Ukudimazeka kumntu

Ubomi abugcini nje ngemigca emhlophe, ixesha elivuyayo, iintsuku ezivuyayo. Ukudumala kumntu owayeyithande kakhulu kuwe, akukho mntu u-insured. Kwaye sonke esinokukwenza kule meko kukuzivumela ukuba sikhubeke, sizive sisicindezelekile okanye uzame ukunqoba le nkqubo enzima kwaye siqale uphile ngokumomotheka kwakhona.

Ukuphazamiseka kumntu ukusuka kwinjongo yengqondo

Ukuphazamiseka kuthathwa njengenye yeemvavanyo ezinzima kunokuba zikwazi ukuchitha onke amandla omntu. Lo mvakala obunemibala unobungozi bawo:

1. Yintoni evula umnyango wokudideka kukuxhalabisa. Umntu uziva engenakunceda, ecinezelekile, unenkxalabo malunga nento ethile.
2. Ukuba ngumbuzo wokudumala kumntu othandekayo, umntu akafumani nje ubuhlungu emphefumlweni, kodwa nobuhlungu. Kwintloko yam kwangoko kwimibuzo ephakamileyo, ngathi "Kutheni wenza oku? Yintoni endiyenzileyo? ".
3. Abaninzi bazama ukubaleka ekudumeni kunokuba bawunqobe. Yonke le nto kuba, kubonakala ngathi, ithathe ifomu elibukhali kangangokuba akusiyo wonke umntu onokuyinqaba.
4. Enye yeempawu ezibalulekileyo zokudumala kumntu kukulahlekelwa yikholo kwikamva eliqaqambileyo.
5. Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uhlobo olubi kakhulu, olunzima kakhulu lokubonakalisa le mvakalelo ukubulala okanye ukuzibulala.

Ungaphila ukudumala kumntu?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantu bayadumala kwabanye ngenxa yokuba babeka nayiphi na ithemba kubo. Ngenxa yoko isiphetho: ukuba awufuni ukuthintela ulwalamano lwakho kunye nabathandekayo, bahlobo, musa ukwakha izicwangciso ezinkulu, ukukhupha umoya, benethemba lokuba umntu uya kuba nombono ofanayo nawe.

Indlela ebalulekileyo yokunqoba ukukhungatheka kumntu osondeleyo ingxoxo yintetho kunye neengcambu zeli meko. Kunconywa ukuba umxelele ngeemvakalelo zakho, ngoko uzama ukuyeka imeko.

Ungaze ufune ukubheka intsingiselo yobomi bakho kubantu abakujikelezile. Kwakhona ezi zizithemba ezifanayo, eziza kutshatyalaliswa kamva, kodwa zenzelwe ukuwa. Injongo yokwenene kufanele ibonwe kwinto engaphiliyo, umzekelo, kwindlela yokuzonwabisa.

Ukudideka kunokukwazi kwaye kufuneka kube namava. Ukwenza oku, musa ukwenza izicwangciso zokuphindezela. Kufuneka ube ngaphezu kwalokhu.

Ekuqaleni, umzimba uya kuba nzima ukujamelana noxinzelelo oluye lwagxotha kuye, kwaye ke iingcali zengqondo zicetyiswa ukuba zihambe kwizinto ozithandayo, zisebenza. Kuphela emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, kwaye mhlawumbi iinyanga, ngaba kuya kukwazi ukuvavanya oko kwenzeka nangona mgangatho omkhulu.