Ingcamango yokunciphisa ifunyaniswa rhoqo kwiincwadi ezahlukeneyo zengqondo zexesha lethu. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ungumntu ofundayo kunye nomfundi, ngoko kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni.
Ukunyuswa kwengqondo kwengqondo kuqondwa njengengqondo ekhethekileyo yengqondo, ngexesha apho umntu engenelisekile iimfuno zakhe. Ukuguqulelwa ukusuka kwisiNgesi, eli gama libhekisela ekulahlekelweni kwento ethile okanye ukunyanzelwa kwimeko yokusebenza ngokuqhelekileyo kwemfuno yombutho.
Ukunyuswa kunye neentlobo zayo
Zininzi iintlobo eziphambili zeli gama yengqondo:
- Absolute. Kuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka kwezidingo ezisisiseko ngokunqongophala kokufikelela kwizibonelelo eziyimfuneko kunye nezinto eziphathekayo: ukutya, indawo yokuhlala, ukufudumala, izambatho, njl.
- Uhlobo. Ibonakalisa ngokwendlela yokungabi nabulungisa ngenxa yokuba isiphumo asihambisani nxamnye nemigudu esetyenziswe kuyo.
Iindidi ezifanayo zinokubonisa iimpawu zokunqongophala. Ekuboneni kokuqala, kubonakala ngathi uhlobo oluthile lwaloo nto yengqondo alukho ngaphantsi kokukhungatheka, kodwa oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo. Ukwahluke kakhulu kwenkcazo yezinye iindidi kukuba ukukhungatheka kubonisa ukungabi nantoni elungileyo umntu ayenayo ngaphambili, ngelixa ukunyanzelwa kubakho njengempendulo yokungabi nalowo mntu angakaze abe nako ngaphambili.
Izizathu zokunqongophala
Zonke izizathu ezibonakalayo zoluvo zihlukaniswe ngeefom ezininzi:
- imoto;
- zengqondo;
- umama;
- zentlalo.
Ukunyuswa kwintsapho
Ukuba sicinga ngezi zizathu zingentla, iingxaki zentsapho zihlobene nokunqongophala komama kunye nentlalo. Ngethuba lokusana kunye nobuntwana, umntwana uvakalelwa imfuno ebalulekileyo yokuthandana nothando lomama, kodwa akusoloko kutholakala kuye iindlela zokuhlangabezana nale mfuno ngokupheleleyo. Abantwana abahlala kwimimfesane okanye kwiinkedama, njengomthetho, banqatshelwe ukunakekelwa okufunekayo kubantu abadala, esi sizathu sokuvela kwimeko enjalo yengqondo njengobuncwane. Kwintsapho epheleleyo kunye nonina kunye noyise, umntwana naye akahlali esoloko engqalelo. Imiphumo yokunyanzelwa kamva kamva, xa ngenxa yokuphula umthetho ekuhlangabezaneni neemfuno, i-motivation and volitional sphere kunye nengqondo yomntwana iqala ukubandezeleka.
Iimeko zokunyanga
Ukuqhuba uphando ngale nkalo, izazinzulu zisebenzisa izixhobo ezicwangcisiweyo kunye nezixhobo zokusebenza. Ukususela ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20, ezininzi iinzame zenzelwe ukufundisisa impendulo yomntu ekuthineni kwintliziyo. Babonisa ukuba ezininzi zezifundo zaze zenqabe ukuthatha inxaxheba kulo mvavanyo, nangenxa yomvuzo omkhulu, emva kweentsuku ezintathu zokuphazamiseka kwindlu encinane edibeneyo nekodwa.
Kule gumbi, zonke izandi ezivela ngaphandle zahlanjululwa ngomsindo ongathandabuzekiyo wendawo yokubeka umoya, izandla zeso sifundo zafakwa kwiindawo ezizodwa
Yonke le mvavanyo yayiyimfuneko ukuvavanya umphumo wokuba ulahlekelwe iimvakalelo kumntu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukusabela komntu kulo hlobo lwezithintelo kuyahluka kakhulu. Abanye abantu, ngenxa yeenkolelo zabo zonqulo, baphendukela kubo ngokuzithandela. Umzekelo wokunyanzelwa komntu unokuba ngumntu ohlukeneyo kwiindawo zokuhlala, ama-secct or monks. Ngokutsho kweemfundiso zeNtshona, kukhokelela ekukhanyeni kwangaphakathi kunye nobunye namagunya aphezulu.