Ihlabathi lanamhlanje lizaliswe ngamava, uxinzelelo, ngenxa yokuba abantu bahlala bevelele kwiingxaki ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha eziphazamisayo. Bambalwa abantu bacinga ngendlela yokufumana uxolo lwengqondo. Emva koko, ihlabathi langaphakathi lomntu ngamnye kufuneka libe kwindawo yokuvisisana ne "I". Kumele abe namandla kangangokuthi unokukwazi ukunqoba ukungavumelani okuhlukeneyo, ubunzima bokuphila. Uxolo lwengqondo ngumvakalelo woxolo lwangaphakathi, umxholo wokukhululeka ekuxinini, iingcamango, uxhalabiso, ukwesaba, oku kuzinzo.
Abantu abaninzi baya kuvuyela ukuqonda indlela yokufumana uxolo lwengqondo, bakhulule naphezu koxinzelelo olwenzeka ebomini babo imihla ngemihla. Kukho iinkcubeko apho uxolo lweengqondo, umhlaba wehlabathi lomntu uqondwa njengendawo yokukhanyisa, ukuqonda, okungavezwa ngokucamngca okanye ngomthandazo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uxolo lwengqondo luhambelana neemfundiso zeenkolelo ezifana nobuHindu nobuBuddha.
Emva kokuba umntu ekwazi ukufumana, fumana uxolo lwengqondo, akagxininisi iingxaki kunye neengxaki zakhe. Usebenzisa ixesha elihle loxolo lwengqondo, kunye nenkululeko eyanceda ukuphelisa ukunyanzelisa kunye naluphi na iingcamango.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba wonke umntu, ngamanye amaxesha engaziqondi, usemoyeni woxolo. Ezo zihlandlo zenzeka ngexesha lokuthatha inxaxheba kuyo nayiphi na into eyenza inqabileyo. Umzekelo, ukufunda incwadi, ukuhlala elunxwemeni, ukubukela ibhayisikobho.
Indlela yokufezekisa uxolo kwengqondo?
Ukuze ufunde ukuhlala uhlala uxolo kwengqondo, sincoma ukuba uhambelane nale mithetho elandelayo:
- Yeka ukuphazamisa kwimicimbi yakho. Abantu abaninzi, nangona bengazi, bakha iingxaki zabo xa bevame ukuphazamisa kwimicimbi yabantu. Abanye benza njalo, kuba bajonga ukuba le nyathelo ibe yinto engcono. Kodwa musa ukulibala ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ingqiqo inganciphisa izigqibo ezingalunganga. Ngenxa yoko, umntu ugxekisa umntu onombono wakhe, izenzo azihambelani nengcamango yakhe. Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kule ndlela kukuba olu hlobo lolwalamano lwabantu luphika umntu, aluqondi ukuba khona kwalo. Ungakhathazeki kakhulu ngabanye, ingakumbi ukuba ungaziceli uncedo.
- Yazi indlela yokuxolela. Le ndlela iphumelele kakhulu ekuphumeleleni uxolo kwengqondo. Umntu uvame ukuphatha ngaphakathi into efuna ukulahlwa ixesha elide, kuba liyabhubhisa. Indoda ithwala ingqumbo kuye, ikhohlwa ukuba ihlaselwe kanye, kodwa ihlala igxotha ukunganeliseki. Kwaye oku kukhokelela ekubeni umntu ngaso sonke ithuba akanikanga isilonda sengqondo ukuba aqhube. Kufuneka uvumele ukuhamba kwimemori yabantu abakhe bakucaphukisa. Musa ukulibala ukuba ubomi bufutshane, kwaye kungcono ukunikela kwixesha elihle.
- Ukulahla ukuqaphela uluntu. Ihlabathi lizele abantu abaninzi-egoists. Abantu abanjalo abaxabisi abanye ngokukhethekileyo, kwiimeko ezininzi baxhamla inzuzo kubo. Ngaphezu koko, akukho bantu abalungileyo abanjalo. Umbuzo uvela, kutheni udidekile yimibono yabanye, ukukhangela ukuqatshelwa koluntu. Khumbuza ukuba izidumo zabasemzini azihlali.
- Ukulahla umona. Umona uphazamisa uxolo kwengqondo yomntu. Akukho mntu uya kufinyelela nayiphi na indawo, ohlala ebeka abanye iingxaki zakhe. Umona
iyakwazi ukuletha uxhalabomi ebomini bakho. - Ukuphucula ihlabathi ngokuphucula ngaphakathi kwakho. Musa ukuzama ukuphucula ihlabathi kuphela. Unakekele ngaphakathi kwakho, isimo sakho sengqondo sokungaphumeleli, njl njl. Naluphi na umoya ongathandekiyo uya kuvumelana nawe.
- Ukucamngca. Zenza izinto zokucamngca. Bayakwazi ukwenza uxolo lwengqondo.
Ngoko, wonke umntu unokufumana uxolo lwengqondo rhoqo. Oku kufuna umnqweno nokuzinikela.