Ukuthandana njengento yeengqondo - iintlobo kunye nemiqondiso

Ingqondo yomntu onempilo iyakwazi ukuphosakela ukuya kwii-10 000 iingcinga ngosuku. Kwizinto ezixhasayo, imeko kunye nezenzo zengqesho zixhomekeke kwingcamango eyodwa, ngenxa yoko abayikwazi ukutshintsha kwiingxaki zemihla ngemihla kunye neemfuno. Ukuba bayaphumelela, ngoko umbane kunye nexesha elifutshane. I-Fanatics ihlala kuxinzelelo oluqhubekayo.

Ukuthandana - yintoni na?

"Ukuxhatshazwa" kuguqulelwa kwisiLatini ngokuthi "lukhuni." Abantu abahluphekileyo kule nkathalo baye bafumana ukungathandabuzeki - bayakholelwa ngokusesikweni kwingcamango okanye umntu oye wavuya waza wawahlaba umxhwele, uguqula iindawo ezifanelekileyo. I-Fanatics ihluke kubantu abaqhelekileyo ngokuzimisela kwabo ukuzincama ubomi babo kunye nabanye, ukuphika ukugxeka, iinkqubo zentlalo kunye nokuqonda. Abantu abanjalo abaqapheli imiphumo emibi yokuziphatha kwabo.

Ukuthandana nokugula kwengqondo kunokuchaphazela nayiphi na indawo. Kudidi lwamazwe ngamazwe kukho iintlobo ezi-7 zesi sifo, ezinye zazo zivakala ngokubanzi kuluntu:

• kwezopolitiko;
• impilo;
• ngcamango;
• zesayensi;
• zonqulo;
• midlalo;
• nkcubeko.

Iimpawu zokuxhaswa

Ukutshutshana kunamacandelo amabini - phakathi kunye nokugqithiseleyo. Iqondo eliqhelekileyo lifumaneka rhoqo kwaye libonakaliswe kwinto yokuba umntu uphantsi kwengcamango ebalulekileyo, kodwa akayifaki kwinqanaba lokungabikho kwaye akayi kubagxotha kwabanye. Umlinganiselo ogqithiseleyo wengxaki yengqondo ifunyanwe kaninzi kwaye ibonakaliswa ngokunyanisekileyo kokukhetha kwabo kwabanye abantu, ukunyanzelana kwabo, kuquka ukuhlushwa kunye nezinye iintlobo zobundlobongela. Izibonakaliso zesifo zibonakaliswe kule mpazamo elandelayo:

1. Umtshatsheli uthabathe iimeko eziphathelele isithixo. Uyabandezeleka, awela ekudakaleni, aze azinikele ngenxa yokutshata kwesithixo, ukulahleka kweqela lebhola lebhola lebhola.
2. Umntu uhamba kunye nento yokunqula kwintyatye, esebenza ekhaya, athenge izitya kunye neempawu ezihambelana nayo.
3. Abantu be-Fanatic bahlala bethetha nge "ngcamango yokulungisa" - ezinye izihloko azibakhathaleli.
4. Inzala kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa ezazisetyenziswa ukuvuyisa ziya kwimvelaphi.
5. U-Fanatic uphatha kakubi kunoma yikuphi ukuhlaselwa kwalabo abakujikelezile, ngokuphathelele into okanye isihloko sokunqula kwakhe.

Ukuthandana kumntu

Olu hlobo lwesifo sengqondo luhluke kwabanye kuba umntu uba yinto yokutshutshiswa kunye nokunqulelwa ngumntu onamandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo ixhoba lokuzingela ngumculi othandwayo, umculi, umdlali kunye nomnye umntu owaziwayo. Ingozi enkulu yombuso onjalo ekuzinzileyo kwayo - isondeza isithixo, eyingozi kakhulu ukuziphatha kwabafundi bakhe. Eli nqanaba lwanamhlanje lwazi amakhulu amacala xa abalandeli bexakeka ngokugqithisa iimpahla kwiindawo eziziwayo, baqhekeza emakhaya abo, baqhutyelwa ngeholide.

Uthando luyabonakalisa ngokubhekiselele kumntu wesini esahlukileyo. Le fomu yokukhungatheka idla ngokudibanisa nothando. Uthando lomfazi kumntu lubonisa ukuhlaziywa ngokucokisekileyo kwemilinganiselo kunye neentlondi zeqabane lakhe, kwaye inzondelelo yentshiseko iyamnqophisa kwaye imthobe, inqula, ayiboni iziphoso, iyalungisa nawaphi na amazwi kunye nezenzo zobuthixo bakhe.

Ukutshutshiswa kwezemidlalo

Umntu odlala umdlalo ngumntu oqhelekileyo ebonakalayo kuluntu. Umkhosi wabalandeli bebhola ufika kwezinye iidolophu kunye namazwe ukuxhasa iqela labo abazithandayo. Ukudibanisa kuphelile ngoxolo okanye ngokulwa, apho abalandeli baqalisa khona. Kwimimandla yanamhlanje, lo msebenzi uthathwa njengentshukumo yomqhubi, i- subculture okanye inxalenye yomdlalo wezemidlalo. Ukwahlula umqhubi kumqhubi oqhelekileyo unokufumaneka kwezi zilandelayo:

1. Ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kunye nezinye iziyobisi.
2. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwezidakamizwa (izixhobo ezinokukhanya, amacwecwe, amandla).
3. Ukuvumeleka ngamazwi nangezenzo ngexesha naphambili ukhuphiswano.

Ukunyaniseka kwezenkolo

Abaxhasi bezenkolo bayakha inkolo yabo enkolweni, bephika ukuba kukho ezinye iinkolo. Bona kunye nabantu abafana nabo baqhutywa ngumnqweno wokulawula iintlanga. Amaxabiso abalinganiswa beqela aphakanyiselwe ekukhulekeleni inkolo - bayakholelwa ngokukhohlakeleyo inkokeli yenkolo, bayamthobela ngokungenakuphikisa kwaye balungele ukunikela ubomi bakhe, ukuba kuyimfuneko.

AmaSulumane kunye nama-Orthodox fanaticism anesisongelo esinobungozi. Amalungu amatsha ehlelo "aphuculwa ngqondweni" kwiiveki ezingama-2-3, kwaye emva kweminyaka engama-4-5 yobomi ngokubhekiselele kumqulu wequmrhu lonqulo, utshintsho alupheli. Naluphina inkolo inxulumanisa iimpawu ezifanayo:

1. Unenkokheli eyazibiza ngokuba nguMesiya.
2. Zilawulwa yinkqubo yolawulo kunye nefilosofi.
3. Amalungu enkcubeko ayayithobela ngokungathandabuzeki imigaqo yoluntu.
4. I-Fanatics ngokungenangqiqo inikezela ipropati kunye nemali ukuze kuzuze uluntu.

Indlela yokuba yintando?

Iengqondo zengqondo ziveza izizathu ezi-3 eziphalazela umntu ukuba atshintshe.

1. Umona wempumelelo yabanye.
2. Ukuzithoba.
3. Umntu owaziwayo ophumelele konke kwaye ukhanyisa.

Ingqondo yengqondo yenzelwe ukuphelelwa lithemba komntu xa efumana imeko yobomi obunzima kwaye ayiboni indlela yokuphuma kuyo. Ngezihlandlo ezinjalo uya enkolweni aze angawa phantsi ngokungathandabuzekiyo phantsi kweempembelelo zehlelo. Bambiza ngolwazi "ngendlela efanelekileyo", uvelwano, ubonise ukuzimisela ukuxhasa nokuthetha ngeengxaki abaye bajamelana nazo ngoku kutshanje. AmaFattiya abalekela kwinyani ukuya kwinkolo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuthanda uThixo, kodwa ngenxa yokubandezeleka kwabo nokungabakhathaleli abanye.

Indlela yokukrazula ukunyaniseka?

Ukuxhatshazwa njengento yengqondo eyabonakala ngekhulu le-17, xa uMbhishobhi waseBhishophu uBossuet wazisa le ngcamango kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Ukuphunyezwa ngempumelelo kwesi sifo kunokwenzeka ukuba:

1. Umxhasi uya kuqonda ukuba iingxelo zakhe zinyani.
2. Funda ukuhlalutya iingcamango ezinzulu kunye nokujonga imeko ukusuka kwelinye icala.
3. Uya kutshintshela kwezinye iimeko.
4. Ukwandisa ukuzithemba.
5. Funa uncedo kwisazi sengqondo.

Iifilimu malunga nabaxhasi

Ukuthandana ngothando, inkolo, imidlalo kunye nayiphi na intlalo yentlalo ngumqondiso wokungazinzi ngokomzwelo, ukuguquka, ukungabikho kweempawu zobunkokeli, ukusikisela. Malunga neengqungquthela zefilimu ziye zadutshulwa - zixoxa malunga nezinto ezinokholo olungaboniyo kunye nokulandela izithixo, ukukhonza inkolo.

1. "Uthando" noRobert De Niro - umdlalo ngobudlelwane obuyinkimbinkimbi yomdlali wezemidlalo kunye nomqhubi wakhe.
2. "Master" uxela umlobi ofumana umsebenzi kwi-photo studio emva kwemfazwe. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ijoni langaphambili liwela phantsi kweempembelelo zenkokeli yenkolo kwaye liqala ukushumayela izivumelwano zakhe.
3. "Hamba, John Tucker!" Isalathiso sefilimu sichaza ngesikolo somlingo, ofuna ukuphindisela emantombazaneni amathathu angaphambili. Ayekekanga yinto yokuba ukukhwela kwisicwangciso sobuqili yintombazana esanda kufika kwisixeko.