Iindaba zokuba kungekudala uza kuba ngumama, akakwazi ukumangaliswa, kodwa unokukhokelela ekudidekeni. Kunqabile kakhulu, ukukhulelwa kubakho kwishedyuli esilungiselele kwangaphambili, ngokuqhelekileyo oku kwenzeka ngokungalindelekanga, kwaye ngexesha elifanelekileyo kangako. Kwenzeke ukuba ngoku umile emngceleni wobomi obutsha. Iindaba ezivuyayo zokukhawuleza kwanda kwintsapho ngokukhawuleza zahlakazeka phakathi kwabantu abasondele kuwe, kwaye ngoku ucinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nendlela yokuphila. Ngaphezu koko, ukuhlala kuyo kuyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo, kuba ngoku okwenkosikazi igama elithi "I", lihamba kakuhle kwigama elithi "thina".
Sebenza ngexesha lokukhulelwa
Ukuzaliswa kwintsapho kwishishini elinoxanduva elifunekayo kokuzibandakanya kokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Ukuthi kumsebenzi malunga nokukhulelwa kuyimfuneko kanye kanye, akufuneki ukufihla isikhundla sakho esithakazelisayo, kuba kungekudala abanye baya kuyibona. Ukongezelela, abafazi abakhulelweyo kufuneka babe nesimo sengqondo esikhethekileyo. Ukuba, ngenxa yesizathu esithile, ingcamango yokuba uyaziwayo kakhulu ngenxa yokuba usebenzisa amalungelo akho, kwaye uyasuswa, khumbula, akukho mntu unelungelo lokugxotha owesifazane okhulelweyo, ngaphandle kwimeko yokucinywa kwamashishini okanye ukupheliswa kwemisebenzi yayo. Ukuxhasa imeko yakho, kufuneka uvelise isatifikethi sokukhulelwa emsebenzini, esinokufunyanwa nayiphi na intsebenziswano yabesifazane.
Umsebenzi wesikhashana, umsebenzi wexeshana kunye nokukhulelwa
Ukusebenza ngexesha lokukhulelwa kubonelela utshintsho oluthile, umzekelo, umqeshi kufuneka adlulisele umfazi okhulelweyo kwishedyuli elula yokusebenza, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ukhululekile kwiihambo zoshishino, ukutshintsha ubusuku, ukusebenza ngeveki neeeholide, njl njl. Nangona umfazi okhulelweyo enempilo, xa kwenzeka ukuba uhlobo lwangaphambili lomsebenzi luyingozi kwindawo yakhe, umqeshi kufuneka amthumele kumsebenzi wesikhashana kunye nomthwalo omncinci womsebenzi wempilo. Kwakhona, kuya kufuneka ufumane iintlawulo emsebenzini ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Akunjalo nantloni ngeemeko zakho, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, sebenzisa onke amalungelo akho kunye nezibonelelo. Leli lilungelo lakho elisemthethweni elinikwe ukuzala umntwana onempilo nonamandla. Emva koko, akuyiyo imfihlo umntu ukuba umntwana, ngelixa esesimweni sombungu, sele sele ekwazi ukuva iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo ezifanayo njengonina. Naluphina uxinzelelo okanye ukugqithiswa ngokomzimba kunokuchaphazela imeko yezempilo
Kodwa, ngelishwa, akukho mfazi osebenzayo okwazi ukuphelisa ngokupheleleyo uxinzelelo emsebenzini. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukwazi nge "imeko", umphathi okanye umlingani-ntsebenziswano uza kwenza amazwi angamangalisi okanye aphakamise ityala kwingxoxo, enokubangela ukuphazamiseka kwemiba. Awukwazi ukuphendula abaphulaphuli ngokugqithisa ngokungafaniyo, zama ukuzithiba kwaye uzikhumbule ngokwengqondo, ngenxa yokuba ayikufanelekanga imizwa yakho, kwaye uyakhathazeka ngosana, ngenxa yokuba akanakucala, kutheni kufuneka abe nexhala nonina.
Unokulibala malunga neendlela eziqhelekileyo zokuxinwa kwengcinezelo. Ukuba ngaphambili ungakwazi ukufumana indebe yekhofi okanye ugwayi emva kwengxoxo engathandekiyo, ngoku unokwenza ukuphefumula okanye ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungise ukuhamba emoyeni omtsha. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, unako ukusela indebe yetiyi elimnandi kunye ne-mint, okanye udle isiqwenga se tshokoleji, ngokutsho kwezenzululwazi, iyancipha.
Ukukhulelwa nomsebenzi omtsha
Ukuba umsebenzi wexesha elizayo unina, akunandaba. Ukufumana umfazi okhulelweyo kunokwenzeka. Enyanisweni, abaqeshi abakhawulezi ukuba basebenzise abafazi abakhulelweyo, kuba ngabafazi abakhulelweyo banenkxalabo eninzi, baqeshwe kuphela, kwaye sele befuna ukukhangela indawo, ukuhlawula umama, njl njl. Kodwa, ke, kukho indlela yokuphuma. Kwimigangatho yokuqala yokukhulelwa akuchazwanga kakhulu, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukufumana umsebenzi ngexesha elifutshane kakhulu. Akunjalo ukuba udinga ukukhohlisa umqeshi kwaye uhlale ucingile ngokukhulelwa, kukuphela kwakho xa kubalulekile ukuba ufumane umsebenzi ukuze ukwazi ukubonelela wena kunye nosana ngemali. Ngoko ke, kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba uxabisa ubomi bomntwana wakho, kungekhona inhlalakahle "yomntakwabo womnye." Musa ukuvula ubuxoki xa uqeshelwa, phendula nje imibuzo ethile ngokukhulelwa ngendlela ecacileyo okanye engaqondakaliyo, ngaphandle kokunika isikhundla sakho. Emva koko, awunayo umntwana okwamanje.
Ngoko, unomsebenzi. Kutheni ngoku ube kunye noogxa kunye nabaphathi abaye bahlala bakhohliswa nguwe ekubekeni umsebenzi. Kucetyiswa ukuba ubonise ukususela kwimihla yokuqala yengqesho ukuba unomsebenzi onoxanduva, onokubaluleka kwaye ongenakukhutshwa. Abaqeshi bayawaxabisa abasebenzi abanjalo, ngoko ke baya kuthatha indlela elula ngakumbi yokuzalwa koomama. Kwakhona, zama ukuba nobuhlobo nobuhlobo kunye nabo osebenza nabo, kwimeko apho, abahlobo abatsha baya kukwazi ukukusebenzela phambi kwabaphathi bakho.
Ukukhulelwa nokusebenza kwikhompyutha
Umsebenzi onobudala onokukhulelwa awunqatshelwe. Ukuba uninzi lwexesha emsebenzini ohleli kwikhompyutheni okanye nje etafileni, kunokukhokelela ekuhlaleni kwegazi kwi-pelvis encinci. Zama ukwahlula ishedyuli yomsebenzi ukwenzela ukuba ngethuba lomsebenzi ungakwazi ukunika ixesha lokuba uhlawule ngokulula okanye ukuhamba okulula. Hambisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngexesha lonke leentsuku zokusebenza, zihamba phambili ngexesha lakho lokuzimela.
Sebenza kwikhefu lokubeleka
Abanye besetyhini bajonga ukhetho lokusebenza ekhaya ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kuba bayaqonda ukuba ukuzalwa komntwana akuyi kuvumela, njengangaphambili, ukuba bahlanganyele kuphela kwimisebenzi. Indlela evelele kakhulu kule meko iya kuba ngumsebenzi ekhaya, ongayilungisa phambi kokuzalwa komntwana, kwiinqanaba zokuqala zokukhulelwa. Emva kokuba uqale ukusebenza emva kokukhulelwa, uya kuzigcina kwisifo sokudandatheka kwangemva kokuphuma. Kodwa, njengawuphi na umsebenzi, usebenza ekhaya unempawu zayo, ngoko ke kufuneka uqikelele ngokucophelela yonke into ngaphambi kokuba wenze ukhetho lokugqibela.
Oomama abathandayo kunye noomama abalindayo, shiya izimvo zakho ngesihloko esithi "Ukukhulelwa nomsebenzi" kwiforum yethu, kubalulekile ukuba siyazi izimvo zakho ngale nqaku!