Ukunyaniseka

Ukungcola yinto yokunyelisa umntu okanye into. Ngokomphandi, le ntliziyo ayikho nto kodwa isiqhamo somphuhliso kunye nokukhula kokuzimela. Le ngcamango iqinisekiswa ngumzekelo ukususela ebuntwaneni. Nangona umntwana esincinci kwaye engenangqiqo, unqatshelwe le mvakalelo, adonsela emlonyeni wakhe, yonke into ephantsi kwengalo yakhe, unokuhlamba ngokulula izandla zakhe kwizinto ezisebhodweni lakhe, kodwa ukukhula kuqala ukuhlambalaza yonke into evumba kakubi kwaye ibonakala. Ngaloo ndlela, ukungahloneli nokunyaniseka yindlela ebizwa ngokuba yokhuselo, eyakhiwe kwinkqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Umntu kwinqanaba le-instinctive, ngaphambi kokubandakanya ukuqonda, ubona iphunga elikrokre okanye uhlobo lwemveliso, njengesigxina seengozi. Yaye le nto yenyukayo eyisikhusela kwizifo ezininzi ezingathandekiyo. Izinto zokunyaniseka zingaba kukutya, ukuvumba, ibhaktheriya, ukubonakala okungahambi kakuhle kwinto ethile, njl.

Incoko eyahlukileyo - ukunyaniseka kunye nesondo. Ngokutsho kweengqondo zengqondo, ukukhanyela into elele embhedeni kukuzama ukusinda kwixinzelelo yengqondo yomlingani. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka xa iinqwenela zomlingane zibangele ukungqambela kwangaphakathi, kodwa umntu, ngenxa yothando lwakhe okanye ukungathandi ukukhubekisa, wenza isiphakamiso esingathandeki kuye. Le ntshukumo iqokelela kuze kube yinto yokunyaniseka kwiqabane lesini. Esinye isizathu sinokuqulunqwa kanzima. Xa befunda ebuntwaneni ukuba isondo siyinto ehlazo, iimvakalelo zabo zesondo kufuneka zicetywe kwaye ziqwalaselwe kuphela ebusuku, ngaphantsi kwengubo kunye neengcinga. Ngokomgaqo, umntu okhulileyo, umntu wamanje uyaqonda ukuba oku kungenangqiqo, kodwa kwinqanaba elincincileyo uyamoyika kwaye uxwaye ubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Ukongezelela, ukunyuka okwenyuka ngesondo kunokuvela ngenxa yokunyuka komntu womzimba kunye nomzimba.

Indlela yokujongana nehlazo?

Njengoko sele kushiwo, ukunyaniseka kuyindlela yokukhusela kwaye ayisoloko idinga ukulungiswa. Ukuba izinga lalo liqhelekileyo, akudingeki ukuba ugxininise kulo. Kodwa ukuba uvakalelwa yinto enyanyekayo kuvela ekuqaleni, kwaye uhamba ngokuphelelwa yintsholongwane emva kokuba uphume kwisitalato, kufuneka uthabathe inyathelo. Ngoko ulahla njani ukunyuka kokunyuka? Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu zoluvo. Ukuba inamathele kuwe ukususela ebuntwaneni kwinqanaba elincinci, mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo lwenzululwazi. Okwesibini, zama ukunqoba le ntsizi yokunyaniseka, qonda ukuba kutheni le nto okanye loo nto ibangela ukukhanyela kuwe, hlalutya ukuba kutheni ungayidlulisi. Mhlawumbi, ukuqonda yonke into ngokubanzi, uya kuziqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto inyanyekayo kule nto.

Iintlobo zokuthakazelisa

Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zokunyaniseka - ngokwenyama kunye nokuziphatha. Ukuba izinto ezibonakalayo zicace ngakumbi, ngoko ke umqondo wokuziphatheka kakuhle kufuneka uqwalaselwe ngokubanzi. Isitshixo salo sihlala singamkeli yonke into engabonakaliyo kunye neyonyumba, kuxhomekeke kuyo ukuva ngokuziphatha komntu. Umzekelo wokunyaniseka kokuziphatha ungabangela ingxabano evela kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi weencwadi zakudala apho iqhawe lilwa nokuhlazola nokuziphatha okubi okumiselwe nguye yinkqubo okanye ngabanye abantu. Ngelishwa, ngexesha lethu ingxaki yokuziphatha kakubi kuphuthuma kakhulu. Abantu abancinci bakhetha ukuba iiklasi zilula ukutya, ezincinci zincwadi. Kufuneka silwe ne-primitive pseudo-culture ekhuthaza iimpawu eziphantsi kunye nokuyiqonda ukuba iyingozi kuluntu.

Ngaloo ndlela, umntu kufuneka akhuphe ukunyuka komzimba okwenyukayo kwaye azifundise ngendlela yokuziphatha.