba ukudibanisa, abaphathi besikolo baphenduka ingqalelo kwiingxaki, abafihla abasebenzi babo, abazali abaphulaphuli bayaqiniseka ukuba abantwana babo "begolide"? Ukuba imeko ibaluleke kangangokuba akukho ndlela yokuphuma, kubalulekile ukubhala ingxelo
Ukuthintela ugonyamelo lwesikolo
Ukuthintela ubundlobongela esikolweni kubaluleke kakhulu kwindlela yokomoya yokukhulisa abantwana nokuziphatha. Iiklasi kule sihloko zigcinwa rhoqo kwizikolo zasesekondari. Ootitshala baya kwiiseshoni zoqeqesho, baphucule iziqinisekiso zabo. Amapolisa athathe inxaxheba ekuthintela ubundlobongela esikolweni. Kodwa into ephambili yintsapho. Abazali kuphela abangabangela ukuzithemba komntwana kwisidima sabo kwaye bafunde ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo naliphi na iqela.