Bonke abantu bekhona kuluntu apho imithetho ethile yokuziphatha isebenza khona. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ziphuma kwiitampu, ezibizwa ngokuba ngamaqhinga. Kwaye ukuba uguqulwe kwi-stagnation, kuyimfuneko ukwazi ukuba yiziphi izinto ezikhohlakeleyo.
Ziyaphi iimbono zanamhlanje?
Iintlobo-mbono - oku akusiyo into ekhoyo ngoku. Babekho rhoqo, kuba imbono yoluntu yayingunaphakade. Kodwa kungaphantsi kwayo kwaye kukho ukuthambekela kumlinganiselo, ukulula. Ngoko kulula ukuba umntu aqikelele ukuziphatha kwakhe ukuze angabanjwa. Kwaye uqala ukukulindela okufanayo kwabanye abantu, uqale ucinge ngakumbi.
Ziziphi izinto ezichasayo?
Kunokuba kunzima ukuphendula ngokucacileyo ziphi iimbono ezikhoyo. Emva koko, banokufumaneka abaninzi.
Iingcali zenzululwazi malunga nombuzo wohlobo luni lweengcamango ezinikezela ngezi zilandelayo:
- ezilungileyo;
- ezimbi;
- jikelele-lula;
- malunga;
- echanileyo.
Ukongezelela, amaqhinga ahlukeneyo ahlukeneyo kwiintlalo kunye noluntu. Iqela lokuqala liqulethwe ngeengcingo zemihla ngemihla. Oku, umzekelo, ukuba umfazi kufuneka abe buthathaka, ukuba umntu akafanele akhale, ukuba i-carbohydrate yokutya yinto embi kakhulu, njl njl. Iqela lesibini ngumfanekiso ozinzile wobuzwe obuthile. Ngokomzekelo, amaJapane bacinga ukuba bangabasebenzi abangapheliyo, amaFrentshi abanjwe ngetekisi, njl njl.
Izithambile
Kukho neentlanzi ezingenangqiqo, malunga nokulinganiselwa ngamnye umntu owaziyo, kodwa ke, bayaqhubeka bekholelwa kuzo. Oku kubandakanya inkolelo yokuba zonke i-blondes ziyizihlunu, ukuba eRussia wonke umntu ugqoke isitya soboya, njl. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba ubudenge akuyi kuthiwa ngumbono wokuthi wonke umntu uyathanda abancinci abasetyhini, okubangela ukuba i-anorexia iqhube. Kwaye malunga namadoda athathwe ngokukhawuleza acinga ukuba ingqiqo yabo iqondo eliphantsi kakhulu, nangona kaninzi oku kungekho kwimeko.
Ngezantsi, sibonelela ngomsebenzi we-photographer uJoel Parez waseMelika, obonisa umsebenzi wokucinga ngokungafaniyo ngokusemandleni. Emva koko, sisoloko sinikezela ngokukhawuleza umntu ngokusekeka kwakhe, ubuzwe, ubulili, ubudala, njl.